Enemas and Suffering

I wonder how many of you feel a need to "suffer" your enema somewhat and whether that was something that stems form childhood

The idea of the 'uncomfortable' enema that has to be taken, regardless of one's thoughts on whether or not one feels able, appeals greatly to me. For that reason I find myself drawn to nozzles that inflate (preferably the double balloon nozzle) so that once started, there is nothing that can be done besides taking it all - and then holding it. Throw in some restraints, catheter, hood, e-stim, etc. and there becomes quite the scene for suffering.

Now, as far as whether or not this in particular stems from my childhood seems unlikely in the direct sense. I was given a grand total of one enema as a youth, but it was from a very concerned mother (I was in a lot of pain from several days of not having been able to eliminate) and was administered gently and without any force. While I do recall feeling terribly embarrassed and invaded upon during that strange procedure, as I'm sure most kids would, there was no cruelty in it. What manifested did so with momentum gathered from elsewhere rather than that one act.

Redbag. The whole idea is to suffer like Mom made you suffer. To this day I take a large enema and plead with myself to stop, then take a little more for mom. It always has to hurt!

Goal is erotic pleasure, minimal discomfort.

I take enemas strictly for good feelings. If you like pain, then that's fine with me. I have no use for it my self.

It's erotic to hear that you have to take more, that you have no choice. More pressure, a little pain. Very hot.

Not into suffering myself. When receiving Ivory SS enemas as a child between the ages of about 3 and 6, my Mom was always very gentle when administering them, and I never recall feeling anything other than the occasional mild discomfort. My Mom would always want me to tell her if it hurt at all, or if I didn't think I could take any more. Because my folks were such believers in enemas for whatever ailed me at the time, I'm sure they didn't want me to ever dread the prospect of receiving an enema. Consequently, I never did, and it probably is one of the reasons I still enjoy them today, over 60 years later. Although I appreciate the therapeutic value of enemas still today, their erotic value is "over the top".

Some of us were given enemas as a child only if we were sick, or suffering. The same applies to rectal thermometers. The comforting idea that someone was being attentive to our body/health, when we were sick is a good catalyst to continue wanting that feeling today! The embarrassment and vulnerability of baring one's private parts is fodder for a lot of great erotic playtime! After all, the suffering and embarrassment is in our thoughts, why not enjoy it!!!! I do!

My enemas are never associated with suffering - only great pleasure. Insertion, the feeling of the nozzle inside, and the wonderful excitement of the fluid gradually going deeper and deeper. Not to mention the clean and light feeling of an empty and clean bowel.

I kind of like the feeling of panic when I have taken a lot of water and feel full but the bag isn't empty and I have to take more!

I wonder how many of you feel a need to "suffer" your enema somewhat and whether that was something that stems form childhood

First time I seen it put that way - "suffer". My childhood enemas were very strong soapy ones that I hated - funny how I've turned that kind of suffering into a life long joy of suffering enema cramps!

Last enema of a series’s I always love someone pushing me to take more solution than the last enema that was administered.

A little pain is one thing.

Suffering is another!!

One of the things that makes enemas attractive is the weird mixture of pain and pleasure associated with any enema.

The small amount of pain, and the few minutes of retaining, and forcing yourself to hold in something your body has already decided to expel, and the distressed expulsions don't really qualify as suffering.

I think I understand the concept of 'suffering' an enema, but I am not sure why someone would consider taking an enema to suffer through. Enjoying pain is one thing, but to me, suffering is not pain. Suffering to me means you are gritting your teeth to get through it, even though it doesn't reach your pain threshold. If that's the case, then why do it at all?

Sorry to be judgemental, I don't see the point of 'grin and bear it' when it comes to our favorite pastime. To me, a good enema session should be relaxing, fun, and challenging. I should feel better, and have a sense of accomplishment, once the session has ended.

I always enjoyed my enemas as a tyke, so I guess I can't relate.

Sometimes cramps are bad, but otherwise no suffering here, and not my intention when l enema.

Mine have to hurt. The worst they hurt the better. I love pushing my limits or having other people push them for me. I'm always looking for ways to make them more painful. Just having a lot of water isn't enough. I need a lot of soap, laxatives mixed in, or cool/hot, or super fast enemas.

Mine have to hurt. The worst they hurt the better. I love pushing my limits or having other people push them for me.

You would like the one I just finished. My first time achieving 4 quarts. The last few pints were slow and a little bit painful.

My sub likes to get the occasional enema that makes him suffer. Whether it is a bit more water than he can normally take or a solution that is crampy and uncomfortable to hold.

It makes him feel more submissive and out of control of the enema experience.

Mine have to hurt. The worst they hurt the better. I love pushing my limits or having other people push them for me. I'm always looking for ways to make them more painful. Just having a lot of water isn't enough. I need a lot of soap, laxatives mixed in, or cool/hot, or super fast enemas.

