Have you ever had a bad enema?

I total newb kept telling me how much they wanted to give me an enema I asked them over and over if they knew what they were doing, finally the day came and they wanted to just dump an entire gallon of milk through the tube with no regulating the pressure or pausing the flow. I called the scene to an end, and shortly after exiting the bathroom had to excuse myself because of non consentual touching.

Is it even possible to take enemas as often as most of the people on this forum do, and keep doing it and NEVER get a bad one?

The worst enema I have ever had was my first one given to me in a play setting. THe water was very cold and it was run in very fast and there was a lot of it. I will never forget it. That's why I still don't care for them.

Mashie

Mashie,

I just found and read this from 5/2018. So sorry you had that unpleasant first enema experience. I might feel the same way if that happened to me. Fortunately my first enemas were self-administered at age 15-16 and very pleasant and erotic. I hope over time Doc and you can share some truly pleasant, exciting and erotic enemas so you don't dislike them so much. I hope you're feeling better and still recovering well after your recent medical and surgical ordeals. Glad you're back commenting on Zity, too. All the best,

Eric

Not really any bad enemas but a few that for unknown reasons produced what I describe as extremely severe expulsion urges down low in my rectum, to the point that I almost lost the enema despite being plugged with an inflated DBC. Once or twice I've had some relatively small but messy accidents on the way to the commode despite the DBC. Those I would NOT like to repeat. Despite those very few incidents I still prefer and really enjoy very large enemas as large as I can hold for prolonged hold times, as I enjoy erotic distention and submissiveness a great deal. My max is 5 quarts for about a half hour and 4 for over an hour. A couple of Domme-supervised enemas from my ex were just about 3-3.5 quarts but went on for several hours, including a couple going overnight for about 5-6 hours. And my ex Domme REALLY enjoyed watching me struggle through them, especially since she had forced me to dress in total enclosure latex and heavy sneakers before the enemas! Great fun.

Eric

Is it even possible to take enemas as often as most of the people on this forum do, and keep doing it and NEVER get a bad one?

I think it just depends on your definition of bad. See my post just below.

Eric

Well I don't think I have had a bad enema. If bad also means uncomfortable then yes. I was giving myself a series of enemas, I was getting cleaned out really good and I think I had done two or three fillings of 5 quarts, so I was almost clear returns. I made the next filling very warm, nearly hot. So as I drained the water out of me, I went into the other room and we had two fridges there with an ice maker. I filled the bags up with ice and then ran the water so it was cool to almost cold I filled both bags, then I filled myself up.

I have never been so uncomfortable in my life. I had two bags full of ice water in me and I couldn't get it out fast enough. It felt OK going in, but then, I just couldn't handle any more. I stopped filling myself and dumped the bag out, one was in me, the other was going to go into me. I filled them with warm water, ran that in and then refilled myself with warmer water.

I said, never again would I do that. I have not done that again either.

Some people do enjoy cold enemas, I don't. I want the water as warm as I can stand and doesn't injure you.

Some people do enjoy cold enemas, I don't. I want the water as warm as I can stand and doesn't injure you.

"Cold" 50-70 degrees F is one thing, ice water is something else. I have done that and ice water is really cold.

"Cold" 50-70 degrees F is one thing, ice water is something else. I have done that and ice water is really cold.

A Domme once told me to put ice cubes in my rectum. It was so painful it lasted only a couple of minutes before I had to push them out. It was so cold it felt like I was freezing or damaging my tissue. I'll probably try some cool water enemas at some point, but never ice water.

Eric

A Domme once told me to put ice cubes in my rectum. . . .

I tried that ONCE with a very cold ice cube when I was in college. I wet the ice cube surface but the cube was cold enough so it froze back onto the cube. The ice cube slipped in pretty easily but I bled when I got it out so that was the one and only time I did it. Maybe a warmer cube that was in the process of melting would have been better, but it still didn't have the appeal I was anticipating.

I suppose you could call this "the bad enema" of my life, although no enema was actually given.

My GF at the time was living with another girl, who was in the living room of their apt. Jan and I started fooling around, and she asked me to give her an enema, and of course I said yes. We did this quite often to prepare for anal. She had this douche bag (can't remember the name) that was like a blue balloon. You stuck it under a faucet until it was full of water.

So we're in this little bathroom with a full balloon. The way this thing worked was to stick the nozzle in your ass (or pussy) first, then cozy the balloon up to it and push them together.

