SPH = small penis humiliation

@Secret_sub your comment ’Like or Hate’ for me it‘s definitely ’Like’ makes my little friend twitch in its little cage just writing about it. Also a little shame at times thinking that I didn‘t at least get an average one. Happy how I am though.

Hi Patti

yes im small make mum laugh and her friends I am dressed girly at home so I’m pretty used to be humiliated in front of the ladies

I am really not into making humiliating comments about the size of a man's penis. That said I often do think about the size of a man's erect cock I never say anything other then “oh that's a big one”if I make any comment at all. I have found it amazing that some large flaccid cocks don't grow very much with an erection, they just get stiff. Others have a small flaccid cock and it grows tremendously when I get excited. I probably shouldn't say this but I have seen some orientals in porn films that have an incredibly small erect cock. Before COVID-19 my husband and I went on a short vacation to Japan. Out of curiosity I went into a drugstore there. To my surprise they actually had condoms that were advertised as small. Here in the states I doubt very many men would walk out through cashier with a box of condoms labeled small size.

Dita

I have found it amazing that some large flaccid cocks don't grow very much with an erection, they just get stiff. Others have a small flaccid cock and it grows tremendously

That's a good description of “shower” versus “grower" cocks. I never knew about this in my younger days. Having a grower that's very small when flaccid, (only an inch or so) but it becomes standard size and rather thick when aroused; so I'm happy about it. I like that it's so tiny when flaccid, as it allows me to easily wear women's panties. On the other hand, I've also liked the complements given by women partners on the pleasures it's given them.

Yes when I was a young boy and our governess had to put me in diapers / nappies because I had wet the bed four times in a row. She asked my parents if it would be OK to put me back in diapers. When she laid me on the bed naked my sisters came over and laughed about my small penis. Since then I find this erotic and exciting

I'm smaller than avg but decent size, but still… feelings of inadequacy compared to porn images always turn up. I was embarrassed by that but have learned that accepting and playing with the idea is also a turn on.

I love dirty talk that is about size and performance.

Im not small but just a bit above average but like bratwurst a nurse told me I had a small penis when I was hospitalized for a serious medical condition and I was weak and lost 15-20 pounds. The last thing on my mind was sex even when she took off my gown to help me take a shower. She said make sure you wash your “little guy” and smiled.

Is there truly a definition of “average size?" I would think there must be some correlation to the man's overall body size.

Is there truly a definition of “average size?" I would think there must be some correlation to the man's overall body size.

Most people think the average erect penis is 6 inches. But there have been some studies claim this to be “overstated”. There are LOTS of articles if you Google “Average Penis Size” - so there must be a LOT of interest in this!!

For 21 studies in which researchers measured stretched (erect?) penises, the mean was approximately 5.11 inches (12.98 cm; 13,719 samples). Based on these studies, the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches (12.95-13.97 cm), but after taking volunteer bias into account, it is probably toward the lower end of this range. Studies show that a majority of men wish they were larger, with some choosing penile lengthening surgery. Another study stated erect penises had an average length of 5.1 inches and an average circumference of 4.5 inches.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32666897/

https://www.smsna.org/patients/did-you-know/what-is-the-average-penis-size

As a nurse I’ve seen many hundreds of penises of various size, shapes and colors. I can tell you that a flaccid short penis may not be that way when the patient becomes erect. I often observe that a short 2” penis often will have more girth (2”+)than length (less than 5-6”)when it’s erect.

It’s less uncomfortable for a man with a shorter penis if we have to put a catheter up there. The only discomfort a man typically feels is when the balloon tip passes the glans (stings and burns for a few seconds). But the shorter his shaft is, the shorter and easier route we nurses have reaching his bladder.

I’d never shame a man for having a small or short penis. It’s what God gave him. Beside, most of us women get our pleasure from the first 3 or 4 inches. Girth feels better than length.

It’s less uncomfortable for a man with a shorter penis if we have to put a catheter up there. The only discomfort a man typically feels is when the balloon tip passes the glans (stings and burns for a few seconds). But the shorter his shaft is, the shorter and easier route we nurses have reaching his bladder.

A technician performing a CMG on my wife said they use lidocaine on the catheter for men - and that it also tends to be uncomfortable when it passes the prostate. I can't speak from experience - the only time I was cathed was after the cocktail they gave me before my surgery. It didn't hurt coming out the next day.

My wife used to say my penis was big - but she was just trying to flatter me….I don't consider my self endowed! My flacid penis can hang anywhere from less than one inch (when it's cold and hiding) to 2-3 inches (I'm guessing). Never actually measured it - but it always managed to rise to the occasion to get the job done!!!!

@Dita

Others have a small flaccid cock and it grows tremendously when I get excited.

My point exactly regarding the black man stereotype of a large penis. Many many years ago a man living in Africa would want to be hanging free because of the heat while a man in the far north is shriveled up because of the cold winters. And over time, the man from north has a small flaccid cock compared to his southern man. However, when erect both northern and southern man can be the same size (roughly). I've seen some huge Caucasians and some smaller southern me when excited. Just a stupid theory of mine, I've got lots…

How refreshing to read Nurse Nikki's comments and reinforcement for men who are on the smaller side when flaccid but rise to the occasion when aroused. Far too much attention is given to those with huge organs! Interestingly enough, women may not prefer to take on such a large proposition!

