Enemas and Suffering

I think there's a hierarchy of feelings here related to enemas: the first is a feeling of pleasure, followed by degrees of mild, moderate and more intense discomfort, the an onset of pain, and the last is suffering. Whether giving or taking an enema, I try not to go past the second level. Enemas can be and are uncomfortable, but experienced nurses and Moms (happy Mother's Day!) know how to keep them from them becoming painful.

Considering I enjoy enemas delivered within a punishment scene most, yes, suffering should be part of it. My favorite part is laying with the nozzle in and the hot, soapy water in the bag above; the dom/me can then tease, scold, or list off grievances and every little aspect is enhanced and magnified because of the elevated tension of what's about to occur.

SuzyAtHome,

I'm a switch and do enjoy both Dom and sub roles during sex, especially when I'm being given an enema as a sub. So I'm very curious about your interest in enemas within a punishment scenario. What exactly do you like to do or experience while getting an enema? Your situation above where you're being erotically apprehensive just lying there with the hose in your butt with a full bag of warm soap suds listening to your Dom tell you about what he's planning for you and your colon is very appealing and understandable to my sub side.

Personally, I don't enjoy pain - it's a very strong turnoff. But a little bit here and there including a strong enema solution or mild spanking during the enema are very appealing. I also really enjoy the Domme doing a lot of talking and almost constantly commenting or telling me about what she's going to make me do or endure next. Would you mind telling us (or me by PM if you like) more about what really excites and arouses you during your preferred enema scenarios?

Thanks,

Looking forward to hearing about you.

Eric

I love getting a nice warm and soapy enema and then retaining it just before the point of cramps. This is the most incredible feeling, I am not one for a punishment enema but pleasure only.

It depends on what scenario I’m playing at. Usually I take an enema for the fun of it. The fullness and cramping is part of it for me but nothing really unbearable. It will get uncomfortable, but it’s not really suffering but a choice to endure it. But sometimes I like to play a ‘punishment’ fantasy and then the suffering definitely becomes part of the session. The extreme cramping and fullness is what I want. Usually a retention nozzle to force myself beyond what I would consider a pleasurable experience. Then the holding of the enema so I am uncomfortable the entire time. I have done some sessions like that with an online domme, but not in a while. I need to find another domme. Lol.

None of this comes from any childhood experience, just my own experience and what I feel like at the time. I only remember one childhood experience with an enema given to me by my parents and it wasn’t a pleasant memory at all. Screaming, crying, bottom cold, tummy bloated and vomiting was all I remember. Traumatic at the time. But I obviously got over that.