Menstrual Periods and Gyno Exams

I love to remove the tampon and insert a new one.

BigK that was a cute story, and it is very common. My mother never talked about her period, it was taboo. My mother was upset when she found I used tampons, she used pads, and thought only bad girls used tampons. I got in trouble one time because I left my tampon box out where it could be seen. My mother would never buy her feminine supplies herself, she always made my dad go in the store and buy them, until I was old to drive and would go to the store and get them for her. Even then she was embarrassed that I knew that she was on her period.

Why should it be such a taboo, not fair really. A natural happening which I agree can be erotic in the right atmosphere and surroundings, nothing to be ashamed of that is for sure.

The shower is a great place to stsrt experimenting!

I think that it would be intresting to have an exam with my period. I once had a BF that wanted to but I didn't let him than may be know.

I've had sex during my period and enjoy it, and I do find that I'm really horny during my period. I've had gyn appointments during my period. One was to get an IUD placed and they prefer that you have it placed during your period. I've even had a play exam near the end of my period. Normally, I will ask the play doc how they feel about it and schedule around it, but this last time we had picked out a date and I didn't want to reschedule and I even sort of forgot about it until we were taking my underpants off and I suddenly remembered when I saw the pantyliner, oh by the way I'm on my period so if you don't want to go there you don't have to, but my play doc did anyway which definitely made me happy.

We are conditioned from the time we are young to think of it as dirty - I personally don't like the smell of blood- Certain religions are really hung up about it and it's even mentioned in the old testament a few times as unclean and that a man should not have anything to do with a woman during that time, which I think is ludicrus because I'm sure men back then were probably not that on top of their own hygiene. :😃

The first man I ever talked to with a med fet was into the whole menstrual thing. I say if the man finds it arousing, the woman shouldn't have a problem with it. Most of us - our libido is way up at that time anyways. I just don't want blood on my 1000 thread count sheets. :'(

Having come from a medical background, menstruation is no mystery to me. I've done numerous exams on several 'patients' while they were on their periods. I found that their attitudes and responses are a lot different than when they're not menstruating. Usually, I tried to avoid doing it on their first or second day, because that's when the flow and cramping are the heaviest. Some women were okay with the idea of exams on their periods. With others, it took some real 'convincing'. I know that they (for the most part) felt quite embarrassed, although it was obvious that it turned most of them 'on', too, especially if I waited until they were 'on the table' to remove her panties and pad or tampon. As one post mentioned above, she would allow a 'play doc' to do an exam, during her period, although she wouldn't do so with her regular gyno doctor. Personally, as a 'gyno-doc', I like doing 'menstrual exams'. :-)

My boyfriend (now ex, actually) would have sex with me on my period, but not on the first day, when it was heaviest. I didnt really want to either, but he would always wait for the third day, and then he'd wear a condom. In general he wasnt grossed out if I was on it, though, he said it was natural (which it obviously is, but its refreshing to hear a man say that). I just dont think he wanted to be covered in it himself. I suggested the shower one time but I am on the short side and we could never get it to work regularly, so we didnt really try.

The man I am seeing now, not official with, has said he doesnt mind at all, and that its a natural thing, and he would have sex with me on my period.

In a play exam sense, it seems a bit taboo but there is something slightly erotic about it to me. If I was in the right mood... In real life it may be erotic too, but I have yet to reach that point with a boyfriend.

All IUD insertion procedures are done during menstruation. This is because the cervix is softer and open at this time of the cycle. I will be posting some IUD insertion photos soon. I have to reduce them in size.

My mom once scheduled a gyno exam and my mom was unaware my period. She took me to the doctor where i told my mom and the doctor that i was on my period, my mom asked the doctor if we need to reschedule the appointment but doctor said he will go ahead. I was 16 at time. I was placed in the stirrups as usual and then the doctor took out the tampon i was wearing and performed the exam. He gave me a new tampon to insert after the exam.

I don't think I would ever have any kind of exam while on my period. I have really bad cramps and am so sore and tender I don't even let me boyfriend near me, so would not be letting anyone else anywhere near me either.