Well, when the balloon met the nozzle, the bag literally exploded! Very little had made it to the target, and it was all over the floor. In hindsight (! 😃) we should have done this in the tub, but I believe alcohol may have played a part in all this messiness!

We got over it and cleaned things up, and managed to have a great evening. I never saw another douche bag like that, and she bought a nice new enema bag shortly thereafter. I shoulda married that girl. She was something!

She had this douche bag (can't remember the name) that was like a blue balloon. You stuck it under a faucet until it was full of water.

That sounds like the old SHY bag.

Thanks Susie, I think yer right! Dang thing must have slid over something sharp and KABOOM!!! Glad that's in my past!

AZDiane,

Back in 2014 you said "Playing with the edge of pain is a symptom of my klysmaphilia. I don't ever do other things to deliberately cause myself pain, but in my solo enema play I often enjoy filling myself until it hurts.... hurts so good."

How much do you need to take in to feel like it hurts so good? Any particular solution or just anything until you get to a certain volume? For me, I usually do 4 quarts and rarely 5 quarts, but it never gets to hurting, just a strong pressure sensation which I like.

Thanks,

Eric

I’ve had the dropped bags, the separation of tubing disasters. The worst actual bad enema occurred when I’ve used too much Dr Bronners. It was very soapy and I thought , what fun. It ran in easily and about two quarts when I realized there was no way I was going to be able to retain it. With my guts cramping I removed the nozzle and immediately lost the entire enema on my bed, the bedroom floor and carpet, and the bathroom floor. And worst of all, it was the first in a series. I expelled most of it before I got to the toilet but tenesmus kept me glued to the seat for some time. What a disaster.

Just one...... I might of added too much soap..... I thought i tasted it, kind of made me sick

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In all my years of taking enemas, I can think of only one enema that stands out as a "really bad enema".

It was my second Mayo Enema. That particular adventure turned out to produce cramps that would bend steel and nausea that left me drooling into the trash can that rested between my legs as I sat on the toilet trying to expel the gas and what little solution that was trapped inside me. To say this particular enema was a bad enema is a gross understatement. In fact, I've never tried a Mayo Enema again.

The first "Mayo" I ever took was quite effective and while it was fast-acting, I suffered no ill affects. But the second one I tried some months later was a different story! And that was years ago!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Lol, Debgurl. I had a similar experience. Good, I suppose, to hear someone else had issues with a Mayo!

In all my years of taking enemas, I can think of only one enema that stands out as a "really bad enema".

It was my second Mayo Enema. That particular adventure turned out to produce cramps that would bend steel and nausea that left me drooling into the trash can that rested between my legs as I sat on the toilet trying to expel the gas and what little solution that was trapped inside me. To say this particular enema was a bad enema is a gross understatement. In fact, I've never tried a Mayo Enema again.

The first "Mayo" I ever took was quite effective and while it was fast-acting, I suffered no ill affects. But the second one I tried some months later was a different story! And that was years ago!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Deb,

Never done anything like a Mayo or M&M. What was different about the second bad one? Were the formulas of the solutions the same for both? Thanks,

Eric

Hardest one I ever took and only made it through 3/4 of the bag before I lost control and it came out (glad I was in the tub cause it was a full rectum of poop) was a ice cold milk enema. Only did that once.

Deb,

Never done anything like a Mayo or M&M. What was different about the second bad one? Were the formulas of the solutions the same for both? Thanks,

Eric

Eric,

I have no idea what happened the second time around. Perhaps my body was just not in the mood for a Mayo enema that day. But suffice it to say, it was such an awful experience I've never tried another one!

Deb

Susie,

A long time ago in this thread (2012) you replied

I suppose that many of my early enemas seemed punitive and therefore might be classified as "bad". But, once one learns to go with the flow, the punitive aspect is significantly diluted. . . .

Oh, no, punitive enemas aren't bad at all.

I LOVE to GIVE punitive enemas and they are WONDERFUL.

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I didn't see any other comments of yours on this thread. You may have changed your thoughts or opinion on this after a number of years, but I'm still curious. What sorts of punitive enemas do you prefer and why are they wonderful? And is this you as a giver, receiver or both?

Eric

Yes I have over filled my self a few times to the point of needing to hold the bathroom garbage can not knowing if I’m gonna be that sick or not and also I’ve had to strong of a soap suds enema to where I’ve tasted the soap in my mouth and it made me so sick to my stomach I wanted to curl up in a ball but couldn’t because I was expelling the enema.