Not. Just NOT. I really do love enemas, and so pushing limits, mostly with volume and retention length, sure, that's kind of fun. I love a big huge enema that makes me distend and feel a big volume of water all over my belly. But fishing for more and more pain, no thanks. Pain is the biggest anti-aphrodisiac arousal and orgasm killer I know. Occasionally adding in some soap or glycerin to get a little buzz or a bit of gurgling or mild cramping does feel pleasant now and then.

I also find it interesting that there was a good bit of discussion up until 2012, then about a 7 year hiatus until someone started this up again this year. Not surprisingly I guess, I had never seen this thread until today and I've been here over 4 years now.

Eric

Mine have to hurt. The worst they hurt the better. I love pushing my limits or having other people push them for me. I'm always looking for ways to make them more painful. Just having a lot of water isn't enough. I need a lot of soap, laxatives mixed in, or cool/hot, or super fast enemas.

Not that I'm interested in trying it, but I'm curious as to what's in the most painful/uncomfortable enema you've ever concocted?

Eric

The hot soapy solution given with my old red enema bag will make you curl your toes!

Mom's Egirl,

Just remind me, did I already ask you and did you post an answer about how you make your soapy enemas?

Thanks,

Eric

Suffering is not been a part of most of my recent enemas. I on occasion do like having to "suffer" through an enema. Suffering is a strange word to describe it but I do understand it. This sort of enema is rare but I do like a painful enema.

This could be done so many different ways, even a normal hot and soapy enema could make me into a crappy squirmy mess if given fast enough or a long retention time without being allowed to get off.

Being restrained for this would be good here. Really cold water, many other sort of solutions could make a suffering sort of enema as long as it pushes your limits and gives you that panic sort of feeling.

I haven't had this sort of full treatment in quite some time but now that I'm thinking about it I would like to have this done to me soon.

In my humble opinion, I don't thinks enemas should be "suffering" but should be pleasurable. Sometimes that pleasure may involve some cramping, however, I look for the experience to be fun rather that painful and/or suffering.

I think, for some of us, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. During an enema it is possible to experience both.

Enemas are different for all. But enemas are an interest g combination of pleasure associated with taboos cramping submission and intimacy. Some 3njky cramping others not. But the main thing is they bring and suffering is just a part for many to heighten the arousal from giving up control

Considering I enjoy enemas delivered within a punishment scene most, yes, suffering should be part of it. My favorite part is laying with the nozzle in and the hot, soapy water in the bag above; the dom/me can then tease, scold, or list off grievances and every little aspect is enhanced and magnified because of the elevated tension of what's about to occur.

No suffering here. For me, the enema is a relaxing and stimulating cleanse. And when I do think back about my childhood enemas from mom, I recall mom's conversations during those sessions were all about the necessity of a thorough enema and how good it feels to be cleaned out, using my favorite word "enema" frequently.

I beginning to wonder if the word "suffer" like other words has taken on a different meaning when one is referring to enemas. Yes an enema does make one have a sense of intense urgency to "go" particularly if it is a strong enema solution but it seems that most everyone hear "enjoys" and enema and the feelings that it creates. So in a way, "suffer" has come to me perhaps "enjoy" regarding enemas!! At least that is what I do.....really enjoy the whole process.....anticipating it, preparing it, undressing for it, inserting the nozzle, and starting the flow of water, holding it, and finally experiencing the release and feeling of being squeaky clean inside when done. Denise

I've endured suffering prior to an enema because I was not feeling well. This was years ago after I crushed the fingers on both of my hands. I was taking pain medication and with that came constipation for me. I could not go to the bathroom by myself. My husband had to help me. When grunting and groaning on the toilet got me no where but miserable I turned to my husband for help. He would clean me like a baby after a normal bowel movement and I readily accepted his loving help. With the constipation we decided an enema would be a good thing to try. Constipation was no fun back then. It hurt! He would give me my first enema in the bedroom and then he would help me to the toilet. He would give me subsequent enemas while I sat on the toilet. When I was done he cleaned me and dressed me. That was a suffering I would not want to go through again. It was however a suffering that elevated the love between my husband and I. I came clean with him a short while after I was felling better and using my hands. I missed the attention I was receiving when I was unable to help myself. Although I did not need his help I wanted him to take care of me during my toilet times. I felt so deeply in love with him giving me enemas and everything involved with them. Now I've endured some passionate pain during an enema but it is more a passionate pain in my mind. Sure my bowels feel uncomfortable at times but that triggers some type of desire in me to turn my body over to my husband. It's no longer an enema I'm receiving it's love beyond what I can explain here. It's a mental and emotional suffering that turns to pleasure and happiness. So I see an enema session as being Half Heaven and Half Heartache. So it's no physical suffering or discomfort for me. However my mind suffers anticipating my next enema session. Does that happen with any of you folks?