Shave vs no shave

It works both ways , as in " spread em and don't move " or " if you nick me or I feel any stubble you will get stripes on your rear " . both wife and I were shaved clean down below for 30 years and I had quite a few stripes on my rear end .

It was one of my dom's first instructions. I had to shave everything off, buzz cut my hair and remove any hair on my body using Veet. Being completely hairless makes me much more vulnerable and obedient. Anyway I don't have an option.

Being shaved makes me feel more submissive because I don’t have the control now shaving I like the feel of being smooth down below and makes for easier anal play.

All the different perspectives are represented here but I'd like to contribute my 2 cents.

I've shaved my diaper area for years with occasional total removals. Then I tried professional waxing... which left me hair-free much longer. The techs are always respectful, and I have a 'usual service provider' now, erotic extras were only ever suggested by one tech from another spa.

I tried a total removal which included everything except my scalp; wondering what that would be like. My wife and I both 'loved' the look and feel. I was particularly surprised how much smoother 'non-hairy' areas felt. It's a treat I can only afford once or twice a year. I'm waiting somewhat impatiently for the next 'everything that can be waxed' session

Sorry, I didn't answer the question -- yes most definitely I feel much more subby, especially after all my naughty bits have been well-dusted with baby powder. 😳

It was the first thing my Dom ordered me to do. Shave everything and Veet the hairs on my arms and legs. Even my head was #0 buzz cut. Then keep it that way. Yes, it made diaper wear easier but it made me more submissive from the start. Somehow I felt even more naked.

Have no pubic hair makes nappy changes easier but also makes me feel very submissive

I always feel much more exposed and subservient with my vulva shaved.

You looked ok to me that time in Bristol !

Being restrained and shaved during an exam is a sure way to make a girl feel submissive!

I love the look and feel of shaved on a female. I also find for myself it is much more comfortable.

I love the look and feel of being shaved. I keep my pubs, balls and anal area hairless. I does make me feel a bit more submissive. But I'm a shaved adult and am not into baby/diaper scenes.

I think shaving or being shaved would make me feel more submissive

Being shave smooth is a mental thing as much as a physical thing for me. Being a very late bloomer it brings back memories of mothers little compliant enema boy, small and smooth standing in the bath room watching her prepare my enemas and being totally exposed for her to see

Just love being shaved. Been doing it, and then powdering, every morning for so long I can't remember what my pubic hair looks like. It feels so clean and my lady, who just trims, loves it.

I hit puberty early, was in a boys' boarding school, and was teased horribly so hair down there is just one thing I don't need!

At one stage I had my legs waxed too but that is a bit too far for her. Don't wear nylons anymore but...

Also shave under arms and around back passage. Tried VET and my lady's epilator, at her suggestion, but have gone back to a multiple bladed Gillette razor. I shave sitting on the bidet and add a little Dettol, Chloroxylenol to the water.

Final thought. Hair really does not go with pretty lingerie which I wear.

Being shaved definitely makes me feel more submissive. I am completely exposed with no way to hide.

I do not particularly like the absence of hair in the genitals, but I am very attracted to being shaved, both for the passive role that I find exciting it self, both for the situation: open, maybe tied, immobile, manipulated like an object...

I like the feeling after shave when the skin is smooth. But of course, if I do it for myself I can forget to shave or just feel uncomfortable to shave every day and can leave it for some time and let it grow 😃

But when I know that it is very important and my partner loves me when I smooth I will do it in respect of his desires and yes when I do it for Him I feel more submissive.

For me being shaved is a mental thing as much as physical. I was a very late bloomer, it takes me back to growing up. I always felt so exposed vunerable and controlled when i was on display for her to see

I feel more sub, when I shave.

I have had partners both hairy and shaved. I have shaved myself, which was fun for doing an ABDL scene with a girl friend. Growing it out was very itchy.

Yes, I do. I once shaved a friend and she asked me to bind her hands before I put on the cream...felt she liked to be submissive to me...

I like to keep myself shaved anyway, but in answer to the original question, yes it does make me feel a little more submissive. When I'm in that context I feel my cock, balls, arse and the surrounding area are more visible and accessible to whoever I am offering them to.

I would always want my sub shaved. If not would have to do it myself.

I don’t know if it’s more submissive, but I definitely feel more self conscious if I don’t shave. My play partner at the moment likes me to go to him with a bit of hair, I’m allowed to trim, then he shaves it off himself. Starts with a One Blade, which gets me wet from the vibrations, the. Gives a closure shave.

Maybe one reason I don’t feel more submissive is that my outer labia completely cover the rest of my vulva. The only thing you can see from outside is the peak of my clit.

Absolutely shave. In my case I am a little and a little has absolutely no hair. So to keep me feeling little I need to be shaved and it help to be more submissive

I shave from around my asshole to just above my cock at least 3-4 times a week. I like the way it feels. Very freeing and in my partners like sucking me and not getting hair in the way. When I eat pussy, suck cock or rimming I appreciate the smoothness of the skin against my tongue and lips. I never feel as if it's a Sub or Dom situation. It's just pleasant sex. 😃

Being super hairy, when I shaved and suddenly saw my smooth legs, chest with breasts, crotch, etc. I felt very feminine and wanted attention as such. Strange in that while I didn't find a man's body sexy, I wanted their attention. Seems like a paradox. I thought perhaps it was natures way to make a guy hairy and rough looking to suppress the desires I was having.

If I'm submitting to someone I'd shave if they told me too

I have had extensive laser and electrolysis. My wife approves of and likes this. I will never have pubic hair, ass hair, underarm hair, and hairy legs again. 100% of my underarm hair is gone, 99.9% of pubic hair is gone, 98% of my leg hair is gone, most of my arm hair is gone. I shave whatever hair is left. I still get maintenance laser and electrolysis.

Many years ago before hair removal I would shave everything but then get a lot of ingrown hairs. My pubic area would turn into a rash. I would also hide my smooth legs because I was embarrassed. Now it just feels natural to be hairless and I don't hide it. I never get ingrown hairs anymore. My dominant wife likes the smoothness.