Enemas & BDSM/restraints

This is a recurring fantasy of mine, either giving or receiving. Enemas induce a sense of vulnerability without restraints as it is; add them, and a balloon nozzle, and you have a guaranteed method to turn the receiver into a quivering wreck.

That being said, I fantasize about combining enemas and restraints with bedpan use, but due to the potential for a hellacious mess, am probably going to keep that one as a fantasy.

Rubbermark,

I just happened upon this thread for the first time today. I loved your tumblr cartoon links, all of them, especially the 1st and 3rd. For those two I could easily look at the sub looking like he was forced into a thick wetsuit before the restraints and enemas. I've had restrained enemas dressed in either black latex catsuit or partial wetsuit, and to me its heavenly. My ex-wife was very fond of doing that to me and not telling me how much or how long I'd have to hold it. Here's hoping there's at least one more lady out there I can find with similar kinks.

Eric

Squishygator,

This is a recurring fantasy of mine, either giving or receiving. Enemas induce a sense of vulnerability without restraints as it is; add them, and a balloon nozzle, and you have a guaranteed method to turn the receiver into a quivering wreck.

I'm not sure I could have written that any better. I agree completely. Most of my enemas have been unrestrained, but a few have had my ex partner dress me in rubber and cuff me before starting to fill me up. Even with no intentional physical restraint, I always feel like the enema itself is enough to restrain me from much movement or escape - delicious! At least up to my current volume limit, the more the better, since even getting up from my bathroom floor rug to get to the nearby commode feels like I'm connected to a weight I can't ignore. Unless my Domme ex partner insisted (I hope she won't), I'd never try it with only a bedpan. I have definitely felt like a helpless quivering wreck with DBCatheter inflated and my ex acting Domme while gleefully pumping water into me.

Eric

As the song from the 40's went; "To Each His Own", and do indeed go for it. However, I for one would never, butt never let my Lady tie me up. I have learned that they don't forget ANYTHING. About the time the last knot goes into the restraint....she'd remember some 'little thing' that, just maybe, wasn't very nice and my butt would be right there in front of her and my backside would be shredded.

So enjoy, butt be nice when you aren't "playing games" and maybe you won't have to worry. --just trying to share a little wisdom that I've acquired in my 84 years on this rock.

the boxcar

Squishygator:

This is a recurring fantasy of mine, either giving or receiving. Enemas induce a sense of vulnerability without restraints as it is; add them, and a balloon nozzle, and you have a guaranteed method to turn the receiver into a quivering wreck.

That being said, I fantasize about combining enemas and restraints with bedpan use, but due to the potential for a hellacious mess, am probably going to keep that one as a fantasy.

Yes! Someone who gets it.

That is the kind of situation that lets you explore parts of his/her personality that is so sexy and deep. That's the good stuff.

Hey maybe if you got that bum really cleaned out before the bed pen. Then again some fantasies are meant to stay that way.

Though boxcar, you have a point my man

I have learned that they don't forget ANYTHING.

I'll keep that in mind sensei

I used to give myself enemas in a somewhat self-restrained situation. I would tie my legs together, run the rope thru a carabiner hanging from the top bar of the shower door and tie the other end around my chest. I would remove the clamp and put a big gob of vaseline into the nozzle so it wouldn't flow until the hot water melted the vaseline. I would insert the nozzle, lean over backward which flipped me upside down. The water started flowing soon afterward, and I had no way of shutting it off so had to take the whole bag which emptied pretty quickly in this position. I then had to trie and extricate myself from the bondage so I could release the water. I don't think I ever had an 'accident' while doing this

I've had dominatrix give me restrained enemas in various positions. One was on a St Andrews cross, with me flipped upside down. Another time I was tied spread-eagle to a table for a plain water enema followed by a wine enema, though didn't feel the wine. Another time my torso was tied down to a table while lying on my back. My legs in a spreader bar and hoisted up to the ceiling which totally exposed my hole for the administration of an enema.

For me being restrained while being given an enema is one of my favorite things. When this happens my girlfriend usually sets me up with both my arms and legs tied down to the bed with a big stack of pillows under me so my ass is up in the air and I am totally exposed.

