Generally I keep my pubes trimmed, to about 1/4" and sometimes I let it grow out as I forget to keep everything neat and trimmed. In general, I feel a little more submissive when I am trimmed or shaved. When I am shaved, my SIR does the honor and shaves my crotch clean -- that is truly a submissive moment.Still, I can be very natural "down there", but feel completely submissive in the presence of my SIR. So for me, I don't necessarily have to be trimmed to feel submissive. However, if ordered, I will cute my pubes down to about a 1/4" and share a pic of my efforts. Following the orders is pretty exhilarating and reinforces who is the sub in the dynamic.For me, being trimmed, shaved or natural depends on my head space and what my SIR prefers at the moment. Of course, SIR's wishes over rule everything.