How do I ask a friend if I can give him an enema?

Ok i want to give one of my best friends (i am male and he is male) an enema but idk how to ask. what should i do if he says no!?! If he says no, do i keep pushing it or do i just stop right then? What do i do if he is questionable about it???

If he isn't interested don't be obnoxious as he probably just doesn't see the point. Just wait and see what approach works best. You might have luck tempting him into trying it if he thinks you know what you're doing and really care for his needs too.

Just be patient, a time might just show up where it fits very calmly and not creepily into a conversation the two of you are having. Then if he shows a negative attitude toward the idea you can easily back out without looking really kinky or weird. If his response is inquisitive or positive you can slowly move forward. Take clues from how he reacts. Don't push it if he says "No". You could jeopardize your friendship (and your relationships with other friends if this friend were to say anything about what you said or did).

How about getting them horny first then suggest you give them an enema for that extra special erotic sensation!

I have tried many times to introduce this theme with my girlfriends or friends, and it has always been a reluctant reaction.

When I just told it as a joke, the reaction was still ok and sometimes interested, but after being more precise about the possibility of having pleasure through the enemas, all the people are flying...😢

There's only one way to find out, and that is to ask him!

If he says no you can either back off, or ask him if he knows what it involves. Only you can judge from his body language and responses.

I am assuming that you both are already anal-ly intimate with each other? If so, just ask!

Perhaps you could persuade him by demonstrating with yourself, too.

Hi I am new to enemas on here, and I asked a friend of mine if I could give him an enema. As I am a nurse it really turns me on watching their bellies swell up. Then I let him give me an enema in return.

Bravo, Jenny, glad you are here. I know how helpful a nurse like you can be. When will you come over to my house?

Was married 2 months, lost our rental, moved in temp. with mominlaw. I worked shifts, one am after wife went to work,RN. went to take a shower, hanging from the shower head was a huge enema bag with a very large male (penis shaped) nozzle attached. I did not know what to do or say, my mominlaw then came into the bath and said not to be embaressed as she love to take and give enemas. She told me she had wanted to give me one for a long time. This am she got her wish. We liked to have never got the dildo nozzle in, but she used a lot of k-y and the very warm soapy enema was taken, it was a 6qt bag and she gave it all to me. Never in my life would I have known these things are great and a huge turn on. By the way we are still doing it and she has invited my wife to join witch she did last night. Oh one other thing she looks like a 35 yo instead of 47.No dadinlaw.

Truly, we never know what's just around the corner, waiting for us. In your case, it was Paradise.

So. . . Your mother-in-law is into giving erotic enemas, and your wife/her daughter is more than OK with 1) you taking and loving a fauz penis up your chute, and 2) having her mother administer it all, in her presence, and with some level of participation on her part? JRF said it all in the last post: W-O-W! Lucky dog! And then some!

If your mother-in-law would ever like to trade services, I'm handy around the house. Or, if she doesn't have a house, I'll build her one.

Cheers,

Rafter

Many years ago and after a few drinks I told my girlfriend, with whom I'd had a pretty carefree sexual relationship, that I would love to give her an enema. She asked if I would want to see her expel it and I responded "not necessarily." She said she guessed that would be OK. Unfortunately, when I suggeste a week or so later that we actually do that, she said "not now." We broke up shortly after that. That's as close as I got with a girlfriend tho later had a wife who I gave a few enemas to. What a gift to have enjoyed that. Miss it now as my current wife has no interest.

Invite him over for drinks and then suggest to play doctor...... if he agrees..... you'll have some fun.......

I would say to bring this up after a few drinks. Just casually say that you like to take enemas and then start asking him about it. Ask him a simple question like "have you ever had one?" Depending on how he reacts, you could then ask him if he would want to exchange enemas with you. If he says no, just tell him you figured you would ask anyway and then casually change the subject and don't bring it back up. If he is partially interested but declines, there is still the chance he might change his mind and address you about it at another time

The best is always straight forward and asking the person if they have an interest in enemas and how erotic they can be - If the person answers in a positive manner than continue if it is a negative response just move one

The whole ask after a few drinsk idea sounds good but I don't want to loose a friend over it. What would be some good ways to hint but not directly ask? Maybe say I saw a show on tv about enemas and... then see how he responds. I've only given myself enemas but it sounds like they can be way more enjoyable when someone gives you one. What about anal sex after an enema?

Sara, if your friend is open in his feelings just lead him into it as a sexual stimulant.

I would have to say much of this is dependant on the relationship between the people involved.I mean I LOVE Enemas but if everyone I knew asked if they could give me 1 only a few would get the ok from me to do it

Well, there are several ways to do this. First, you can ease into it by talking about kinks and fantasies to see if you share similar things. Second, when that friend stops by have things around the house in plain view like enema bag in bathroom hanging, suppositories or bulb enema on counter. Third, you can ask them what they think of enemas, or suppositories, or any particular kink and see what they say. Fourth, flat out ask!

