Doctor's finger in your rectum

Im pretty anal erotic now, had been fingering my bum for years, then one day between age 16 and maybe 18 i had a terrific pain in my stomach area and was taken to hospital where a dr examined me all ober and pushed a finger up my bum, didnt think much about it either way, ended up with no obvious cause of pain and was sent home, pain had gone.

Fast forward to recent years and there being lots written and on tv etc about prostate cancer and the need to get it checked, so made a dr s appointment, and saw a woman id not seen there before, now she was rough, rammed a finger in and poked hard every where, not fun, ended up some time later going to hosp for further tests...another woman, now she was gentle and talked through it, and she was attractive, if only.......

So some drs can be good, others bad.

I mentioned how I got two DREs as a kid for appendicitis. The second one had no surprise effect (been there done that) but the first one had. After appendectomy was done and I could recover my senses, I thought humiliated. Neither my mother, nor the first physician (our GP, who knew me personally) nor the second physician had bothered telling me that I would be getting a finger deep in the behind.

Common decency would dictate that before doing something like that, you would warn the patient. I guess physicians were trained not to tell to much to kids.

Common decency would dictate that before doing something like that, you would warn the patient. I guess physicians were trained not to tell to much to kids.

Knowing kids, they would probably start crying or wailing just at the thought of some things, no matter how actually inconsequential physically (a rectal temp comes to mind). So I would suppose that doctors, from experience, know it better to just do something that is over with quickly, unannounced and get it over with before the kid has a conniption. Spares both lots of grief in the end ...

Years ago when I had a doctor that did DRE's my first thought or feeling when he pulled out his finger was that I wanted to get the lube off my anus.

Regarding DRE's - I always feel that the doc's doing them are too gentle, and as such they don't really feel the prostate - how do you tell a doc it okay to really feel around, and do whatever up there... The best I did was to say something asking if he could really feel anything...

If you know it's going to happen in advance, a degree of dread and fear. There is no greater embarrassment or submission to another that I can think of than letting them enter your rectum, perhaps in the presence of a student as happened to me. Doctors seem divided between those who timidly slip one finger in (which hardly compares with what emerges most mornings) and those you use two fingers and more vigour. @RichardAsni - my guess is that two fingers can quickly cover and press the prostate to assess size, texture and lumps, and experienced medics often want to get the unpleasantness over as fast as they can. But two fingers straight up your anus can be quite a shock.

Afterwards, I found the Dr wiping lube off my bum strangely the most embarrassing thing. Nobody wipes anyone else's bum, outside of childhood and senility. Back home afterwards, well I suspect that is when our minds replay the experience and may start to derive pleasure from it.

I suppose humbling was the experience as I remember it, being taken too the clinic by a cousin of my mom's, with her two nieces and a friend of theirs who had the same pediatrician, too have myself checked for poison ivy and worms. I was a month shy of my 14th. Birthday, and feeling really nervous about the possibility of having too discuss my anatomy issues in front of a bunch of females. I wasn't given time to be mortified by that possibility, because the doctor skipped talking too me since yanking down my underwear and having a close look herself in front of everyone save so much time. She was of the same mind as my Aunt, (she was actually a second cousin on my mom's side of the family, but I felt calling her Aunt was more respectful) which was that boys are not allowed privacy because modesty is not a male entitlement, and the only thing I had to be embarrassed about was allowing my equipment too get inflamed from something I got into. Her fingers, along with all three younger girls, and thier Aunt and neighbor, went up into my poop shoots, around my nutsack, and erection, as she showed them how to examine me, advising I not wear anything for two days and check my clothes for dampness before giving them too me too put on. It turned out a fungus had wreaked havoc on my lower extremities from spending all day in sweatsoaked clothes and swimming trunks, the lady doctor reminding the relative I was staying with why their brothers were not allowed to wear swim trunks when they were kids and that I shouldn't iether during the muggy summer months. I didn't, and those girls had a good old time spreading my legs and inspecting everything, inside and out. Embarrassment was something we I became desensitized too, and actually took pride in the compliments I started receiving for doing a better job cleaning my asshole and nutsack during inspections. Humbling indeed.

@BulgeInPants Yes but the person who posted was female, so no prostate.

I find it strange that there is a lot of conversation around men being placed in stirrups, not to say it does not occur but in all my life attending GPs iv not even seen any evidence of stirrups....to the question however, I feel more anticipation. Sometimes insertions are just beautifully smooth and others there is a little discomfort, I’m always anxious to see what one will it be.

I find it strange that there is a lot of conversation around men being placed in stirrups, not to say it does not occur but in all my life attending GPs iv not even seen any evidence of stirrups....

Most exam rooms I’ve seen have tables with retracting stirrups that slide back into the table. My wife had Pap smears on them. I never used them.

Back to the question, never had a painful DRE.

I'd assume I was wrong and the exam is NOT over ... yippee!

