What did he do to make you think he enjoyed it? Please give a lot of detail!
@exam_doc with the operative phrase "a lot", everyone on this thread, if they didn't already know previously, knows where your medfet is at 😉
What the hell is the purpose of a drape if they're going to remove it?.
@roscoe To minimize exposure during any time when not examining that particular area, and in the subtext, to minimize any cause for a potential sexual harrassment complaint, potentially made by someone wanting a payday from a perceived affluent medical profession. It happens.
I only feel that there's one good use for a drape, and that's to partially cover yourself when the exam room door is opening. That way when the doctor/nurse is entering or exiting the exam room, you're not flashing everything to someone else in the hallway.
@JimmyJohnson Ironically, the "accidental nudity" portion of the program is the point we exhibitonists are more likely to cash in on the experience, as you may well be aware. What becomes standard exposure to those in the room behind a closed door, goes to a next level when that door is now "open" for outsiders to see what is going on behind otherwise closed doors. There's dynamic there. Once it's about being exposed to those IN the room, eventually as that becomes "commonplace", THEN it becomes about becoming exposed to those OUTSIDE the room, who weren't meant to see. For exhibitionistic folks, exposure to those inside the closed door room is the "gateway rush" to that open door. (spoken like a true exhibitionist)
. Don't know why she was so insistent on it, my recent exams were with other female doctors, no chaperone.
@AlVa45 That's exactly it. Your recent exams were with "other" female docs. This one did not know you. You could go home and share details of your experience to someone, say like your parents, who may take exception. And sometimes with that, perhaps again someone looking for a payday from the perceived "rich" medical professsion, there can be potential concerns. Or at minimum, concerns raised that you were alone with a female doc, and that she may have taken advantage of you, with her authoritarain position. Especially nowadays, where female teachers get in big trouble for inappropriate relationships with male students (I am convinced that in the 20th century, it was highly likely female teacher could have had sex with a male student without anyone finding out, because we liked the sex and were not out for money, thoughicouldbeallfuckedupwhoknows)
I've never had an exam by anyone who seemed to worry about being alone with me being naked. In recent years most of my doctors have been females and just went ahead with whatever they were going to do to me. Perhaps we're the ones who think too much about it. I know if I'm going to be naked and someone's going to be touching me, particularly in the area of my genitalia, I would prefer it to be a female. Of course for the DRE most females have smaller fingers.
@roscoe Sign me up for the overthinkers club. This overly concern with modesty on the part of medical professionals had ME worried about being offensive over being overexposed to them. A far cry from having a physical with an older male doc, and being okay with being completely submissive in the times before gowns were even offered to males. And now we're concerned about our lack of modesty with medical professionals? Time to puase, stop and ask ourselves, yes, what the fuck.
Of course for the DRE, most females have smaller fingers. As someone, though recently bi, NOT into anal, smaller fingers are better. It then becomes about length, how much of the prostate it can reach for an evaluation. My current pcp says she can only reach the bottom third. But I've had a male doctor with fat fingers go in there 3+ years before her, and i was on the verge of screaming. If someone had taken a pic of my face, my expression would have looked like I was being anally raped for the 1st time. And it was not my 1st DRE either.