Friends Discussing Exams

One of my best friends went to the doctor because he thought he had an STD. He was in his early 20s, very athletic and good looking. Turns out he had a raw spot on his dick from masturbating. I can imagine him lying there, genitals exposed, while the doctor takes his penis and closely examines the skin and this lesion. I'm sure he would have checked for discharge too. All this while he was asking my buddy all about his masturbation and sex habits.

The only discussion that I have had about exams is during high school. I remember one time telling my friends about having a doctors appointment later that day and my friends teasing saying that I was gonna get my balls touched. Other than that we really didn't talk too much about it.

I do not think that my group of friends talk about things like exams much and really most British girls do not have exams really unless they have got a problem. Really it is just about having cervical smears every 3 years after we get to 25. We swapped experiences of that, like me when the nurse came around the curtain just when I was pulling my knickers down. hahaha I laugh when I remember that.

We did talk about exams a bit though when we were still at school because some of us had heard that to go on the pill we needed to have a full nude exam first that had a big chance of being with a male doctor too. But when I met my boyfriend (he is now my husband) I did not have any exam with any real undressing at all, it was not like that for any of us who went on the pill then, there was no breast exam and no taking knickers off for pelvic exams or anything like that. I think they wanted to know that your blood pressure was ok and if you smoked, I think the lifestyle stuff was the most important thing. I think they had stopped the pill exams before 2003 when I was 16.

I have talked to my buddies about getting an exam but nothing in depth. Maybe a joke or two about the turn your head and cough.

Once I heard two friends in a bus talking about their last school exam and talking about genital examination and embarrassment. This conversation interested me, although at that time I did not make the link with medfet.

In high school, most of my friends tried to find out which doctor was giving that years physical. Me and my buddies disliked the 1 doctor because his hands were always freezing cold and wet when he touched you penis and balls. Usually, we just joked about having our “balls played with” or “turn and cough”.

I have a friend who had a pre employment exam which she was nervous about and asked me what the Dr would be likely to do. Having had a couple of exams I stated what I had done myself a day what she likely have done to herself. Once she had been for her physical she said that she'd had all the usual exams ad I'd suggested but she was surprised that when her chest was auscultated the doctor had asked her to slip her bra off. I liked hearing about this especially as she said that she felt so embarrassed.

I have only talked to one friend about having a physical and that was when I was about 12 and used to have genital play with a boy in my grade in school. I was a jock and he was an unathletic but attractive and somewhat effeminate tall guy. We were at his house after school one afternoon and there was no one else there. He wanted to see my penis and I agreed if he showed me his. I had been secretly wanting to see his penis for some time, so I was glad when he brought it up. Somehow I had found out previously that we both went to the same pediatrician and had made a mental note of it. I suggested that we strip down to our underwear before we revealed our penises and he agreed. While we stripped, I said "this is how Dr. V makes me strip for physicals, does he do the same with you?" He said that he did. I was going to show my penis first. I told him that Dr.V sat on a stool and told me to "slip your pants down" and he said he did the same. I told him to be Dr V and I would stand in front of him while he sat down and got him to tell me to "slip your oants down." He did it and I complied. After my briefs were down,I told him to do with me exactly what Dr. V did with him. He picked up the penis and then felt the balls and had me turn my head and cough. I finished and told him it was his turn. We reversed roles and when he lowered the briefs, I saw my first uncircumcised penis. I asked him what Dr.V did with his penis and he coached me through my first foreskin retraction. After I saw his penis, he wanted me to take mine out again and he ended up jerking me off to completion.

Certainly did talk to friends about our School medical exams and what was likely to happen. This was boys to boys, but did wonder at the time what the girls went through, it was down to underpants to begin with for us then the obligatory look down them, this was at about 14 yo.

I remember my best friend mentioning the exam we all had in school a few weeks/months after. He said something about doctors and hoped any future ones "won't be rude with us" obviously meaning the genital exam.

When I was a kid, my mom was looking for a new family doctor and my best friends mom who was our next door neighbor recommended their doctor. My mother made arrangements for a physical for me. I asked my friend what the doctor was like and what he did during his physicals. My friend and his sister described their experiences. I couldn’t remember having a physical before so I pressed them for complete details. Afterward I compared notes on my experience.

