Enemas & BDSM/restraints

I've read the post about "Enemas & Submission" as well as the others....

For me (sub female) it's definitely about submission, and I can't think of sharing anything more intimate, sensual, entrusting and submissive than receiving an enema while being restrained.

Yes, restrained. Trusting your partner/Dom/Dr to position you, to watch over you, determine how you'll receive, to tell you when & how it's time to release. Perhaps while in restraints he offers other stimulation, and you have no choice but accept the pleasure you are being offered.

I don't see anyone talk much about combining the pleasures of enema/med-play with BDSM, particularly restraints.

I'm listening, do tell....

-A

Yes, restraints are the big part for me! Take a look at my blog (page 45 and further), I talk about some situations I was well restrained and forced to take few bags.

Cheers

I have often been restrained by my Doms, to position for my enemas, especially when given as punishment enemas, or in any other BDSM scenario !

After a particularly severe scene I subjected my husband to over the President's Week vacation when our daughters were at their friend's house for a sleep-over a few years ago, my husband had a chance to give me a couple of enemas while I was restrained. Part of the scene was that I had to be extremely quiet because the girls were home this time, and the only excuse we could give for not answering a knock on our bedroom door would be that we were having sex at the moment.

The first thing he did was bend me over his knee and insert a 750 cc double balloon rectal catheter and pump it up. Then he put on leather wrist cuffs and took a rope and tied my bound wrists to a hook we have in the bathroom ceiling, which prevented me from walking or bending over. To make matters worse, he applied some tight nipple clamps with about 4 ounces of weight on each one, which isn't a lot, but it insures that you pay attention. 😁 Then he started the enema. He let about 2 to 2 1/2 quarts flow into me while I was standing there. I really felt my belly get tight and had a lot of pressure down on my rectum. He forced me to quietly hold it for about twenty minutes to make sure everything got loosened up inside my colon. Then he let me expel it. After that was over, I discovered I was in for more. He brought out a plastic drop cloth (we always keep several around the house for potentially messy scenes) and laid it out over the bathroom floor, and had me lie down on it. Instead of using a double balloon rectal catheter, he had a 48 Fr colon tube which he inserted about 18 inches. I could tell he made it to the transverse colon. He duct-taped the tube to my inner thigh to keep it in place , stood me up and re-tied me to the hook in the ceiling. This time, I got two quarts, but I had to hold it in myself while the colon tube remained inserted. Needless to say, I was not pleased with this prospect since I knew that cleaning any leakage would be my responsibility. The nipple clamps were beginning to hurt and he threatened to put a bunch of clothespins down my inner thighs if I complained any more, which after not too long, I did. Well, holding the enema with my stomach churning and having the clothespins and nipple clamps proved too much for me, and I had an accident. Not a big accident, but any accident is more than I want to ever deal with. He made me stand there, soiled down my legs for about ten more minutes until I was released and allowed to go to the toilet and shower. That was a rough night for me.

He said he was glad he was able to "make me experience the mess" because of the time a year or so before, when I had him tied up in bed after an enema, and he said he had to "go". I told him it was probably just gas since the enema wasn't very large and it was over two hours earlier and that he should just fart it out. Well, it wasn't just gas, it had a lot of mucusy secretions from the concentrated glycerine and water enema I gave him, and I made him wait for me to come clean him up--I didn't let him get up to do it himself. After he was cleaned up, I spanked him for making a mess. I guess all's fair in love and S&M!

Thx Susie,

The mess part is a risk I'm willing to take, maybe, lol. For cautionary sake I had better agree to the restraints after a first cleansing, just in case. Can't say I'll be at your level of courage any time soon.

As for the nipple clamps, and vocal restraining, you're my kind of girl, 😉

-A

Sounds good to me! Both being restrained or restraining! 😳

We have used some bondage in are enema play the main thing is to have a partner who knows how much you can take and the trust to not push the play to far where its not fun.