After being warmed up for a few minutes with a gloved finger or two my butt will swallow up the balloon pretty easily and than it will take a few pumps before she tugs on it to make sure it is seated in place and than many more pumps to really seal my butt up really tight. Once this is done I know for sure that I'm really not going to be going anywhere till she is done with me.

Than she leaves me there and she goes off to the bathroom to prepare my enema. That bathroom is close and I love that I can hear her doing this. It makes me very exciting.

Is it hot, is it cold. What is in the bag, there is probably soap in it. Will it be frothy ivory soap suds or a few big squeezes from the bottle of peppermint castile.... What bag will she use/How big is it, sure seems like she has been in there a while.

Will it be pumped in one squeeze at a time or will she skip the higginson and just let the pressure from siphon filling the bulging bag force the whole bag into me fast with no break, how long must I hold it.

You get the picture. A million things start going through my head turning me into a squirmie struggling mess. She comes in and says "Let's go now, it's time we get you nice and filled up". After that it's the loud "Click" of the clamp and off I go. Tied down the way that I am I can't even clutch onto my swollen cramping tummy. I am stuck here with little I can do but rub against the pillows and whine until she says otherwise and I like it the most if she really makes me beg.

I replied previously but have since left and rejoined, hence the new account. The Augustine illustrations just cut right to the nub of my fetish. Being totally and inescapably restrained is hot in itself but makes you so very vulnerable and at the mercy of others.

Add the element of the enema and what this can do and the sensations it elicits and you have a recipe for total mind-fuckery. I love the feeling of a crampy enema in my bowels but I always have the option to release, to deflate the balloon nozzle and let it all flow out. I can't imagine how crazy the feeling would be knowing that there is no option for that. Unable to reach the nozzle. Unable to stop the flow. Unable to expel until the Mistress (in my case) allows it. The longest retention I've made was not quite half an hour. What if the Mistress decided a two hour retention was in order? How would I survive? What would it feel like? What if I just simply couldn't take it any more.

The scope for stretching limits whilst restrained is huge and I'm all for being taken there, even if it does require a little persuasion and a lot of ropes and chain!

Since my first reply, I took a lot enema being secured in segufix, having no other choice but taking the whole bag and holding until the balloon will deflate. The longest was for 1 hour, had to hold 1.5 L. Lots of cramps, but hands and feet won't be able to move more than few cm. I absolutely love those discomfort and total submission situations...

I have had many enemas while in restraints, but one Domme in particular was quite talented and all she used was a pair of handcuffs and a balloon catheter. When we were ready to begin our session, she told me that her cardinal rule was that she required all her subs to be naked when they were in her presence. After I had dutifully stripped, she produced a set of handcuffs and ordered me to turn around .As she was cuffing my wrists behind my back, she made it clear that another rule was that the handcuffs would definitely not be coming off until she was completely satisfied that I had been sufficiently punished. Little did I know that it would take two hours and three enemas to satisfy that requirement!

My ladyfriend loves to get an enema while restrained. I tie her down to the bed with a wedge pillow under her hips so her anus is perfectly positioned, then I insert an inflatable nozzle. She likes me to inflate it till it's very uncomfortable.

Then I give her a 3 liter warm and soapy enema. Sometimes while she's filling up, I spank her vigorously. Other times, I will finger her G-spot till she comes.

She never tires of this. Something about it satisfies her deeply, and I am glad to oblige her.

I replied previously but have since left and rejoined, hence the new account. The Augustine illustrations just cut right to the nub of my fetish. Being totally and inescapably restrained is hot in itself but makes you so very vulnerable and at the mercy of others.

Add the element of the enema and what this can do and the sensations it elicits and you have a recipe for total mind-fuckery. I love the feeling of a crampy enema in my bowels but I always have the option to release, to deflate the balloon nozzle and let it all flow out. I can't imagine how crazy the feeling would be knowing that there is no option for that. Unable to reach the nozzle. Unable to stop the flow. Unable to expel until the Mistress (in my case) allows it. The longest retention I've made was not quite half an hour. What if the Mistress decided a two hour retention was in order? How would I survive? What would it feel like? What if I just simply couldn't take it any more.

1) Rubbermark, what are "the Augustine illustrations" you refer to, some photos or drawings of someone in rubber?

