SPH = small penis humiliation

Im definitely into this, my husband used to tease me all the time (playfully of course!) about my my small cock; we were going to do a bondage scene involving cucking and humiliation with another friend of his before he passed away a few years ago .

Im on the small side. Sticks straight out when limp and grows a little when hard. Wife doesnt do much SPH (granted, we dont have PIV sex as she says it doesnt do much for her).

I would love to see some picture of the small penis's and compare them with mine that I have posted in my albums

I've never heard the term "SPH-small penis humiliation" coined before. But I think it's very wrong and unacceptable to ridicule anyone because of penis size and to make wrong assumptions about male genital attractiveness and sexual virility. American men are a bit too preoccupied with this fantasy that bigger is better and then proceed to boast - or more likely, exaggerate or lie. I'm sure there are very few, if any, porn actors on zity. Based on what I've actually seen, I would have to say that most adult dicks average from 1 to 2 inches in length when flaccid. And there's nothing wrong with that.

I've never heard the term "SPH-small penis humiliation" coined before. But I think it's very wrong and unacceptable to ridicule anyone because of penis size and to make wrong assumptions about male genital attractiveness and sexual virility.

Just as there are people who wish to experience pain and hurt through physical punishments (which I personally cannot get my head around) or others who like to be verbally abused and dominated, I suppose it should not be surprising that there are men who will feel some form of mental or sexual satisfaction from having their physical condition, namely a small penis that cannot be enlarged in any manner, used as a way to experience some form of sexual arousal.

From what we read in accounts in any case, they seem to use their condition to obtain some form of arousal and pleasure in what they cannot alter anyway. Sort of like making a virtue out of necessity.

Perhaps for some it is jarring to hear the word 'humiliation' linked to sexual pleasure. But essentially it is little different from enjoying physical or verbal punishments.

The greatest humiliation would be from when she asks, "Is it in yet?" while your having intercourse.

Out of all the parts of the male body, the penis is the most fascinating. It's the symbol of our manhood and is something to be proud of. No two penises are exactly alike and I for one am totally fine that mine is on the small side both flaccid and erect. I've never understood the SPH thing but each to his own. One of the photo albums in my profile is dedicated to appreciation of the penis - I invite everyone to check it out and hopefully develop a greater appreciation of the penis.

The greatest humiliation would be from when she asks, "Is it in yet?" while your having intercourse.

I have actually had this experience... But kind of in reverse. I don't consider myself to have a small penis and am not into sph. I'm not bragging, it's just slightly bigger than average I'd say. But I was having sex with a woman after a LOT of foreplay. I entered her and gave a few tentative thrusts to get things going. But her vagina was so loose and she was so wet, I actually had to reach down and feel that was actually inside her. The position that worked best was doggy style with her knees together. It took me forever to cum.

Sds or short dick syndrome is most often cured by buying a bigger boat than the other guys!

@ markRT: Adult penis size, 1-2 inches? I think you haven't been in the dressing room at the gym in a while. Size varies a lot but most men are 3-4" with some a lot longer, and there are 1-2" dicks (mine). Porn websites have special SPH sections-women demeaning a naked man's penis; holding thumb and fore finger an inch apart. must be a lot of guys watching.

I got into it after nurse told me I was small (see post #26 above)

I have always been and I still am always intimidated by other men who have been blessed with larger dicks in a communal shower and locker room. I always try not to stare...I try not to be caught staring. Maybe it's a Napoleon Complex but I actually feel so shamefully inadequate when I am in the nude along with any other man, gay, straight or in between, who has a longer and thicker penis than mine. Over the years I have become used to it but I will not ever be content with my almost just barely average, rather small penis. I still feel so pathetically inadequate and I am sure I always will.

@Nurse_Nikki As a nurse I’ve seen many hundreds of penises of various size, shapes and colors. I can tell you that a flaccid short penis may not be that way when the patient becomes erect. I often observe that a short 2” penis often will have more girth (2”+)than length (less than 5-6”)when it’s erect.

Thanks for first hand info. Even though my peckeroo is less than 2" in my panties, when excited it goes out to 5.5" and is very thick.

My penis 1-2" inches when flaccid and my testicles are normally tight to the my crotch. If sometimes when I am naked my testicles do hang some and my penis though flaccid will be about 2". Erect I am close to 6- 7" with nice thickness and my testicles will hang loose and then tighten during orgasm and ejaculation's. I find in some bedroom play, spanking and punishment that I am never hard so it is humiliating. Also, several times I have totally shaved bare of pubic hair and my penis and testicles look noticeably small to me when flaccid,. In the locker room, I have seen some guys that show more than have 3-4 and others like myself and sometimes smaller. I never have often thought how small I look in mirror and in discipline play but I am not so self-conscious to worry about it.

Over the years I have become used to but maybe not quite content with my average to rather small penis. I still feel inadequate and probably always will.

I don't know how many times i have read the comment that it doesn't matter how large or how small, but how it is used that matters.

Adding to this, as I have stated in an earlier post, I have a small penis and I am ok with that. My father on the other hand, had a very large penis and in all seriousness, it was the most beautiful penis I have ever seen, as were his testicles and fire engine red pubic hair. No, I did not ever see him erect. Did I ever feel inferior to him? No. In fact, I respected his manliness all the more.

I am rather modestly endowed. I have never felt inferior because of that. The women with whom I have had either vaginal or anal sex seemed to think it was a rather ideal size.

I do not understand the gratification gained from SPH, but I will not criticize those who enjoy it. If someone EVER made an inappropriate remark about my genitalia, I would respond with a drastically un-proportional response.

For what it's worth, following my recent inflatable penile prosthesis implant, my length when erect has decreased from just under 6" to 4.75". Still haven't had the opportunity to try out the new penis with my wife (I have managed to masturbate a couple times).

