Friends Discussing Exams

We would talk about it as kids and then sometimes play what we had done to us.

I had a friend who would tell us about how she found her physicals very embarrassing. She would tell about having to take her clothes off infront of her mom and she hated that she wasnt allowed to keep her bra on, I think because she had big breasts. She also said she hated her breast exams because she hated letting the doctor touch her breasts.

My bf in high school told us, in MATH class, that she had a rectal exam. I think this may have been the beginning of my medfet. I remember being both horrified and aroused.

When I was younger, my gf"s best friend came over and told us that her mother took her to her first gyn exam. She said that she thought she was just going for her height and weight etc. She said the doctor had this "big metal pipe" and before she "knew it up it went". Later that evening she said she was still sore.

My girlfriend talked me into telling her about that an unexpected physical that I received by saying that she was interested in medicine and going to medical school and that, of course, her dad was a doctor so she was not shy about exams and knew about female exams, but not the other. She was curious about how boys were examined and eventually I gave in and answered her questions while we were in bed the next morning after my exam. She asked how much I was undressed and I told her that. She asked about what all the doctor did and at first I told her "just the standard stuff" but she got me to tell her about the internist checking my balls. I wasn't going to mention the rectal exam at all but when I skipped that part she asked me whether the doctor had checked my bottom. I told her "yes" but not how. She asked me if I had gotten a "rectal" and I told her "yes". She then told me that she had rectal exams as part of her annual pelvic exams and that she got those while laying on her back with her legs in the stirrups that were attached to the table. I told her that I definitely wasn't in any stirrups. Eventually she got me to tell her that I was bent over the exam table while the doctor had his finger in my rear. She thought that it was weird that I was bent over like I was getting a spanking, which I hadn't thought about. I skipped the part about feeling like I was going to pee because that seemed too weird. My girlfriend was definitely turned-on by these details. She was very interested in playing doctor after that.

I don't like talking about it with friends at all. To me it's just something you don't talk about. I don't know why. I'ts always been a source of embarassment to me. Even when I was young and my mom would mention to someone, we will be there at X time after her dr. appointment, or you have to get a physical for school, etc. It always seemed like she would scream it out loud and in front of everyone. I just didn't want anyone to know where I was going. Even if it was the eye dr. or something, and she would say, she has a dr. appt, it would embarass me to think that someone would think it was the actual dr (pediatrician) or whatever. I still don't talk about it now.

My friends and I definitely discussed going to the doctor when we were teenagers. One time, we talked about it on the bus home, and I'm sure some of the boys overheard what we said. The general consensus was it sucked being poked and prodded. But I think I secretly liked it. And still do.

It turns out one day classmate an I run into each other at the doctor office. None of the guys talked at the doctors until one day at lunch. We found the a few more of use went to the same pediatrician. Some of the guys wanted to know how he embarrassed you this time in front of your mom. My friend and I both said its now better a little better now since are siblings are longer in the same room watching. But you still the fun of stripping in front of your mom and a nurse. At 13/14 yrs old some privacy would nice. My friend and I said that if you thought the exam on table was bad he had a new tick at the end of the physical. No guy liked to be on the exam table because at the end he would pull your pants down exposing your penis and testicles for public viewing. The only part of the exam he took is time. Then usually he asked you to hop, jump, and stand on one foot then you could get dressed. Honestly we both would have preferred an old fashion hernia exam: drop our underware, turn and cough it would have been quicker and less embarrassing . Instead he calls you over to where he and your mom are sitting still in your underware. Without notice pulls your underware partially down exposing your privates and butt in case your mom did not get a look while on the table. Every 13/ 14 year old wants their mom watching someone examine your penis and testicles less than a foot way. That was my last visit and my friends.

Back in my college days, one of three of my roommates was having medical troubles. The roommate said he may be going to the hospitial if a kinney stone did not pass in a couple day. Then he starts to tell us about his medical problems from last year. We went to to a large Protestant Christian university in the southern part of the U.S.. The unversity protected students privacy medically you were examined by a member of the sex except for emergencies. My roommate tells us he started to have a little blood in his urine. While the doctor gives him a physical, penile exam/swab, rectum exam no blood in urine or stool. A specialist was contacted that had privileges with both the university an city hospital they would have scoped if he passed more blood. He passed more more blood and transferred to the city hospital. That city hospital respected university privacy standards an used male staff members. They have strip from the waist down and the male nurse starts the procedure by numbing his penis keeping cover as much as posdible during the scoping. No blood is found but is admitted for two days in case more blood is passed they could rescope immediately. Well he passed not blood again but next time he was to call the doctor and go directly to city hospital. Well, passes blood again goes directly to the hospital the doctor has everything prepared. No privacy or time to prepare for the exam. Immediately, the female staff had him strip and get on the exam table and using using numbing agent to his penis. He said the pain was horrible he could feel every inch of the probe being inserted because they could not wait until his penis became fully numb. No cause or bleeding was found after all of these procedures he never had this condition again.