Guys will be guys. That is the long and short of it. We are gonna joke about it. That's what we do.

I remember in 7th grade talking with several friends bout the upcoming school & sports physical. The basic school policy was 7 & 8th grade boys were required to see their own doctor. Unlike high school physicals, their (school board) believed the family doctor should be the one examining the boy’s genitals and hernia.

I already knew one friend but another 5 or 6 guys also went to the same pediatrician. Actually, my friend and I went to the doctors on the same day mine was the next appointment. It turned out our exam rooms were next to each other’s. Since, we were the first to go our buddies what to know the differences from last year’s physical. So during lunch or outdoor time both of us told the others what was done during our exam. We both agreed it was the same until the very end of the exam. The usual instructions- nurse said “strip to your underwear” and doc. checked everything just like every year.

Then we told our buddies the difference. We told them that doc. sat in his chair and “pulled my underwear down” himself to knee level. Now, my friend only had his mom present but I had both my mom and sister watching. Next the doc. looked and felt my penis and then felt the balls. For me, he also retracted my foreskin I don’t know about my bud if he was cut or uncut. It was actually a first time, I heard someone else getting a hernia exam “cough,cough”. Prior to this time, none of us had to stand up it was all lying on the table. So, we told them to expect next, the doc. would stick or push his finger into as we put it the “your nutsac or ballsac”an asked to cough twice on each side. We both agreed that ours balls hurt a-little after the exam. Then he said to get dressed.

When I was in like 10th grade I was talking to three female friends about my exam. One girl talked about how surprised she was that her pediatrician wanted to look in her panties at her last physical. This surprised me and I was like "Aren't you used to it by now?" That's when I learned that boys physicals were much more in-depth. They asked me to tell them about my exam and I did, but I left out the part about getting my foreskin retracted, because these girls had previously expressed their disgust with uncircumcised boys, and I wanted to keep my status a secret.

When I was in like 10th grade I was talking to three female friends about my exam.

I never talked to any girls in school about physicals but I knew from overhearing joking remarks they would make about boys' exams that they already knew we had our pants down, testicles felt, and hernia check. I imagined girls got the information from their brothers and talked among themselves. I would have been really embarrassed to have a conversation about the details of one of my physicals with girls, and, I actually was embarrassed that they knew what I had to go through.

I realize after rereading it that my post was slightly misleading. The first sentence was just intended as an intro. I wasn't openly discussing my exam, these girls were discussing theirs, then started probing me for questions when I expressed confusion.

I never expirenced that at all

My buddy was recently in the process of getting a job as a new police officer. This was a long hope of his, and it's a long process with many steps such as agility tests, psychological tests, interviews, background checks, etc. Over the past several months as this process has gone on, he's been excited to discuss each step. I knew there was one thing left-- his medical exam. As soon as it was over, I called him to chat about it; to support and encourage him of course...

He's 28, hispanic, shorter at 5'5, tight muscular soccer build. He's penis is circumcised, short and thick, 5.5" long erect, and with a huge mushroom head. When I called him, he immediately started telling me about it. He started with telling me the urine drug screen was the only thing still pending. "The doctor told me I was very healthy. They did a bunch of tests, like an EKG, blood work, lung volumes. Then, you know, pretty standard, I was just poked and prodded everywhere."

I needed more detail. I thought a joke would ask the question but deflect the intent, "Yeah, some fat old guy looked you over and said your balls were big enough to be a cop?"

"Actually, it was a lady. She was incredibly nice. She talked to me the whole time. But yeah, she was really thorough, I even got a finger up my butt for her to check my prostate."

Now, I'm completely erect, penis in one hand and phone in the other as I'm doing my best to imagine one of my best friends getting such a thorough exam. I kept the conversation going by telling him I'd never had a female examine me; I used to get erect as a teenager (he was shocked by this); I hadn't had a rectal exam (in a real exam, but he doesn't need to know everything...).

Turns out he had had a female a couple times before. This was his second rectal, first was a year or so ago last time he applied for a different police job. He said his first one kinda hurt and seemed rough. This one felt "weird."