2) I also love being restrained for an enema from a trusted Domme, which I did a few times with my ex-wife. She had me in full rubber enclosure (catsuit/gloves/hood/gag/sneakers), cuffed to the bed legs way apart while she gave me enemas with me profusely sweating and unable to do anything about it, including even hold my distended belly. My thoughts and feelings were just about like what you describe here. Some fantastic sessions I'll never forget. My longest retention has been about an hour either with the Domme ex or alone these days. I'm sure I could go longer and I'll probably try it sometime as I love long retentions as opposed to multiple enemas in and out.

Eric

Since my first reply, I took a lot enema being secured in segufix, having no other choice but taking the whole bag and holding until the balloon will deflate. The longest was for 1 hour, had to hold 1.5 L. Lots of cramps, but hands and feet won't be able to move more than few cm. I absolutely love those discomfort and total submission situations...

BBMichel,

What is "segufix?" I've never seen that word before. Thanks,

Eric

I replied previously but have since left and rejoined, hence the new account. The Augustine illustrations just cut right to the nub of my fetish. Being totally and inescapably restrained is hot in itself but makes you so very vulnerable and at the mercy of others.

1) Rubbermark, what are "the Augustine illustrations" you refer to, some photos or drawings of someone in rubber?

After asking this question, I Searched Zity discussions and found a couple of links to a large group of enema/bondage situation illustrations by Augustine. I'm not sure which ones Rubbermark was referring to, but I had seen a few of these before in another member's album on Zity and really enjoyed them. The group I found by search was much larger than I had seen before, and they interested and aroused me just like the first batch. If you haven't seen his/her(?) work, it appears to be mostly if not exclusively femdom illustrations of women Domme-ing both men and women with strict bondage, enemas and gags, frequently connected to each other, often in rubber suits. Some of it I would find too extreme/S&M'ish scenarios to actually do in real life, but most of it is at least plausibly doable, if complicated, bondage. As rubbermark noted, as erotic art appealing to those of us enjoying enemas, bondage and D/s, at least to me, it's extremely fetishistically arousing. Rubbermark's description of his feelings about and enjoyment of the illustrations are excellent, better than I could pen at this point. If anyone knows of any other groupings or collections of Augustine enema/bondage art, let us know.

Eric

My ladyfriend loves to get an enema while restrained. I tie her down to the bed with a wedge pillow under her hips so her anus is perfectly positioned, then I insert an inflatable nozzle. She likes me to inflate it till it's very uncomfortable.

Then I give her a 3 liter warm and soapy enema. Sometimes while she's filling up, I spank her vigorously. Other times, I will finger her G-spot till she comes.

She never tires of this. Something about it satisfies her deeply, and I am glad to oblige her.

You are a very lucky man and woman, and I hope you're able to enjoy playing together this way for many years. Does she reciprocate and do the honors for you as well?

Eric

BBMichel,

What is "segufix?" I've never seen that word before. Thanks,

Eric

Google segufix. It will take you to their website.

I’ve been given enemas while mummified in plastic wrap with my genitals and nipples exposed. On other occasions it’s been while in a latex body bag with my hands tied to my thighs and a latex hood on. Nothing like telling mistress I am quite full and can’t take anymore only to hear her to say in a coy way “Yes I know!” and hear the click of the clamp as it’s opened up to administer the rest of the enema. Quite erotic. It’s usually the second or third enema, so any accidents are usually dirty water and reason for a good paddling before I am allowed to go clean myself up.

Like I said, I love restrained enemas. Best one was exwife #2 who knew and enjoyed my kinks and also loved me giving her enemas. With no warning one night, she was being Domme to me and dressed me in full latex catsuit, gloves, hood, gag and tall Converse sneakers. Then she laid me on our bed and cuffed my wrists to ankles, knees apart and after much anal play, put in a DBC and gave me a ~2 quart enema. Then I was rolled up like a burrito in the thick bed comforter after hands to sides and legs together. She left me like that immobile and sweating, saying she'd be back later. I could hear her walking around but not see, and she didn't respond to my comments or questions for maybe a half hour though I could hear her coming in and out of our room. Then I heard water running and shortly she finally came back and asked if I was ready for my next enema, still holding the first one. I pleaded to have an orgasm and be released but after saying I hadn't earned it yet I could feel the second enema start. Still trapped immobile in the blanket I got maybe another quart or more despite moaning and begging, and then she finally stopped. Finally she unrolled me and made me service her and deliver her a couple of orgasms, of course while I was still filled. After her orgasms and her nap she finally helped me climax and released me. She did the same kind of scene a few more times before our divorce, but I'll never forget those bound enemas - best of my life.

