Doctor's finger in your rectum

What are your feelings at the end of your examination, your feet are still in the doctor's examination stirrups, When he inserts his finger in your rectum. Enjoyment or Dread or maybe something in between ?

Embarrassment and fear that he might find something wrong with the prostate or colon. Also that he may have some poop on his finger.

Have never had it done by a real Dr while in stirrups, that could be interesting. I would time some enjoyment, but generaly try to keep real exams on a clinical level. Now a play exam would be different, would like it to be in stirrups of course with excitement, and enjoyment.

My feet were not in stirrups, they were on the floor and I was leaning over the table. I was surprised how fast she (Physician's Assistant) was. It was over in a flash except for the squishy feeling between my cheeks.

I was 12 at that time when I was constipated and was unable to go for 3 days . My mom tried everything , figs, apricot ,laxatives and nothing seems to work .she took me to the doctor and after he examined me by palpitating my abdomen.He told my mom that he needed to talk with her.While I laid still ,I overheard the doctor telling my mom that he needs to do it and that it is going to be very uncomfortable to me. I had no idea what were they talking about.A nurse came and told me to remove all my clothes.I was horrified, I looked at my mom but she only nodded her head. The doctor told me to sit on my knees with my head down. I couldn't imagine what he was about to do.he told me to stand still then I felt something( knew later that it was his finger) pushing at my anus. I almost jumped.he told the nurse to hold me down.i started to scream and cry begging my mom to let him stop cause he was hurting me .of course he didnt. Suddenly he withdrew his finger and told my mom that I had a bad constipation.Is it a common procedure at that age?

I had a similar exam like Diamoura did, only mine was done at home. Doctors made house calls back then. My mom held me down as I kneeled on my bed and the doctors vasiline slick finger gently going into my rectum. His finger got about half way in before it hit the blockage. He pulled it out and wiped it off, and told my mom to give me an enema and I would be fine in a few hours.

At that age 11, 12, 13 is when anal stimulation started feeling good and it only grew from there.

I'd say something in between. Of course typically for guys its done standing up instead. Leading up to it, I'm excited yet nervous when my cheeks are being spread open, knowing what is coming next, anxious that it'll be uncomfortable. I guess during there is almost a sense of relief in that, you can go, okay well this isn't all that bad and next thing you know its done with.

It started for me at about age 6 or 7. i was on a boys ward in the childrens hospital. the first few times I fought and had to be held down but then i began to really enjoy the nurse "Checking My Bum" hence my love of rectal exams, temps and enemas. this of course was prior to my surgery. loved the sweet smell of the gas. after this as i remeber two of the girls that used to watch me began using me as their patient. in this day and age what they did would be considered sexual abuse. Anyway, I like being the patient. Thinking that just maybe I will schedule my colonoscopy on my birthday

I had some rectal problems some years ago. First I was examed by my own doctor bending over. Later I was examed by a specialist, and this time I was up in the chair with my feets in the stirrups. I actually liked being in the chair insteed of bending over. It just felt nicer.

For me it is enjoyment I must confess. I got my first one at 22 or 23 and a regular gyno exam. I was in the stirrups while it was done.

Not had my feet in stirrups when the doctor's finger is up my rectum.

Enjoyment when he probes my prostate.

I havent heard anyone mention being flat on their stomach during a rectal exam. Thats how my pediatritian examined me (without a gown or sheet) and I think that beats being bent over the table or doggy style because your penis can rub against the paper.

Like most guys, my rectal exams have been done either bending over the table or on my side with knees pulled up toward my chest. Both the positioning and the actual finger entry are entirely humiliating.

I had my annual uriology exam this morning. Everything turned out fine. Most enjoyable was the prostate exam. The woman doctor was in her mid to late 50s so I wasn't too embarassed. She had a large amount of lube on her gloved finger. She raised the exam table so I could bend over it. I turned and pulled my pants and undies down to my knees and bent over the table. The cold lube hit my anus and in two seconds her finger was all the way in and stayed there for another 30 seconds while she felt around the prostate, which she said was fine no lumps or bumps, and slid her finger out. She gave my crack one quick wipe and I pulled my undies and pants back up. I could have used another wipe because my crack and undies were wet and squishy on my ride home. Once home I got a new pair of undies and went to the bathroom and cleaned my slick crack up.

Only on my side, my knees pulled up to my chest...

Oh, and I left out the most interesting one I had. I was 4 and a half, and my Mum had taken me to the Dr. because she was having difficulty getting me toilet trained. For the bulk of my exam I was laying peacefully on my back on my mum's lap, my shorts and underpants having been removed, however for the Grand Finale, Mum hooked an arm under my knees, and pulled them back to my chest, my butt hanging out in mid air, and the doctor did a little exploratory of my butthole; I was screaming at the top of my lungs, and fighting and struggling to evade the invader which felt ever so large as it slipped slowly inside me. But Mum's iron grip held fast. Once he was finished, and slid it back out, I was still boiling with rage, but calmed down some (that is stopped the screaming) settling into a continuous wail. That was the only time that the doctor did that to me during childhood. So, AJF, 6 is not too young to 'get it'. (It was shortly after that that I was started on enemas; interesting coincidence, eh?)

Since then, I have only had my prostate checked at my annual physical starting when I was 50, and those are the ones I receive while laying on my side, knees pulled towards my chest, the doctor sliding his well lubricated, gloved finger up my anus. I have yet to be placed in the stirrups. I dread them a little, it doesn't arouse me. I have noticed, though, that he has a sly little grin on his face after it is over...