I can go for some mild S&M(Corsets and ropes)That is a bit heavy! I'll pass!

Restraint's always turn up the intensity during play. Typically I've seen it approached from the enema while in a bdsm scene, but perhaps not so much adding some bdsm to a medical/enema session. You are quite right that being told you are going to get an enema, and not having much say or agility to put up a fight is a hot theme for a submissive person. Along with the actual the enema being administered, being restrained while kept in one place, perhaps even with plug stirs up the sense of submission to anothers desires and will. I like adding the special case of a bdsm themed enema or any medical procedure for that matter but with dark black exam gloves.

Has anyone tried self bondage during an enema? If so, how did you do it?

When I am the sub, being firmly restrained and hearing the preparations going on in the next room is part of the kick. This often includes a surprise "recipe" in the bag, an unexpected nozzle (if a large one is not already in place) or colon tube, special lube (straight Dr. Bronner's Peppermint is an attention getter), gag and/or blindfold - which hides the volume - and other unpreventable elements of the scene. Of course, turnabout keeps things more or less in balance, but the thrill is a major attraction, for sure.

I visited a mistress for a "medical" session once in New Orleans. My idea was an enema in a medical environment with some electrical stimulation involved. Of course, I was at the mistress' whim and desire but she was safe sane and consensual about it. Upon arrival, I filled out a form with personal limits, etc that we reviewed together. She then told me to take my clothes of, fold them neatly and place them in a cabinet and get on the medical exam table. She then came into the room fully in role and immediately began tying me to the table in a spread eagle fashion, not using the stirrups but more of a bound frog position. She then proceeded to prepare an enema bag, inserted the nozzle and let it flow. While the bag was emptying at a fairly slow rate, she began applying the electrodes to my penis and scrotum, constantly warning me not to release the enema. As the stim did its work, she applied a hitachi wand to my penis until I had an orgasm. She then immediately released me and told me to expel completely so as to not leave any "mud" behind. After expulsion, she had me back on the table, tied up for an intrusive anal exam.

At the time, I didn't really enjoy being bound fearing leakage but she knew what she was doing, was encouraging, and in the end, it was a rewarding and fulfilling experience.

Most of my enemas are during B&D scenarios where Mistress gives me an enema while I serve her breakfast, do house chores or am pleasuring her. She controls how much I get and when I can empty. (She loves to hear me moan, groan and shutter as the water goes in.) Sometimes it is really difficult to hold and after enough pleading she lets me empty.(She does not want a mess on the floor.)

On occasion she's had me on my back the bed, hands tied to the top corners and my legs pulled up over my head with ropes and pulleys attached to the wall. A very open and vulnerable position for lots of "fun" in addition to enemas! On other occasions she's places me in a latex body bag and fills me up. I have to hold it all and if there is an accident its punishable by a good paddling and more water. Nothing like telling her I'm full and need to go and her replying: "I know" and opens the clamp once more! We prefer doing this after an initial cleaning to avoid expelling fecal material.

Sounds like a lot of fun!

There IS an S&M element to enemas. In addition to the pain, there is the fact that, while you are not physically tied down, or handcuffed or anything, you ARE in a situation where you HAVE TO remain in the same position from before the insertion until you are physically unable to maintain it any longer.

You also have something inside you that takes away your control of one of your most basic bodily functions. It controls you. You can do nothing except cooperate with the injection, and then fight as hard as you can just to maintain control. Even then the enema ALWAYS wins.

If that's not S&M, aust like that, then I don't know what S&M is.

I would love being given an enema by a dom. Being restrained and forced to take a large bag would be great. Maybe being spanked while I fill.

We use restraints a LOT. Our "standard" enema is 3+ (we always try for a little more) quarts of hot water with Dr. Bonners, retention nozzle, blindfolded, securely tied to all 4 corners of the bed, oral sex to orgasm. Yummy. Simple as that.