@Nick321 personally I am not worried about the size, more what the owner does with it

@Rigel Interesting post… I am not sure however that “stretched” equates to “erect.” But still an interesting study.

@Rigel Interesting post… I am not sure however that “stretched” equates to “erect.” But still an interesting study.

@Art201 the exact quote from the NCBI article stated:

“These studies suffered from both volunteer bias and social desirability bias. In this review, the combined mean for 10 studies in which researchers took measurements of erect penises was 5.36 inches (13.61 cm; n = 1,629).”

I think the reference to the “stretched” penis came from the other article.

erect penises was 5.36 inches (13.61 cm; n = 1,629).”

Sounds about right for me. Back when I was having sex, none of the gals ever mentioned liking something longer. The only comment that clearly remains in my noggin is when my first wife who had run off with another, came back one day just for sex, and upon seeing me erect mentioned she wished her new guy was as wide as me.

Studies indicate that the average length penis has increased by 24% since 1992! (That's from 4.8 inches in '92 to 6 inches in 2022).

From the World Journal of Mens Health:

‘'Seventy-five studies published between 1942 and 2021 were evaluated including data from 55,761 men. The pooled mean length estimates were flaccid length: 8.70 cm (95% CI, 8.16–9.23), stretched length: 12.93 cm (95% CI, 12.48–13.39), and erect length: 13.93 cm (95% CI, 13.20–14.65). After adjusting for geographic region, subject age, and subject population”

Lots of different theories as to what caused this: different measurement techniques; sedentary lifestyle; porn (e.g. more erections equates to more growth); chemicals and pesticides etc. Some docs worry that we put too much emphasis on this - bigger isn't necessarily better. Some questions of this will have a fertility impact. etc.

https://scopeblog.stanford.edu/2023/02/14/is-an-increase-in-penile-length-cause-for-concern/

https://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/penises-have-gotten-surprisingly-longer-over-past-29-years-study-finds/

Personally, I haven't noticed! 😈……. nor did my wife! 😄

Yes mine is actually on the small side when soft, however when erect it grows to seven inches long and six inch girth

@Rigel: Studies indicate that the average length penis has increased by 24% since 1992! (That's from 4.8 inches in '92 to 6 inches in 2022).

Reading about that it appears they liked blaming it on pesticides and chemicals in our food.... I'm wondering if it simply is that men have gotten taller and otherwise larger ....

Reading about that it appears they liked blaming it on pesticides and chemicals in our food.... I'm wondering if it simply is that men have gotten taller and otherwise larger ....

@Reddevil That's interesting and there probably is a correlation between the growth in height and penis size: "A century ago, American men ranked as the third tallest in the world, standing at 171 centimeters (5 feet 7 inches). Now, they place as the 37th, with an average of 177 centimeters (5 feet 10 inches)."

Overall, we are healthier and have longer loife expectancies today than a century ago, due in part to advances in medicine and lifestyle changes.

Countries with the tallest men (for all you ladies who are looking!): Netherlands, Belgium, Estonia, Latvia, Denmark

Belgium? Really? Hmmmm!

@reddevil Longer may hit on the cervix more often, and this is not something most women like, I reckon (in fact, there are positions that my wife disliked because the angle led to my penis hitting in the wrong place inside). My wife says width/circumference can be felt (her remark was that I was thicker than previous partners; but this was back when I was in my 20s, I cannot get such erections now).

I've read some women here saying that a thick penis is bad for anal.

I've read some women here saying that a thick penis is bad for anal.

I suspect there’s two sides to that belief/preference! 😈

Belgium? Really? Hmmmm!

Once you look up the list of nations per tallest people, then the differences in the top categories is really not that great. Most cluster around 180 cm give or take a bit.

The Dutch do stick out though and lots of Dutch people live in Belgium, so maybe that drives the national average up just a teensy bit ... 😃

@Rigel I think @Turkey1 compared the feeling of being sodomized to that of being impaled. She seemed to liked it but perhaps with a thicker penis it would have been too much…

So, the obvious conclusion is that men who worry about SPH should move to Belgian, grow a couple inches and as a result enhance the size of their penis! 😉 Problem solved!!!!!

@Pecan_nutjob I wasn't referring to anyone specific - just women in general. Some like it thin, some like it thick.

, so maybe that drives the national average up just a teensy bit ... 😃

The population must have grown in more ways than 1 since I left lol. ( population was 10m when I left in '97 )

To be ckear...

@Rigel I think @Turkey1 compared the feeling of being sodomized to that of being impaled. She seemed to liked it but perhaps with a thicker penis it would have been too much…

For me with anal I love thick. Long and thick is awesome.

I was wondering if there are other sissies out there that want/need/get/fantasize about SPH?

Yes, I fantasize about a woman making fun of my small penis - having me naked in front of her while she belittles me and tells how ineffective my small penis is and how she needs to find a real man to satisfy her.