In a real exam, I do have some feelings of dread that something terrible will be discovered when the doctor has a finger in me. However, in a play exam it is fun, but I am somewhat disappointed that the entire exam will soon be over.

I’m just always shocked it’s over so fast. No sure how they can actually tell anything from a quick 10 second insertion.

I've experienced DRE a fair number of times, the first I wasn't expecting until just before. I thought it would be painful but he was obviously skilled and I didnt feel much until he felt my prostate, which set off a very brief autoerotic response. I was rather ambivalent because I quite enjoyed it but felt I shouldn't. I couldn't very well ask him to do it again and spend more time, though I wouldn't have objected if he did.

I since fantasised a lot about having medical DRE and role plays. But for me it is more authetic in a true medical setting. There are legitimate homeopathists who will perform prostate massage as a treatment against enlargement. Milking is part of that, and is something I have experienced also.

So would I have a choice between the dre or blood test when it comes time for my doctor to test for that? You think it would be strange if I asked for the dre instead of the blood test?

Both for sure

My doctor did tell me that he only does the blood test but I got a prostate exam in May and my doctor let me choose between the psa and dre. I had a different doctor then though

Meh, it is what it is. I’ve had bigger and more pleasurable things in me.

I remember when I was a very young boy my mom took me to a doctor due to constipation issues and the doctor first pressed on my tummy and then rolled me on my side slid down my shorts and underwear and slipped his finger in my bum. I remember it took me by surprise of course. I could feel the doctor move his finger around when he was deep in my bottom. Even at this young age I noticed it sure felt good as he moved his slippery finger around in my little butthole. I noticed a small tickle feeling spreading through my entire body and I had no idea what that was but I knew it felt good but strange at the same time.

I have mixed feelings of anticipation and anxiety when my play doctor positions me on all fours for my rectal exam knowing he will soon be inserting his gloved finger deep in my lubricated anus. He often repeats this while stimulating me for my semen sample. He knows i have to accept this for my own good.

I was just bent over a table when he finger went in me, he felt around a minute, then pressed down hard on my prostate and i shot off,,oh my god ive never been turned on so much or so fast in my life,, he knew what happened cause the handed me a tissue afterward, i swear if he would have just took his finger out and shoved his cock in i would have been so happy , such i erotic moment

I've only experienced it once, completely naked with my knees drawn up to my chest. Pretty hot, due to the embarrassment, vulnerability, and the fact that a female doctor did the DRE.

When my doctor did that to me it only lasted about 10-15 seconds and i was on my side,i was more concerned what she may find,than the pleasure of it,i didnt feel embarassed at all,if that is what the doctor has to do then so be it.

Listen to this ! At 40yrs old I had to get an aviation physical ,so for the so called prostate exam he put an enormous amount of Vaseline in my rectum and had me bend over this very well padded bench in the corner of his office,it was padded with velour ,not leather and I’m sure he designed it that way so you wouldn’t slide around on it,I was naked and semi hard after he had just finished the ” balls,cough” routine and he stuck one finger in me,twisted it around,then another finger! Asking if I felt discomfort,I said “ no” I almost couldn’t feel anything because of all of the Vaseline! by then I had a wicked hardon.he stopped,cleaned his hand off and went over and locked the door, phoned his receptionist that he would need extra time with me ! I was seriously wandering why! I asked what was wrong with me, he said nothing really but if you let me take a few liberties “back there” I will cause you to have a intense orgasm! My dick was throbbing at this point and I agreed,I heard a clunk and looked down and his trousers were at his feet and he was sliding his long skinny dick in and out of my ass,he came quickly then jacked me off! Best physical Ive ever had!

I asked what was wrong with me, he said nothing really but if you let me take a few liberties “back there” I will cause you to have a intense orgasm! My dick was throbbing at this point and I agreed,I heard a clunk and looked down and his trousers were at his feet and he was sliding his long skinny dick in and out of my ass,he came quickly then jacked me off! Best physical Ive ever had!

And then you woke up. To borrow a phrase from @Deviant1

And then you woke up. To borrow a phrase from @Deviant1

Here, here!

I've thought about it long and hard (NO pun intended….well, maybe) and just can't get into other guys. The idea of my ladylove pegging me is about as close as I get. BUT a LADY DOC with nimble fingers (and a cute smile) would definitely do the job!!

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The idea of my ladylove pegging me is about as close as I get. BUT a LADY DOC with nimble fingers (and a cute smile) would definitely do the job!!

Oh I do get that . . my post #166 of 2015 explains

A woman's touch

I love the feeling when Doctor`s finger examine the inside of my rectum during play.

I think the feelings before he puts his finger in me I like more than the finger in me it's self the feeling of being completely exposed when he spreads my cheeks and is looking at my butthole the feeling of excitement has I watch him lubing his finger then the little bit of nervousness as he touches my butthole knowing the next thing he is going to do is penetrate me with his finger once his finger is in me it is over pretty fast after that.