Not only do restraints add an element of angst about leaking, they add the feeling of the enema being forced and out of my control, which I love. Has anyone been restrained with a struggle or has the bondage always been 'voluntary?'

Enemas and bondage are a match made in heaven (!?) for sure. The inability to avoid what's comming, the way you are incapacitated while your colon fills up to the brim.

Also when using a retentionnozzle, if kept full for an extended period of time leaves you unable to do anything against the craps and pain it brings. Its full submission, full surrender of all controls..

Yes, we always use a retention nozzle. Just makes it SO much better not to have to worry about leaking.

Awesome stories espically switchable susies for me i prefer medical grade restraints for enema play unless the enema is part of a already agreed upon bdsm scene there is a line between a naughty patient being restrained for a enema and a naught sub being restrained for one

I like to be face down with three or four pillows under my hips leaving my gut free and expand with the water running in with four point restraints and of course nipple clamps.

It's just whats for fun !!!

Nothing beats the submission of being restrained 4 points face down on a bed, naked w/ass up on a pillow & then subjected 2 a balloon/retention enema. anyone in northern Ohio willing 2 break me in?

I'm so not into most aspects of BDSM as to be likely atypical for this thread at all. There's a few niches of my expanded selves so to speak that would/could explore edges of this. Partly born of the oft touched in kink chat- "would you- fuck you " or in this case? In fantasies- we can do and be anything. If only our real life allowed suchlike? thence it's a question of.. Why do we do these things? And with or to who?

Would you give yourself an enema while you were in restraints, and if so-how?

That alters a LOT of this for me. Presuming a self telepathy..it's my fantasy, my rules, eh? Snipping elaboration unless someone wants to see a longer story of this, one scenario is me placing myself in a "Birthing Bed" evocative setup complete with those lovely handholds having wrist bands. Leg supports, and the handy basin to make any leaks a non-issue. Inflatable retention aid and a full unprepped bowel. So the gut wringing would be from really having my bowels moved to empty from fullness. It's all about the reality of going from full to emptied and cleansed. Blurring the lines between medical and lust. Embracing the ability of bracing myself against those handholds to defy an overwhelming wave of need to 😜USH: Ah, that's a place of wonder to me of how long I willing keep myself there by sheer will and lust for what the feelings will end up taking me to. Hoping for an orgasm from cramps alone.

There's an aspect of time altering it's experienced states when an enema has total control of the bowels. The awareness that it's not an if but a very short when before- control is not an issue as it's impossible to not surrender. And being in a situation of no verbal renegotiation possibly altering what's about to happen can be hotness if into that "Headspace"deep enough. Out of that "Safe Space" such a scene would be hell for me- and I'd expect, many of us.

For me another important part of beeing restrained while getting an enema is not beeing able to bring yourself in a comfy position

I have been restrained while receiving an enema. I have had my legs placed in stirrups and secured in place onec secured the stirrups were spread apart almost spliting me kile a wishbone. This possition allow the nurse full access for the nozzle insertation she would use a inflatable double nozzle that was held in place with a harness belt that went around my waist and had a strap that was puled up between my butt checks and attached to the harrness this harness held in the nozzle making it impossible for the nozzle to slip out from the pressure of the four quarts enemas i was make to take,

Absolutely the best way to be made to take an enema..........fully restrained and completely filled until the Dominant giver "decides" you are finished and allows you to expel !! Ohhhhhhh YES.

I love the feeling of helplessness being restrained in a climbing harness several inches off of the floor. With the enema nozzle tied in place my mistress often gives me more than I can take and so I lose control and expel. The feeling of humiliation adds to it's effect.

Whats not to love about enemas and bondage

Truly one of my biggest fantasies! Watching his muscular arms and gorgeous hands restraining me and then submitting to an enema or two while being able to see his face.. Seeing everything he's doing.....listening to his voice as he tells me what he's doing or what he's going to do...ohhhhh.....that just takes me places.