Pee Shy

So I don't get it.....I love being naked, doesn't bother me to be naked around anyone honestly. But when it comes time to pee, if I'm at a urinal or any place someone can see me...I lock up like a clamp and can't pee. Anyone else have that issue?

Had that issue when I was young. In summer camp I would go to the trees to pee rather than in the shower house. Then came 90 day wonder boot camp... You peed or tried to hold it for another 5 hours...

Skybear

Yes I have the same problem, that is trying to piss in front of someone. I have went fishing with a couple of friends before and stayed out for several hours. They could hang it out over the boat and take a piss but I would not try because i knew I couldn't pee. I would try not to drink very much so that I could hold it. When we got back to shore I would find a bathroom and make sure no one was in it so I could piss. I still have the same problem to this day with the exception that I have got to where I can pee in my pants in front of my wife. I can also pee in a diaper. I have only done it about four times because she don't like it but I sure did. Also when I go some where like to stores I find a stall and go into it and sit on a toilet so I can pee. If someone can tell me how to solve this problem I will be thankful.

Try to build up volume to where it is almost hurting then have someone hold your pecker for you... You might as well laugh a lot because eventually you will start and stop a lot but then it gets easier and easier.... With someone hanging on to you it is the ultimate in shyness...

My friend will squeeze me hard then release just to make me groan, but for her she can bend backwards slightly and let me open her P lips then she can release so easily I am just drenched.

I know this is more a topic for the guys, but I have the same problem. It used to be no big deal because I had a bladder like a camel and could go for hours without needing to pee. Now that I'm a little older and in end-stage renal disease, holding it for very long just isn't possible, when I gotta go, I gotta GO!

I have a gentleman friend that is very much into water play and would really like to get me interested too, but due to my shyness (and being raised by a Victorian Puritan) I just don't feel comfortable engaging in such things - yet. I did tell him that if he wants to do that, he should probably introduce a catheter and then stand well back!

And that's it from my side of the fence!

Ladydocisin, if your "gentleman friend" does not get the hint, I urge you to scour the marketplace and replace the "insensitive unobservant" sod. YOU deserve much more in the way of attention.

Thanks rain, for the support but no replacement is necessary. I should clarify that I've known my friend for two years but we are in the very early stages of a physical relationship. So we're In that exploring and learning place. I'm discovering what rocks his world and he's learning what trips my circuits. It's all part of the learning curve.

I think this problem of being unable to pee in public is the thought that you may be smaller than the next man and so feel intimidated and I am wondering if the ladies have this problem .

I am one of those guys who has trouble peeing in front of or around other people - as like next to another guy at a urinal. Peeing after a deep sleep is also difficult and I have to wait or go in little spurts.

Due to the cancer and radical cystectomy, I would obviously now be embarrassed to pee at a urinal The probably that I have had as long as I can remember is that I simply cannot have a bowl movement in a public facility. Absolutely no way. Unfortunately, my little grandson is doing the exact same thing!

Im too shy to pee if somebody is looking at my penis while peeing.

I've had that issue all of my wife.Don't know why, I have no broblem being naked around others, but for some reason I tense up and can't pee in public. I even have trouble giving a urine sample at the doctors office. I usually end up taking the cup home and returning with a sample.

When you are in the Navy, you get used to communal showers and heads. By the time you leave Boot Camp, you have very little sense modesty. If you get stationed shipboard or with the Marines, whatever feelings of shyness about your body you have left is totally torn asunder.

Me, personally, have no problem with nudity. (If my sister-in-law wasn't staying with us, i'd be nude more often. It is to respect HER modesty, not my own.)

Also, I was in the Navy when they started doing random drug screening, and a Master-At-Arms would have to watch you give a urine sample to make sure it wasn't contaminated, that it was your own urine, (Yes, people have been known to, or at least attempt to, substitute someone else's urine sample) and to maintain a legal chain of custody. After all that, you can pretty much go on command, and you don't care who is watching.

I have a big problem when men are around while I'm peeing. having women around when peeing is no problem for me but when a woman watched me peeing I want to watch her peeing, too. I think this is only fair

I definitely have this problem. My problem is mostly that I am trying to sneak a peak at other guys' penises at the urinals near me. The anxiety makes my penis really shrivel up too.