So, I'm picturing this: A fit soccer player, stripped to his boxer-briefs as he's measured, stuck for blood, and EKG. After those preliminaries, it's time to get more intimate. He's so excited for this job, that he is willing to do anything the doctor says-- good thing because, he doesn't have a choice. I can imagine the doctor walking in, seeing this nice male specimen already up on the table, and thinking to herself about how the exam will go. It's an interesting dynamic that she's planned out this whole time what my buddy will endure, and he just finds out as it comes along.

I can see the exam proceeding in the usual fashion, with him low lying supine while she palpates his abdomen. She lowers the waistband of his underwear slightly to palpate his lower abdomen. She moves his muscular soccer legs through a series of range of motion tests. Then, "Alright let's get you to stand up."

I like to picture at this point, is when he's told to expose himself. Because she knows a rectal exam is in his future, I imagine she has him remove his underwear completely because they might get in the way of him spreading his legs. So now, he's standing there, completely naked. She's taking her time putting on gloves, while she's taking his sexual history (he has a pretty long sexual history...).

"Alright, let's have a look down here," she says as she rolls her stool over. I can see her grabbing his penis first, just taking a quick look in the meatus and then glancing at all sides of the shaft for any lesions. Dropping his dick, she moves to his testicles. This whole time, he's standing there, excited to become a police officer, looking down watching his random lady get a feel of his junk. She takes her time with each testicle. Then proceeds to the hernia exam. Inserting her finger deeply into his right inguinal canal, he's instructed to cough. At this point his dick is kinda pulled up right next to her finger, pulled by the traction on the nearby skin. Finishing the right side, she moves to the left. She grabs his penis out of the way by placing in on top of her knuckles while her index finger invaginates his left side. Finally, she withdraws her finger. He realizes from prior experience, she might not be finished...

Sure enough, "Alright well I'm sorry about this (not), but I need to check your prostate. Go ahead and turn around, bend all the way onto the table and spread your legs for me." She grabs some lube, and returns. First, separating his butt checks to look at his anus, then applying some cold lube and constant pressure with her index finger. "Okay, now, just breath, nice deep breaths in and out. You'll fell me go inside now." And he felt exactly that, her finger slipped in to tight anus and right onto his prostate. The feeling was something unusual for him. He stayed there, bent over, looking at the wall in front in him, thinking about how much he wanted to be a police officer...

The only time this happened to me, was when some girl friends of mine were going into high school. We were all 14 at the time. It was summertime and my friend Marie and I we’re sitting in a pizza parlor. Which by the way was right next door to the pediatricians office that Marie and I both saw. So we are sitting there drinking cokes and listening to the juke box, when our friend Ellen walked in and sat down with us. Well we were chatting as 14 yr olds do, when Ellen said to us, “have you guys had your high school physical yet? I said yes I had a few weeks before, and Marie said yes I just had mine a few days ago. We mentioned to Ellen that we saw the Doctor who was right next door. Well, Ellen, who was always dramatic, started talking about her physical and how embarrassed she was, even explaining that her doctor had her remove her panties for a quick look. But then she said her doctor said everything looks fine, but then said her doctor put a finger in the opening of her vagina. Ellen acted totally embarrassed, but then Marie said “ yeah, my doctor did the same to me. Hearing all this as a 14 yr old without a doubt caught my interest. To be honest I was out of my mind trying to imagine what I had just heard. Then Ellen had to leave, and so did Marie, but as Marie was leaving our friend Valerie walked in. So I stayed to talk to Valerie for a while when she asked what Marie and Ellen were talking about. And I told her that we were talking about our high school physicals. Then I asked Valerie, “did you have to undress to your underpants? And she said, “I wish”. His nurse told me to take off all of your clothes, bra and underpants included, and cover up with a sheet, that she said barely covered anything. Well needless to say I had masturbation material for months after thinking about those conversations. I haven’t though about this in years.

"..but she was surprised that when her chest was auscultated the doctor had asked her to slip her bra off. I liked hearing about this especially as she said that she felt so embarrassed.

Wow! Accounts like the above-quoted are just a gems for a guy with auscultation fetish 😄

Thank you, PD1007!

I have a few friends who talk about what their sports physicals were like.

I have overhead my mother and some of her friends talking about what it was like sitting in on their sons physicals.