I know it is a bit off topic but I for one would like to see any IUD Insertion pictures that you have Diaphragm Fitter.

Preferrably not too much reduced in size either, although I know that can get tricky!

My doctor has told me if one of my appointments fall during my period I should simply reschedule to a later date. It only happened twice and I did reschedule for a week later.

I dont think most drs in the uk anyway will do an exam when youre on youre period unless its an emergency although i find it certainly heightens my sensitivity uring play with toys etc

Yeah I'm really not fond of this idea either. It would seem like a rather messy situation. Not to mention...I don't know about you girls...but when I'm on my period...I really wouldn't want anybody touching me down there especially with painful cramps!!!!

Ooooh errrm i dont think i would like this ..

maybe my periods are to heavy for the exam at that time of the month .

I would absolutely LOVE to have a gyn remove my tampon while in the stirrups 😃

I've never had a gyn exam while on my period, and not sure how I'd feel about it if I had to. I'd probably be OK with it, but I'm sure I'd feel much more embarrassed and self conscious about the doctor examining me. The thought of the gynecologist removing my tampon during an exam is exciting, one that I hadn't thought about before but find more arousing as I imagine it.

I've had sex on my period and that's OK. I'm fine with it as long as my partner is too. In general I do find that having an orgasm while I'm menstruating helps with the cramps and also seems to shorten the total length of my period.

I have no problem with doing a play exam when a 'patient' is on her period. I find that some women like this idea and the embarrassment adds to her excitement. At other times, it takes some real convincing and a few have refused, although there is no reason why a play exam cannot be done, other than personal preference. I ask that she leave her pad and panties on, until she is ready to get on the table. If she uses tampons, I ask her to leave in until she is on the table with her feet in the stirrups. Then, I gently remove it. I also offer a view of her menstruating cervix, via a fiber optic light and a mirror. Most want to see and are fascinated. After the exam, I offer a fresh pad or insert a fresh tampon (the latter often produces a look of awe that a male play doc knows how insert a tampon).

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It can be done 😳 sometimes with "limitations", but equally enjoyable 😳

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It can be done 😳 sometimes with "limitations", but equally enjoyable 😳

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I know exactly what you mean Elizabeth! And pleased, again, to know it was enjoyable.

I'm sure Forum readers (particularly your lady fellow members) would benefit from knowing how matters were handled - What were the original limits you set at the start? Were your feelings respected? How did you/the doctor handle what are reputedly the pain tension issues? Did your attitude to what was happening change during the consultation etc?

I will say that all my limits were respected by my Playdoc, who proved to be very responsive of my wishes for the exam, nothing was done without prior consultation first. I felt very safe and comfortable with him as I knew I was in control of the situation and that No meant No. Whilst the pain from the period was quite bad at times, with gentle massage that eased as the consultation progressed. Yes, as you may have been aware BigK, my attitude did change during the consultation .... for the better. Would I like to be examined again during my period - too true I would. 😳

On those couple of occasions when I was scheduled for an exam and just happened to get my period I called and rescheduled. I prefer not to even think about what one of those would be like should I happen to be on.

My girlfirend once has to go just when her period stopped...she was very nervous about it

her greatest fear was that it was not completely over as she was examend, so she put a tampon on ....the doctor was very nice and he removed the tampon himself at the moment my girlfriend was in the chair with her pussy exposed, I was standing next to him and had a good view

