Maintenance spankings

@StepfordMom I think you and my Mom read the same manual. She too has always been of the philosophy that reminder spankings serve to “remind” you what WILL happen if you don't continue with good behavior. I think Moms have a sixth sense about when their kids are good, but, something is brewing and this is a method to keep them from crossing the line.

Years ago when I had a domestic discipline relationship with a women, I was the submissive one. Every Sunday we would sit down and she would go over my behavior and actions for the week and give me directions and orders. Then I would be spanked, even if I did nothing wrong in her eyes. It was a spanking for me to remember my position in the relationship. I was not treated as a slave or a submissive, but it was understood that I would have to submit if she really wanted me to. Wed had a very normal relationship in other respects.The span king was hard with leather paddle. If I really did something wrong or disobeyed, I got the paddle then the strap. Along the way she started to cane me. That was a long time ago, 30 years

Maintenance spankings - just an excuse to smack your gal's butt. 😈😈

I am paddled on Friday nights, if I have any demerits. Getting my bare bottom set ablaze is no fun, but I feel that I deserve what I get. But going over my husband's lap, while we watch TV, having my pj's lowered, and getting hand spanked is something I crave, as well. These couch hand spankings usually lead to something more in our bedroom, if you know what I mean! My living room hand spankings are my “Maintenance” ones, I feel.

Maintenance spankings are just what they say they are.

Many females feel a need to be reminded to be good, attentive, obedient and so on. So on a schedule she will receive spankings. It can be a certain day or time or what ever the Daddy Dom says so.

For the female this works well. It keeps them in line and reminds them of how things will be and she feels better knowing all the rules and what is expected of her and if she does not do as she should do she will feel more spankings or other disciplines.

Why do so many people view a maintenance spanking as a weekly thing? What's wrong with daily??? :-)

Kelli Roxy I think you need a good daily spanking as you are holding a big enema while being plugged with a fat butt plug.

@Michael001 And males too! Especially husbands of Alpha Wives!! 😃!

In regard to maintenance spankings, I sincerely support this practice. Whether you are administering or receiving the spanking, the mutual acceptance of the spanking will bring both of you closer together. As an example of this, a few years ago I had become intimate friends with a female coworker who also lived close by to me. During the course of our enjoyable get togethers I decided it was time I gave her a spanking. When I related this to her, I will always remember her response, “all right, how do you want me?” She was clearly very agreeable to my spanking her, so I utilized the "tried & true" of taking a seat in a chair, gently guiding her across my lap and then removing her lower garments baring her lovely round butt. I regularly work out so even just using my open hand I can swat pretty hard but to my surprise as soon as she was in position she inquired, "are you going to use your belt?" Getting to my point, after administering the spanking, comforting her and the sex that followed, we began to discuss my spanking her. This lady really put it into accurate perspective. Basically, as follows:

As an adult, consenting to a spanking from somewhat, this is an expression of your desire to be closer to them and become the friend to them that others are not. It is also an expression from the person giving you the spanking that they desire you to be accountable to them and want you to be more aware of your behavior and such when you are in contact with them. Of course, this sharing enhances your sex too!

As our friendship progressed, I soon took my turn across her lap, and I experienced everything she so accurately described. We certainly had become the friends to each other that anyone else was not,,,,,,,,,,the point being that regularly administered maintenance spankings are in fact conducive to becoming a very special and closeknit intimate relationship.

RaytheGent

Maintenance spankings aren't just random or haphazardly applied. They are a scheduled reminder of what will be fall one if they are not being good and following their given rules or doing as they should.

I've been talking with my sub since I've been recovering and this may become implemented in our future. We'll be trying it out for a few weeks with in depth discussions to be sure if it is actually for us.

@reddevil said….

Maintenance spankings - just an excuse to smack your gal's butt.

Spankings are not just for gals bums. There are plenty of naughty males out there too.

I got basically weekly maintenance in my mid teens and really feel it was helpful for me.

Basically on Sunday night I’d have my pants pulled down and go over moms knee, and then we’d talk about the week. What went right, what didn’t, what was coming up in the next week. I’d get a chance to confess anything small I felt guilty about that she didn’t know that I wanted to take care of.

And as we covered each topic there’s be a short hand spanking, as a way to clear guilt for the stuff that was bad or as a reminder to focus if it was an upcoming thing or continuing thing.

And it helped me enter each week with a clean slate and a focus on what was coming and reduced the number of really bad punishment spanks I got

Hi, I used to get maintenance spanking from my dad as a little boy

The spankings I had weren't maintenance spankings. My dad spanked me for various mischief I got up to in those days, mainly imitating the pranks from the comics I used to read (the Dandy, the Beano, etc). The characters (Dennis the Menace, Roger the Dodger, etc) ended up getting the slipper from their irate fathers, which was exactly what I got for imitating them. Coincidence? I think not.