Eric

Thank you, Susie:

Google segufix. It will take you to their website.

Oh, yes, it would be extremely interesting to be Segufixed on a bed or bathroom rug and have an enema or two or three consensually but with intense submission and humiliation forced into my belly, especially if she forced me into my total enclosure latex suit, et.al., beforehand. With a pumped up DBC, I wonder how long I could hold it.......................or how long she'd make me................................ I guess it would depend on what large amount of fascinating solution she decided I needed that day. Delicious. (I've been getting very stimulated and aroused by Augustine's bondage enema artwork the last couple of days.....................)

Eric

After asking this question, I Searched Zity discussions and found a couple of links to a large group of enema/bondage situation illustrations by Augustine. I'm not sure which ones Rubbermark was referring to, but I had seen a few of these before in another member's album on Zity and really enjoyed them...If anyone knows of any other groupings or collections of Augustine enema/bondage art, let us know.

Eric

Hi Eric. Sorry for the very slow replies lately. I've been being kept very busy by my online Mistress.

If you're interested in seeing more of Augustine's work the link below should hopefully be useful.

https://e-hentai.org/g/443195/136be75d61/

I'm still hoping that a woman out there is up for trying some of these situations out. I'd be a very willing (unwilling) model! One can dream.

Http://augustine95.tumblr.com is that artist's tumblr, also with current things. This is obviously incredibly NSFW and seems to involve some extremes.

Allies9,

Http://augustine95.tumblr.com is that artist's tumblr, also with current things. This is obviously incredibly NSFW and seems to involve some extremes.

Thanks. Some of his artwork would be too extreme for me and my delicate backside, as well as too complex or expensive to even set up. However, as erotic art for those of us enjoying enemas, plugs, gags, bondage, D/s, rubber and humiliation, it's absolutely superb. Best enema art I've ever seen in 50 years. I do use a good deal of it to refer to in my fantasies when in an enema and D/s mood. For me it works even better than some actual photos/video I've seen.

Your profile doesnt list any interests. I gather you're an erotic enema fan?

Eric

I had a sub who liked to be restrained. We had a thing that went under the mattress and went to each corner. I would spread eagle her then give her a nice big soapy enema which she always held. I would know when she was getting close and would release her to the potty. We used lots of different toys including vibrators which also had to be used judiciously. I would also warm her bottom sometimes before and sometimes after. There was always a rinse or two with some massive orgasms. Man I miss those days.

Sounds like a serious risk for an "accident." You would have to really be "in touch" with each other or have an enema room with all tile floors and a good floor drain.

I think enemas are a great method for submision i often use special tape for restraining my partner but i would like to try something like medical restraints.

I have been a fan of Augustine's art for a while now. I think Imagefap was where I first found any of it. I love the captions and predicament bondage situations. Having stories to go with them like the ones on that Tumblr link is something I really have to go check it out. Thanks for the link.

The enema itself is a form of restraint!!

It dictates what you can do and when!

You know you must lay there and fight, but it's a fight you know you will lose!

The enema itself is a form of restraint!!

It dictates what you can do and when!

You know you must lay there and fight, but it's a fight you know you will lose!

And what you will do very shortly, whether you want to or not.

I had a sub at one time who loved being restrained while receiving. Her favorite thing was to be tied spread-eagle and have me perform oral while she was filling. Needless to say, I enjoyed this activity immensely.

I had a sub at one time who loved being restrained while receiving. Her favorite thing was to be tied spread-eagle and have me perform oral while she was filling. Needless to say, I enjoyed this activity immensely.

Wonderful scenario to picture her submissively enjoying that. If she was very vocal at all, I bet it would have been extremely exciting to listen to her experience that as well. I love the sounds of a woman getting an enema mixed with her working up to an orgasm while filling or holding, like my exes. Im sure you both enjoyed it immensely.

Eric

P.S. I'm a longtime switch, so I'd love to reverse those roles as well, like with my exes. ??