Love,

Supposgayguy

I learned a long time ago that, albeit most people look at this as a taboo issue , in order to achieve the compatibility we who are gathered here that we must be straight forward with this desire. So my advise take a deep breath and tell him or her that you derive a lot of pleasure fro giving and receiving and that you want to share such an experience with them.

Enemas are an excellent prep for anal sex or play. Thats the angle I used with some success.

We sometimes tend to be a visually stimulated society. Try leaving an enema bag out in the bathroom in plain sight. That should arouse a conversation and open the opportunity to approach the subject. If your friend ignores the bag display, just mention that your next enema will precede sex as it sexually arouses you. Talk about a conversation starter. :-)

I was going through some financial difficulties when I was in my 20's and had to take a room in a house occupied by a retired lady. I was there a few months when I came down with the flu. She took care of me and give me enemas almost every day that I was feeling sick. When I was better I did get a few now and then from her. They were always high volume and I thought I would burst. Nothing ever sexual as there was a 50 year difference between us. I would be naked with a towel around my waist. We remained friends for a long time.

I have this friend (male) that i would love to give (or attempt to give) a high enema to. But, he has never had one and i am afaid to ask him. How should i ask? Should i just come right out and ask or more beat around the busy and hope that he catches on?

When I mentioned to one of my gay friends that I like enemas, he volunteered to give them to me. He never pushed any other activity onto me. But we had fun. Our relationship ended when, in 1974, he foolishly told the guys at the foundry he worked at, that he was gay. After some beatings, he left town :-( He did get an nice executive job in his new location, though -) (He, as I, were underemployed in our youth, heh.)

Another friend brought the question up to me, a couple of years earlier, and that was (refreshingly) fine. I guess it depends on how well you know each other. Maybe you could show him zity.biz and gauge his reaction.

I try not to push my wife, though we have had thousands of oral and rectal laxatives together, daily, over decades. If I push her too much, she'll do it out of perceived duty, but, where's the fun in that? Better to do it myself and save her the stress and resentment.

I've kept a 4 qt bag haning in the shower for a number of years. Only time it is put away is if my mother or sister is going to be here. Anyone comments, I tell them I had a section of colon removed years ago and I find things work best for me if I keep cleaned out. It has started a few conversations that have led to me giving them an Enema. I keep plenty of equipment so nothing is used without proper cleaning.

Dan

I had a friend with benefits once that we used to get together once a week. I got the enema bag all ready and hung it in the shower knowing we always showered before playing. He saw the enema bag, asked questions and we ended up giving each other enemas. It turned out he loved enema play and did it everytime.

About a month ago I was talking with a female friend one evening and I mentioned that I wasn't feeling so hot - hoping to start a conversation about enemas. She is about my age so I was hoping she had been subjected to enemas as a child in the "golden ages" and would know exactly what to suggest. Well, she took the bait and after hemming and hawing a bit I told her I was severely constipated and didn't have anything other than some old enema equipment in the house to deal with it and didn't really know what to do with it (!!). She said what about just using a Fleets enema, and she would run by the 24 hour Walmart near where she was and bring it over. I figured that might be the best I could get from her, so I agreed. She was at some community function and thought it might be several hours, could I wait? I said sure and began thinking about how I could keep pressing for help with an enema. She soon surprised me with a txt message about 20 minutes later that she was on the way and would be here soon. Wow - the anticipation started building as I scrambled to get out the bag and set the stage for what I hoped would be some extensive enema administration.

When she showed up sure enough she had a two-pack of Fleet enemas. We talked for a bit and then she handed them to me and said go give it a try. I headed to the bedroom, used one of them, waited a while and then went back downstairs and said the first one didn't help much. I told her I still felt bad and needed some relief and would she think about helping me with an enema using the bag. She asked a lot of questions about it, and disclosed she had never received an enema prior to giving birth to her first child in the 80's! But she agreed to at least look at the equipment so off we went to the bedroom. I had intentionally replaced my usual large nozzle with an old bakelite douche nozzle, and had a pint jar of dissolved Ivory soap that i claimed I found with the bag.

Without much reservation she told me to put some towels on the bed and strip off my pants. She took the bag and jar of soap into the bathroom as I stretched out on the bed and anticipated receiving an enema from yet another female friend! I soon heard the water running and she struck up a conversation about having a colonoscopy, while preparing the enema. Within a few minutes she returned to the bedroom with a bulging bag of soapy water and asked what she should do next. I instructed her in a novice way to put some lotion on the nozzle, insert it slowly in my rectum and then to hold the bag with one hand while releasing the clamp with the other. She did all that, and I soon felt the rush of warm water flowing into me.

This happened three more times before I figured I had pressed my luck, and told her I felt much better. Unfortunately, when I offered to return the favor she declined. A little later, as we sat on the couch and talked she indicated if I ever needed help again to just let her know.

I'm looking at the calendar now!

This story has a bunch of holes in it, but I could possibly be wrong, although I doubt it. Where was your wife when all these conversations and meeting took place???

I skipped the boring parts but it is true. My wife is only around two or three days out of the week.