Since I last posted, I’ve had 3 different occasions where I was either told directly or overheard exam experiences of others. They were all interesting in different ways (at least they were interesting to me – but I obviously have the “bug”). I’ll write them all up as I have a chance. The first one involved a fairly new co-worker/friend and the story came out when he asked me if I had a regular doctor that I liked here. He said he’d not had a physical in years and after he moved here at the beginning of the year, he went to one of these chain clinics/practices that do occupational medicine, physicals, etc. He said he picked the place because they are a sponsor of his bike racing team and he believes in supporting sponsors, and they advertise that you can get a complete physical, in and out, in less than 50 minutes. He said he was, in fact, in and out in just at 50 minutes, though he filled out all the forms in advance online. He said a male nurse took his temp and bp and such, and gave him a flimsy paper gown, making clear he needed to take everything off underneath. I actually asked him the gown, because I somehow had the idea already that a lot of clinics like that use gowns for all patients, whereas my physician doesn’t. When the doctor came in, he was surprised it was an older female. He’s in his late 30s and I inferred the doctor was at least 15+ years older than him though I'm not sure. He had no idea about the doctor he might see, but he commented he’d never had a male nurse and then a female doc. (I reminded him it was 2013.) The interesting part, and the object or ultimate punchline of the whole story was that at the end of the exam she abruptly told him to stand up from the table and lift the gown up so she could do a testicular exam and hernia check. He said she then pulled a stool up uncomfortably close to him and sat down so that her face was at groin level as she manipulated each testicle individually and then roughly used her index finger to do the hernia exam. He played football in HS and said he’d had a bunch of these over the years, but never one where the doctor (all of whom I presume had been male) had done it from a seated position a few inches away. When she was done, she told him he could get dressed and sent him to have blood drawn – but he said he couldn’t make eye contact with her after he’d lowered the gown. I asked him if her finger “went anywhere else,” and he laughed and said “no – I won’t be 40 for a few more years – I only got the close-up ball grab.” I agreed with him that it sounded uncomfortable and we wondered if that was her routine.

Like I said above, this (true) story came up offhandedly, but had some interesting details for folks on this board. The invasion-of-personal-space part of the exam was new to me (and obviously new to my friend, too).

Most of my friends won't discuss their exams with me, but when I just happen to hear people I don't know talking about their exams, I become immediately turned-on.

I did have one friend discuss his exam with me and my feelings were total jealousy as he had been asked to strip completely and was only given an napkin for covering himself. Unfortunately my friend lived in another city far away so there was no way I could ever go to his doctor. It has been my ultimate fantasy to have a real physical being totally naked, which has never happened to me yet except in play exams.

I think females are more open to talking about there exams with friends than males are. Females are more apt to asking questions to there female friends about there exams and experiences at the doctor than males i feel weird talking to other males abour exams

I think cdalberth is right. Women seem to have far fewer hang ups talking to each other about this from the little I know.

With other males I have only ever really discussed exams I have had with them as a group or the same exam/same doctor but with us being examined in separate rooms. Those discussions don't usually get going until we have had a couple of beers.

I'm working away with a group of male colleagues the same age as me at the moment. When we get back to London in a couple of weeks we all know we are due annual physicals. These will be carried out in private rooms with the doctors but we will all be at the medical centre at the same time and will have just the same exams. This has sparked lots of late night discussions in the hotel bar and it's clear a lot of the guys have medfet interests even if they don't perhaps know it... Most of them seem fascinated with what the docs may do to us 😉

I have to say, I've had a few experiences of male friends opening up and telling me about their examinations / experiences at the doctors. It's one of my favourite things.

The most recent was a few weeks ago - I went for a drink with a mate of mine (late 20s, good-looking), who let slip he'd had to go for a health check at a BUPA hospital that morning (he's started a new job and this was an insurance thing). I immediately thought, "wow, I wonder how much he'll tell me?" So I asked what it involved...

He told me all about having to go on a treadmill, have his lung capacity checked, how he'd been told he was an "ideal weight" and having to pee in a cup, etc. I thought it sounded too detailed not to include a genital exam, so I kept fishing for information - "right, what else did he check?" Eventually he went a bit sheepish and admitted the doctor had "had a feel of his balls." It was a big turn-on, getting him to say he'd been examined, so I laughed and said, "right, 'turn your head and cough' was it?" And he said no, his balls had been checked for lumps. It was great to imagine him only a few hours previously, with his boxers round his ankles, the doctor rolling his testicles in a gloved hand.

He finished up by saying, "yeah, it was really thorough - the only thing that wasn't checked was my arse - felt sure I was going to get a finger up my bum - phew!" We both laughed, but secretly I'd have loved it if he'd told me he'd had to have a rectal exam.

There's no guarantee here, but sometimes, as male to male, if you state that you are looking for a physician who does a thorough exam because you have been having nothing but cursory ones, you might be able to start a conversation. I have found guys to be very protective of their doctors, though, so such a conversation might barely start before being shut down, the details never surfacing. Perhaps guys, gay or not, don't want other guys imagining them being examined.