I am shy when i have to pee so much so that even in the rest room i have to use a stall.

Wow. I thought I was the only one. I have had that issue all of my life, being unable to pee (or poo) in a public place if anyone is around. I absolutely cannot make it come out. My system even stops and locks up if I hear someone walking in. My choice is to either leave and return later hoping the ladies room is unoccupied, or simply hold it in. (I am good at that.) It is not a problem at home or with my guy, but I simply cannot go among strangers

This isn't a purely male problem. Women have it too. But not me! I'll admit, my reputation for being a lady goes out the window in the bathroom, but it's worth it. It's a good thing men aren't in the ladies' room.

What you need to do is take control. Once you're in the stall, pump out that pee, push out the poo [god, I hate that word] and let the farts roar! When you're done, wipe up, wash your hands, check your hair and make-up and leave. The people in the other stalls will wish they had your ability to do their business and get back to what everybody else is doing, instead of sitting there waiting with full bladders and over-filled rectums, unable to empty, waiting for everyone else to leave the restroom before they excrete!

What you need to do is take control.

I think it's the other way around, you have to relax and let go!

Let loose and give it away.

I'm pee shy in medical environments. No matter how much I drink, when I go to the lab or to the urologist, I usually just can't pee, even though the bathroom is private. I don't have issues peeing in a public restroom or with the bathroom door open with significant others.

I think it's the other way around, you have to relax and let go!

Let loose and give it away.

No, I mean you need to be the master of your body, take control and make it happen.

I AM THE DOMME!

The ones who want to "relax and let go" just keep sitting there instead of getting it done because they don't relax. You tell your body, "Body, take a shit/piss and do it NOW!" and then you do it.

I don't give anything away.

Being pee shy is a nuisance, but you sort of get used to it and adapt so you're not trying to pee alongside other guys. I'd love to find a cure though!

I'm sure (for me) it's nothing to do with embarrassment about the penis though. It's a vicious psychological circle that you think that other people know you're not peeing (because there's no sound of tinkling or they can't see the stream). Going into a stall to pee is usually fine because you don't feel observed.

It's a real nuisance though in both real and play medical situations, where you're asked to produce a specimen.

Still, glad to know there are other sufferes out there too.

I used to but when I was a kid but now it flows no matter who's around. It's fun to walk up to a urinal and let it go while anyone else that may be there suddenly shuts down. Of course Karma will get me one day when nothing will come or I start to go no matter what.......

Same happens to me - I just go in cubicle

Yea ive got the same problem it can be annoying

I am 58 years young. I don't have a problem with peeing in front of other men. When I was a kid, my older brother and I would share the bathroom peeing side by side. And with my dad too, we would be out on a trail ride, riding our horses , we would just get off the horses stand side by side undue our pants and let it flow. Dad would see me and I always watched my dad. He had such a great looking cut penis. We just didn't try to hide it.

T'Ai Chi is effective, I have helped several people with shy bladder syndrome. You don't have to do a whole routine before urinating. Practice a move called "Around The Platter" you simply hold your hand in front of your chest palms down and trace an imaginary platter in front of you. Men will have to do it with only one hand. Just concentrate on that and not urinating, be sure you are aimed in the correct direction. Later on you can do this mentally if you practice enough.I have added the non T'Ai Chi move of lowering the hand to the waist then back up, for some reason this works for some men,

This also happens to me.

If a guy went into the stall to pee, would other guys think he was weird if they were at the urinal?

I've always thought it weird that guys pee in front of other guys in public bathrooms. It makes sense to me that it would be really hard to do. Then again, I also find it weird how so many girlfriends (straight I mean) go to the bathroom with each other and carry on talking while they do their business.

Some people are just that way. I have seen many females not be able to pee in front of me when I worked at a hospital. Sometimes I would end up with the duty of a pee party. This is when new applicants would come and take drug test. Open stall and toilet with dark blue water in it. I would have to watch and make sure they did not have any pouches etc. hidden full of clean pee. A lot of them just could not pee.