It’s just another excuse/reason to spank someone or to receive a spanking. For play, for sexual pleasure, for dominance, or for a perverse reason. No other reason than both enjoying it. In the case of a parent doing it to a child, it’s abuse.

Sheesh, I need them often. I can be quite naughty and obstinate at times. Spankings keep me in line. Only on my bare bottom will do 🫦how I love the sound and feel of a good, loud bottom smack!

I brought up the possibility of monthly maintenance spankings with my sub. No was not said, but neither was yes.

Seems to be fantasy some into spanking have.... back in the day, growing up, when spankings were quite common, never knew any of my friends receiving "maintenance" spanking. I did know some who were spanked at the drop a hat, though.

It sounds to me as just a somewhat elaborate and thought out consensual justification/agreement to give someone a spanking, no matter their comportment.

The emphasis is on 'consensual'. Someone likes getting spanked for any number of reasons, they meet up with someone who likes giving spankings and because of their upbringing or whatever, they have to shoehorn their desires into a system that justifies the spanking activity. Sounds like a sort of role-playing scenario in which both are not supposed to drop out of character and must stay on the agreed upon script. They do not wish to openly admit that they simply like the activity of spanking/being spanked.

The benefits would be that both like it.

Which is all fine with me.

I did not get maintenance spankings as a boy. But I very distinctly remember my dad once saying, "I think you should get a spanking every week to keep you in line whether or not you did something wrong." That sounded very ominous to me and I thought he might just start doing that! Of course, it wouldn't have been much of an increase in frequency!

My dad never said "I think you should get a spanking every week to keep you in line whether or not you did something wrong". He only spanked me when I did do something wrong, and sometimes it did happen a few weeks in a row when I was about 10.

I remember this TV we had that Rick would slap and swear at when the picture went wonky

It did not fix the problem. We replaced it with a new one.

This most likely would not fly with children.

My dad never said "I think you should get a spanking every week to keep you in line whether or not you did something wrong". He only spanked me when I did do something wrong, and sometimes it did happen a few weeks in a row when I was about 10.

Obviously a 'maintenance spanking' is not something that should be practiced on the underage. After all, if you are going to get spanked anyway, no matter if you did something wrong or not, why accept punishments without having done any wrong and just go ahead and cause whatever kind of childhood mischief that strikes your fancy? You're getting a spanking anyway, if you've been a choir boy or a rapscallion.

That is why maintenance spankings only work for adults, because essentially they are consensual with a bit of role-playing thrown in.

If you try and impose this on a child, you're only teaching them that comportment is not important. Which encourages bad behavior.

@agracier

I have no intention of imposing that on a child. Did I imply in my last comment that I would? I hope I didn't.

I have no intention of imposing that on a child. Did I imply in my last comment that I would? I hope I didn't.

Of course you didn't say or imply that.

But sometimes, in other accounts it seems that members have experienced something somewhat similar when young. I was just clarifying the definitions a bit more.

Not maintenance spanking.... but being told or threatened that your spankings should be more severe... I had always been spanked with the back of a hairbrush; I remember my father mumbling something about one of his work buddies telling him and trying to put a bug in his ear that he should be using a belt or strap on me....

The topic fascinates me, even though I have no experience with spanking. I do have a thread on the subject of regular rectal fever measurement. Basically it's about the same thing: Permanent discipline.

All naughty girls should receive maintenance spankings regularly as both a preventative measure and as a punishment for when they do actually misbehave!

What about naughty boys? Don't we deserve maintenance spankings regularly from women?

What about naughty boys? Don't we deserve maintenance spankings regularly from women?

Of course @Andrew_Finklehouse . What happens between consenting adults is between them. Maintenance spankings are not for or understood by everyone. Enjoy if you like.

I think maintenance spankings is something that can be ideal in some relationships.

I can imagine coming into our kitchen for breakfast where my partner is preparing breakfast only wearing a tee shirt and a pair of panties.

She brings me a cup of coffee. I smile and thank her, then move my chair away from the table as she positions herself over my lap.

I hold her side as I slide her panties down to her ankles and pull her shirt up above her hips. I take the time to admire her shapely hips, give them a squeeze and begin her morning maintenance spanking.

Her hips turn red quickly as I’m careful to spread the licks from side to side and top to bottom. When the spanking is over, she spreads her legs widely and reaches to spread her cheeks.

I feel her wetness and reach to give her clit a few soft pinches. She stands, rubbing her freshly spanked bottom before bending down to kiss me and whisper a thank you to me.

We both know it’s going to be a good day.