My male friends and I rarely talk about our exams, Ironically it seems that my female friends are very open about thier exams and do not mind asking questions pr offering/asking/sharing opinions!

Not with fellow males, but I like to discuss buttock injections with young ladies. It excites me to have them visualise me bending over with trousers and pants down for my shots and can encourage them to tell me about their own similar experiences, thereby thrilling me with the image of their shapely bare bottoms trembling before the needle. It was such a conversation that led to me playing doctor with my girlfriend in adolescence.

I've discussed exams with a female co worker before. But as a rule I find talking in person far too embarrassing. I even find it difficult saying words like stethoscope out loud, even heart or chest. Its ridiculous. I've always had a medical fetish, but found it so embarrassing as a kid when my Mum would discuss my examinations with her friends if I'd had to see the doctor. It was bad enough having to be examined in front of my mother and my teo sisters. I still try not to discuss it in person, although I'm more than happy discussing exams on here. Wheres the rationale behind all that hey?

There were a couple of occasions when a witness descirbed what she saw as opposed to me voluntraily discussing it.

One was after an injection when the nurse praised me for being brave and then explained to a waiting female patient, "He just pulled his pants and bent over my lap for his shot without any fuss".

The other was when I went with my younger female cousin, who was terrified of injections. I looked forward to comforting her as I watched her bottom bared and jabbed but the object of the exercise was for her to see someone injected without making a fuss and the shot was for me. She later delighted in telling everyone, "I saw him get a shot right back here" (pointing to her own buttock).

Both were extremely embarrasing for me.

"He/she put his left hand in, he/she takes his/her left hand out, he puts his/her right hand in, he/she takes his/her right hand out...He/she does the hokey pokey and he/she shakes it all about...that's what it's all about" 😁

Definitely one way to discuss it among friends! 😁

The hokey pokey! Yes! I heard a very beautiful young woman describe how she received an SSE in the hospital. She was so cute saying how embarrassed she was. Thu nurse had pressured her to take a lot and hold it for ten minutes. She blushed with embarrassment when she described leaking some fluid as she ran to the bathroom. She covered her face in shame when she described the violence and smell of her expulsion. It was delicious!

😁 My Best Best Best friend told me about her gyno exam

We were in a restaurant having lunch and beverage and talking 'bout her First Exam she was so comfortable with me that she went on for good 45 minutes how her exam went 😁 oooh lalala

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Could someone please tell me what an sse is? Thank you -Andrew

For me, it was a conversation with an attractive female coworker. She was discussing her thyroid condition and how during exercise, her heart rate would increase faster than usual, up to 200 bpm. She was sitting and then said, if she just stands up (which she then does), her rate jumps to 120 immediately. I was dying to either take her pulse or find a stethoscope to check her count. LOL.

could someone please tell me what an sse is? Thank you -Andrew

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In high school one of my buddies was joking about the exam he had just received. He said, "The doctor played with my balls. He wasnt very easy either, it kinda hurt. And then he told me to turn my head and cough." Same guy a couple years later got a military physical and he told me that he was standing there stark naked, and after the doctor "looked at [his] balls, he had [him] turn around and spread [his] ass cheeks."

I can actually say yes to this. I mean it's isn't like it doesn't happen. If it is someone asking who knows of a good doctor the conversation seems to get more and more detailed. Like someone may joke and say,"watch the poke in the butt". Then another may say my doctor has never done that. Another may say mine always does. Some will talk about manors. Then some will talk about size of fingers etc.

When I was in middle and high school, I would often overhear the young ladies talking about their sports physicals. It would get really exciting when they would talk about having their hearts examined. Once, in high school, my girlfriend (who played volleyball) was examined in a group setting. She said the girls went to the locker room and changed into their shorts and t shirts to practice volleyball. They came out of the locker room and were sitting on the bleachers in the gym chatting. When she coach showed up a few minutes later, she had the doctor with her. There was also a folding table set up in the gym near where they were sitting. The coach asked them to line up, the doc took his medical instruments out of his bag and placed them on the table, then he asked my girlfriend (who was first in line) to take off her shirt and sit up on the table. She said she was very surprised to be asked to take off her shirt, as her usual doctor listened under her shirt. But all of the girls on her team were examined that day with their shirts off, and unexpectedly, as they didn't know the school was bringing a doctor in to do their physicals. Yes, I got seriously turned on hearing that story!

Yes this has happened to me on a few situations especially during team sport days in middle school but nothing recently

Lately it seems to be happening a lot. Most of the people I hang out with on the weekends are in or are joining the 30+ club and for whatever reason medical and dental visits are becoming a frequent topic of discussion. During dinner last week at a friend's there was an impromptu roundtable on oral health, everyone's dental work and in progress treatments. It was a surprisingly no holds barred conversation that involved a flashlight tour of someone's mouth. Fortunately all this took place in a private residence, if this had gone down in a restaurant I would've had a "check please" moment when the flashlight came out.

I'm not sure if this is one of those "with age" things but these are not the kind of casual conversations I would have been having five years ago with friends.