The only bad enemas I ever received is when I was growing up back in the late 1950s and early 1960s. I can't remember what I did but after a naughty bare bottom spanking with her oval oak hair brush. My Mother fixed a one quart enema of cold water. She hung the bag from the shower curtain rod which was about 5 feet higher than where my mom put the well lubed nozzle into my well lubed rose bud hole sticking her finger deep inside with a dollop of Vaseline. She slid her finger out and replaced it with the nozzle and took the clip off the tube. The cold water rushed into my rectum and bowels giving me massive cramps. I was already crying from the spanking and the cramps made matters worse to the point I was yelling so loud I'm sure the whole neighborhood heard me. The bag emptied quick and I was doubled over in pain. I had to hold the enema for three minutes before she let me evacuate it. When I was done, I had to bend over the sink and let her wipe my dirty bottom.

I told her I was very sorry for what I had done, she forgave me and told me to take a nap before dinner.

In my >50 years of receiving (ex-wife and ex-GF's) or taking (me, solo) enemas, I've had what feels like 3 noticeable kinds of discomfort, but none of which rose to what I'd call pain.

1) cramps, felt almost anywhere,

2) intense urges to push, open sphincter or evacuate, usually felt very low in the rectum,

3) non-crampy colorectal wall irritation, felt anywhere, feeling like an overly strong solution (soap, glycerin, etc.) is just burning or irritating the wall.

Now there are many other enema feelings including water or gas movement, rectal temperature changes and internal mild to strong pressure and fullness which I enjoy, never painful at least so far up to 4-5 quarts of enema.

The only times I've felt like it was a bad enema were a few times with either strong soap or glycerin or both, which gave me such strong #2 pushing urges that I felt like I was leaking and couldn't control my sphincter, almost like I was about to dump the whole enema before I could reach the commode, even with a DBC inflated. Fortunately, the real accidents were limited to a brief spray just before getting to the commode seat.

I never try to intentionally produce cramps, but if they're pretty mild to moderate I can actually enjoy them as I know they're going to end shortly. Even up to my routine 4 quarts or rare 5 quart enemas held for 20-60 minutes, I've felt and seen very pleasant pressure and distention, but never pain or any hint of nausea. Now taking and holding that much volume and water weight makes me feel very full and distended, and rather awkward to even roll over or stand up and walk. But personally I find those pressure and distention features to be very pleasant and erotic, especially when being consensually forced to endure them by a trusted Domme giving it to me.

Eric

I am not sure what bad really means. I had one enema I swore I would never do again.

I was living in Cincinnati and in our basement we had a freezer and two refrigerators that had ice cube makers. So one day I was going to give myself an enema, we had a half bath in the basement, I said, I will fill one of my bags up with ice, run some cold water and fill the bag. Was agreat idea until the water started to flow.I think the other bag had cool water in it. Anyway, the ice cold water started to flow, I think I got about a quart or so in me and I had to stop. I dumped the bag into the sink, ran some hot water into the pitcher, dumped the other bag and put more hot water in that bag. I turned on the clamp, ah yes, nice warm water flowed into me and I got rid of the ice water I put in me.

The water was so cold, I shivered and still do so today and that has been about 30 years ago or so. The water hurt and my insides said no way this is going into me. I had some cramps and I said never again.

After I filled myself with the hot water, it was very warm, hot super hot, I felt better. I got all the first 2 quart bag in me, then I started the second 2 quart bag. I felt much better. I then expelled the warm water, some of the earlier cold water came out also. I kept re-filling myself with the very warm water until all the cold water was out of me. I learned that ice water was not the way to go.

Yes I was stupid, I should have known better, but now and then we all make mistakes. That was one enema I will never repeat.

After about 6 bags of warm water I finally warmed up, I felt good and finished my enema series. I vowed to never do that again and I have not ever done it again.

I was on the X-ray table with a barium enema running. We had a blow out of Barium that went everywhere. To me, that was a bad enema. I was just starting to enjoy myself when it happened.

Cold water or ice water enemas are very painful and crampy. They have been given as punishment enemas. No fun at all.

All of my enemas have been good enemas. I can't ever remember a bad one. Even a bad one is it a good one. Go figure

It's not at all bad when taken for pleasure or kinky fun, maybe little punishment or embarrassment to make it exciting 😆

I've been given unwanted enemas. I've also been given enemas that were larger than I liked, that I had to hold longer than I wanted, etc. None of them were truly bad even though they seemed so when I was a boy. Looking back, I remember those enemas fondly. Thanks, mom!