the tampon was clean

jo

I've had several 'on-period' exams and I now enjoy them. When my play doc first proposed this to me, I actually blushed and thought "NO FREAKING WAY!" Then, I thought about it... a lot... and decided to try it. The first time, it was the third day of my period, so my flow wasn't quite as heavy. I was somewhat nervous, full of anticipation, embarrassed and - yes - excited, too. We went through the basic physical and I could feel the tension building. As I got up on the table and put my feet in the stirrups, my heart started pounding and I could feel my skin heating. "Okay, Rennie," he said, "part your knees as wide as you comfortably can." OMG! The 'moment of truth'. My pulse raced and I actually felt light-headed. I hesitated... then, parted my knees wide open. "It's now or never," I thought. He lightly touched my pubic mound and I actually jumped a little. He smiled at this. "Relax," he said. "This won't hurt a bit." Relax? NOW?? What a joke!!!! I could feel tension on my tampon string and I gripped the sides of the table... HARD. He s-l-o-w-l-y began to remove it... and I held my breath. Finally, it was out. "There," he said. "That wasn't bad, was it?" I blew out an audible breath and he laughed! "Now, it's time for the speculum." "What kind?" I asked. "A medium Collins," he replied, as he held it up for me to see. (I prefer the feeling of a Collins over a Graves.) I could feel him inserting it and opening it... wide but not uncomfortably so. He adjusted the fiber optic light to shine on my vulva and handed a small mirror to me. "Take a look," he said. I did. For the first time, ever, I saw my menstruating cervix. It was amazing! I must have looked for a full minute - at my cervix, my meatus, my vulva, everything. "Any thoughts, Rennie?" "Amazing," I breathed. He smiled widely, as he gently closed the speculum and removed it. (No Pap smear during a period.) I felt a little self-conscious, as he slid two fingers in me for the bi-manual. As he palpated, I felt a bit of uterine cramping but it didn't last. He changed gloves. "Now, for your dessert," he teased, as he applied some lube to my anus. (I actually like the feeling of a rectal... IF it's done slowly and gently. I am anally erotic and my play doc knows this but I've NEVER mentioned it to my real GYN.) I exhaled and relaxed back there... and his finger went in deep and... well, it was a rectal. After a full minute of probing (to my secret delight), he removed his finger, peeled off the gloves, washed his hands and put on fresh gloves. The REAL surprise came when he held up a fresh tampon. I must have looked startled. "Don't look so surprised. I took the other one out and I'll put this one in." As I watched, he gently parted me with his left thumb and first two fingers. I could feel the tampon slowly going in deep and I tried to quiet my racing heart. NOBODY else, other than my bff, had ever put a tampon in me! "Removing the applicator." Then, he blew my mind when he gently pulled on the strings to properly 'seat' it! "All done," he announced, with a big smile. This man - my play doc (and a real-life nurse) - had just taught something totally new to me. Was I embarrassed at the time? What woman wouldn't be? Looking back, I'm glad that I did it. I've done it several times since then. I enjoy it and I'll do it again.

I went through menopause some time ago, and for the most part, I'm glad that part of my life is over with. However, this is an intimacy that I would love to share with my current partner. We've shared pretty much every other detail there is and this would be just one more of those "special moments".

I wouldn't be saying this if I didn't have the partner that I have now. He makes me feel so comfortable with my own body and treats all bodily functions as exactly what they are - natural, that this wouldn't bother me at all.

Play On!

LadyDoc

How many guys would like to be a "menstrual assistant". Many of us have been fascinated and turned on about feminine hygiene. As a teenager, reading about feminine hygiene ads was always top priority.

Being a "menstrual assistant" would involve pubic shaving, douching, changing tampons, applying pads, freshening up the nether area and washing soiled panties for the SO.

How many ladies would enjoy and be comfortable with such a relationship? Such an intimate activity would reinforce the love and trust between a couple.

Would like to hear comments from both sexes.

I like sex on my period usually. my boyfriend loves it and never gets grossed out by it. he actually gets turned on. hes given me pelvic exams at home to check my IUD(no we werent playing Doctor either) I love it when he arrives next to our bed in his light blue scrubs and white tshirt with a speculum in his hand and i know hes serious.Its not a game at the time, its later on that makes me crazy wet just thinking about the procedure.Dr. boy usually ends with a breast exam(for real) and since im well endowed he spends about 10 minutes on each breast...feels soooo amazing...He got an A+ in breast clinic as a resident and i can see why😃

It depends when you do the spec exam during period if its when bleeding a lot prepare for it and need a good cleaning. i heard most women wouldnt like it cuz they are already in pain during those days of the month

I have only seen one gyn play exam with patient on period. I maybe think this is a bit turn off for many people. What women say to that?