Last time I had a DRE I remember how cold and squishy the ky was and how I wanted so bad to get it off

LIke the other guys here, I have not had a rectal exam while in stirrups. I have been bent over the exam table. Usually my rectal exams are done so fast that there isn't time to think about much. There is the sensation of the rectum being suddenly full and then if the doctor presses hard on the prostate, I feel the sensation of suddenly needing to pee. That feeling ends as soon as the doctor stops pressing but the first time it happened I was sure that I was about to pee on the floor and was embarrassed. During my first couple of rectal exams with the same doctor, he really forced his finger in and was not gentle at all. Then I felt him rotate his finger all the way around quickly before he pulled it out. The first time I was shocked to get a rectal exam and make a sound when the doctor forced his finger in.

It nearly turns me on, especially if the doctor is a female.

I haven't had a prostate exam in quite a while.. Years ago, my father died from prostate cancer and was REALLY concerned for my own health, I was in my early 40's and had never had the exam. For the next several years...I got the 'finger' but then, that system was replaced by adding a PSA check to your lab blood work. No more finger unless the numbers shows a reason for concern/I"m 62 now.

I think that would be the the last thing that invokes either complete awww and disbelief or a uncontrollable feeling of arousal. Maybe that's why its kept until then end (in some cases)

Lots of feelings all at once for me:

1. Relief that it's over - as she really presses down hard

2. A certain amount of sexual excitement at the idea of what she did to me.

3. Worry about what she will say or do afterwards (I gave into the impulse and squeezed her finger with my anus a few times once and she gave me this horrible embarrassed look after it was over that made me want to dig a hole and crawl in and die)

4. Embarrassment that she and my wife both saw me get anally penetrated with my butt up high in the air and crack wide open.

5. A deep, non-sexual feeling of pleasure at being touched so intimately by a person of the opposite sex. (I don't have a word to describe it, exactly)

6. I wonder what she thinks of the view and if she will remember what I look like afterwards... You hate to think that if you go into your doctor for something minor (no nudity), she is looking at you and remembering what the back of your scrotum looks like or that your anus was particularly hairy or something.

One more quick note on this: I don't think it's possible to perform a prostate check in stirrups... You need to be facing down in order for the doctor to press down and feel your prostate. If you are in stirrups, you are going to be laying on your back and the doctor would have to push up to hit the prostate. It doesn't sound like that would work very well. Like others mentioned here, I was not in stirrups. My doctor has me stand on the step at the end of the exam table and bend over as far as my spine will allow - which has the effect of pulling apart your butt cheeks. I've never been in stirrups, but it's hard to imagine it being more embarrassing

HumblePatient, Maybe I can put some of your fears to rest, and then maybe not, lol. Your doctor remembering a certain way your body looks is probably already forgotten before you have you clothes back on and he's already dictating, unless you have something of interest or something the doc has never quite seen before, then maybe, but even that is short lived.

As far as your second post is concerned, for a rectal/prostate check for most examiners they can feel what they need to when the patient is with feet shoulders width apart and chest on the table. For me though, I can't do this. I have very small hands, short fingers to boot, so when I do my exams of my male patients I put them in knee/chest position, meaning knees on the table chest on the table, head on the table. While this is my most favorite postion to put them in, I still can't awlays get as deep as I would like to even get close to the back half of the prostate, so out come the stirrups. Once in position, and I have the man scooted down to the end of the table, feet in stirrups, feeing almost all of his prostate is much easier for my short fingers.

And yes, I am sure it would be embarrassing, but we get the honors of havging to do the same on a yearly basis. Yippy for us folks with vaginas, lol.

Mashie

Thanks Mashie. My doctor appears to be fairly popular (she gets numerous good ratings on the web and no longer accepts new patients), so I was hoping she sees so many butts that she doesn't remember mine, lol...

While I think that there is something inherently demeaning about being bent over while someone examines your butt, I can see how stirrups could be worst, as you are able to see the person's face while they are doing that to you... The one good think about being bent over the table is not being able to see the doctor (or my wife) while she is doing that to me. I can't imagine catching someone's eye while they have a finger in my rectum. Ugh...

I had that once when I was 8 by a stomach dr.

I havent had one yet. My wife received a DRE from her gp when she was 14 and she said she cried the whole time. It was done with her in the knee chest position.

I generally ok with the insertion, but I dread the actual pushing on the prostate.

Have only had three rectal exams in my life, and none in over ten years, though I'm getting close to 40 and thus there's one right around the corner. I had my first at age 12, and it was such a shock (I didn't know there was such a thing as a rectal exam to that point) that I don't even think I could register what was happening to me. In fact, I recall that I didn't even know that it was the doctor's finger in my rectum; he didn't say, and I didn't look. I thought he had stuck some creamy tube up my bottom. I had my second rectal exam at 16, in high school, when I went to a gastroenterologist because I was suffering from what turned out to be irritable bowel. This one was extremely quick but very unpleasant--in some ways even more unpleasant than the first, because I felt like I was about to have a bowel movement. (Once again, the doctor hadn't told me in advance that this might happen, and that it was totally natural, and so I was ashamed, even though nothing came out.) Finally, I had a rectal exam 12 years ago during my first year of graduate school, when I was sent to the emergency room after complaining of intense stomach cramps. This one was simply awful, because I was in an emergency area that had someone else in it--so the doctor had me lie on my right side (facing the wall) rather than the more conventional left (which would have been facing the other guy). This dude didn't seem to be too conscious of what was going on, but I couldn't believe they couldn't find a way of giving me more privacy.

My doctor takes her time,, I do feel some good amount of pressure.

Even though I dread the thought of the moment the Dr is pushing his finger inside me to carry out an internal exam I love it at the same time. Once the initial pain has passed I love feeling his finger moving around inside me.

I know it has to be done from time to time, butt I really prefer the female Doc instead of a male.