When I was 18, I knew a 16-year-old girl (let's call her Ann) who had a VERY conservative mother, like ridiculously crazy religiously puritan, to the extent that she would not allow Ann to use tampons because it meant she was putting something in her vagina. Well, the mother "caught" Ann by finding tampon wrappers in the trash. I'm not making this up! Ann's mother then scheduled an appointment with her gynecologist as a punishment. She said, if you're going to behave like this, you'll have to pay the price like an adult woman. Ann told me that she went to the doctor, was alone with the doctor, and he explained to her what the exam would consist of. Then he told her that even though she was there, she didn't have to have the exam if she didn't want to. Ann decided it was okay and went ahead and went through with the exam. She didn't describe any more of it to me, but this was the first time I'd ever had a hint of what a gynecological exam actually consisted of.

Then when I was a freshman in college, I had another friend who was considering having sex with her new boyfriend, and went to the campus women's clinic to get birth control. I remember when she came back to the dorm, she told us that she hated it because "had no idea that the doctor was going to stick his whole arm up inside me while I had my legs spread out to him".

Thinking about those two conversations sill turns me on a lot!

Growing up we never discussed much about our pediatrician visits when talking to our friends. It just never really came up; however, it was not uncommon for 2 friends to be taken to the doctor by 1 parent and examined together. I am not sure about this but perhaps the price was cheaper for examining 2 guys in the same room. Not sure and never asked. I was examined with a friend on a few occasions.

Discussing what happened at our physicals happened at least every year between teammates of mine. Our school would host a physical exam clinic for all of the middle school and high school athletes early in the summer so we could get all the required forms filled out before the season started. A lot of us guys would see each other there and talk about how it went the next day at practice. We would joke about when we were waiting in line in the locker room for the hernia checks we could hear the friends in front of us get told to drop their pants and cough, even though they knew we had to do the same thing just minutes later.

I remember one time before my freshman year when I was just getting to know some of the older guys, the senior team captain said he had skipped the school clinic since he had just had an exam at his regular doctor a few days before. He went into detail about what happened. How the doctor had him naked to feel his balls then had him bend over the exam table and rubbed some lube on his asshole. "Then he just stuck his finger up my ass to make sure my prostate was still good." That was the first time I had even heard of that happening to anyone.

"Then he just stuck his finger up my ass to make sure my prostate was still good." That was the first time I had even heard of that happening to anyone.

This came up in discussions once the hernia check lost its shock value, probably around 13-14 y.o.

Don't know anyone who confessed to actually getting a DRE, so think it was just hearsay. I certainly didn't get one until later on. Worried about it though.

The last time I found myself talking about medical visits was when I was 13 or 14 years old. I don't remember how the discussion started, I just remember that he had just made his annual visit and we have discovered to have the same pediatrician(female).since I should have done it a little later, I asked him how it was. He told me it was almost like all the other times, if not at the end when she asked if he could check his private.He told me that he timidly said yes and so she made him take off his underpants and she started to check his penis by lying down, retracting his foreskin and then palpating his testicles. Once finished she had him dressed and asked him to have his mother returned. My visit went differently because in the room there were also my mom and my younger sister, but maybe for this strange reason at the end of my visit while I was lying down with her pants she just raised them a little to take a quick peek , fortunately for me it ended like this.

I have discussed the gyn exam with friends who are nurses before, asked questions, etc. Only a few of them know I am a medfet, and to my knowledge none of them are.

The most information that I ever got from a friend was when we were comparing the OB/Gyn. I wanted to change doctors and one friend recommended hers, telling me “and with his blue eyes he can do whatever he wants to do between my legs if you know what I mean.”

I was lucky enough to get an appointment with the same doctor. Swoon, she wasn’t kidding either. He could have asked me to ensure aaaany procedure and I would have consented.

As for men, I have gotten details from my husband of course but for the most part - except for one or two of my gay friends who tend to be more demonstrative than my other friends - not a lot of details have been forthcoming. As for the two friends I am referring to, they were quite frank... and I found myself embarrassed a bit by the level of detail.

Unfortunately I've not ever been in any discussions with friends about any past exams.

I’ve talked about it once with a few friends and compared the differences between exam procedures and level of undressing

It has been since my middle school years since a group of friends talked about exams. However, I still vividly remember the stories the other guys told which is a key part of my interest in physical exams. I also used to like to think about the girls I went to school with having to strip to their bra and panties, but never got to talk to any of the girls about their exams.