I have a little over 7 inches with some girth. When i was married (to a woman), her perception was that it was large. If i wasn't careful, i'd hit her cervix and that would hurt her. At the same time, when she was having an orgasm or close, she'd beg for "big ones" (big motion). i learned how to do both with here, giving her the big motions while limiting the depth. She's the only woman i have experience with, but that was a lot over 31 years.

After divorcing, i've only been with Men as a total bottom. Psychologically i love it when a Man minimizes my penis in a matter of fact way. i'm never into purposeful meanness or bullies, but am deeply aroused by Men Who do not perceive me as having a 'cock.'

As someone who is a total receiver of "cock," who never uses his penis penetratively, penis size takes on a very full meaning. To me a "cock" is more internal than external. I.e., it is also the driving force, energy, need and want behind it. i've been bred by Men with 3 inch cocks that were much larger than some of the 8 inch cocks i have been with.

i'm not just fluffing up the discussion here, i'm being totally real and honest. If physical size were the only factor, i can get dildos that are bigger than any human possesses lol. But, the only time i use a dildo is when a Man is using it on me, which is when the size of His internal cock really shows (or doesn't) itself.

To me, "cock" is the drive/need/desire/energy to penetrate, fuck, orgasm, breed, possess (to name a few), and physical size cannot substitute or cover for a lack of those things... nor by the same measurement does physical size detract from that.

i have been with Men/Tops Who saw me, understood me and/or were just being Their natural Self, and treated and spoke to me as having no cock at all. They were not trying to be mean, or play some role. Those are some of the most powerful connections i have had. i did feel "small penis humiliation" of a sort, i think that is in part a conditioned response. But was also deeply aroused and possessed because it was also deeply affirming... to both of us.

A mistress friend taught me stuff like "bitchclit" and making him wear panties in the mens locker room and a bunch of other honestly pretty fucked up stuff which I had never heard of before, haha. So I wrote a story series for her trying to use all the ideas. It has pretty good reviews, maybe if you are an SPH fan you'll like it. Has a medical slant with a young female doctor making terrible fun of this poor protagonist and his little wee wee.

https://www.literotica.com/s/one-tiny-problem

>He stalled and looked at the floor. "Doc? Ma'am? I'm sorry, but I'm kinda shy about pulling down my shorts in front of you. Is there a way you can check me and I leave them on?"

>"Jake," she said matter of fact, rising to face him. "I need to do a testicle check for the physical. It's required; I don't know any way around it. You'll have to pull your boxers down for me now."

>He thought he had avoided getting naked for her but her attitude was all business; there didn't seem to be a way out of this one. He began to come to terms with the idea of it. But at least he could give her a warning. "Doc," he stammered, "There's something I'm embarrassed about."

>"Tell me. I'm sure it's not bad. I know I seem young but I've seen a lot in my hospital rounds. I doubt you'll shock me."

Honestly I have a normal size penis, 6,5 inches, 17cm, despite this I like SPH.

In a play exam for me it's very exciting to hear the Doctor says something like "your penis is a bit under the average size, this can be a problem, I want to check better your penis and testicles to see if there's something wrong with your development".

This statement or something similar it's exciting for me because stimulate my sub mind, it humiliate me and give the Doctor a good reason for continue the exam.

As a woman, I find that a wider tick penis can provide more satisfying stimulation because certain sensory nerves in the vaginal and vulvar areas are concentrated along the sides rather than deep penetration. I can’t help but burst into laughter every time I come across a small tiny one. What am I supposed to do with that? Tickle my funny bone?? 😂😂😂

Was a late developer and was humiliating in high school locker room and showers

I have often fantasized about SPH. I have always had an average to small penis that has gotten smaller as I have gotten older. I occasionally wear feminine style panties made for men in hopes that my wife will pick up on my sissy/sph inclinations. Unfortunately, it has remained mostly a fantasy.

I occasionally wear feminine style panties made for men in hopes that

Except for pairs of male boxers kept for medical visits; full-cut, nylon women's panties is all I have and wear.

I guess I am just a little on the small side but during simple cuddles, if I am tired and in spoon position, my penis seems particularly small without any excitation and due to the position.

I then put the hand of my girlfriend on my limp dick and ask her to comment : she says some things like "totally small", "it's a baby", "completely limp"

She is still shy but has understood I like her to comment on my penis size, or to talk about the size of her previous lovers

@SoMDBadBoi: though flaccid will be about 2". Erect I am close to 6- 7" with nice thickness

An amazing transition! Can only image the look on a partner's face when that takes place; going from 2 to 7 inches wow!

I used to feel I was small but now I think of myself as adequate and that it's all in the other's perception. Large or small is subjective and I am seen as small or big, thin or thick, it's a turn on to me if it's a turn on to them. humiliation that isn't degrading is a turn on for sure.

"I am a sissy and i have very small male genitals. My penis is barely 1 inch flaccid and I also have very small scrotum/testicles. I hate it when Mommy asks Her girlfriends to come over and they administer SPH when they help Mommy dress me in my sissy clothes and put me in my diapers.

I was wondering if there are other sissies out there that want/need/get/fantasize about SPH?

BTW you dont need to be small to be into SPH. Id love to hear from those that are small though. Id also love to hear from females that like to administer SPH as well."

Luv and hugs

Patti

You are a damn sissy and you need to grow up and get a pair. If you identify as a man and call yourself Patti you need to evaluate your life choices. Nut Up or Shut Up, boy.

Low testosterone and my advanced age has made my already small penis quite a bit smaller. If there can be an up side though, I think my little penis does make my balls seem to look a little bit larger, so I guess that could be a good thing.