Menstrual Periods and Gyno Exams

Hello. I love to give exams to women on their periods. I first remove their tampon and then give them a speculum exam. Does any one else enjoy this? Do you have any pictures or movies of women with tampons, etc?

I have also done many gyno exams on various women during their periods. Menstruation is such an integral aspect of gynecology, and seems to add an extra nuance to the exam play. In my observation, I believe that it seems to highten my gyn patient's feelings of vulnerbility and being self conscious since menstraution is taboo in our culture. I like the extra psychological aspect that it adds for the patient during her exam, which is also uncommon for the patient to experience from a routine Pap Smear / annual exam.

I have seen some pictures of women with a speculum inserted when they were on their period. It was hot to see blood coming out of their cervix. My girl is just getting comfortable with me touching her down there during her period. However, I am working on more, including plenty of positive reinforcement.

L think it could more loving if u have the chance to insert tampon to u girlfriend or wife.

Sound very nice. I like to try!!!

That sounds quite nice to me, but unfortunately most women are pretty shy when its about their period (not surprising, i think it would be the same for me if I were a woman)

Ive never been examined during my period but it does sound interesting.I think maybe i will try that for my next play exam

erika

A girl friend and I took particular delight when she had her flow coming. She always had quite heavy periods, would wear the most-absorbant super tampons and panty liners because she always got bypass leakage. The first day was her heaviest. At night, after work, we'd get on her bed, her knees supported by a pair of sofa pillows standing on their edges, knees bent. I would start by pulling down her panties, exposing her flow-stained pad, and the site of that white string hanging from her vaginal slit was heaven. She always allowed me to extract the tampon, cradling it on a wad of tissue as it eased (or oozed) out through her labia. I would give her a manual examination, with a thick towel under her bottom to absorb the inevitable discharge down her ass crack. After about 10 minutes we were both too worked up and had to move on to the "internal examination", which I always administered to her on her tummy, hips in the air.

I can't really imagine having an exam during my period. I'm always so uncomfortable and bloated. Plus, I'm always really self consouis. I had a similar expierience to you supersally. I got my first period when I was extremely young (like 10 yrs old) and my mom didn't believe me when I told her, so she wanted to cheeck. My underpants were suffient proof, but it was still really embarassing.

How do female members feel about having sex or sex play during their periods? How about allowing a partner to see "everything" including the tampon string hanging from the labs, and even a stained pad or panty liner stuck to the panties?

Do any of the older members recall the thick belt-type sanitary pads> Were they as uncomfortable as they look, bunched up between the thighs and cheeks, and suspended only by that belt?

N 1969-70, when I was 17, I had a high school girl friend who sexually would go absolutely bananas during her menstrual cycle. She had a term for it "hornery", horny & ornery at the same time during her period, she made it explicitly clear when we first started having conventional and oral sex with each other,that during her period she would become intensely horny and climbed the walls because she had no sex due to guys staying away from her as a result of her "muskiness". I assured her that I could deal with it, the first time that she had her period after that, we had a very special early summer weekend night in the deep woods next to a campfire by ourselves.

On that particular night, after about an hour and a halfs worth of very tender and gentle foreplay(no boose..no dope,just each other with sodas and fruit), we started undressing each other and kissing each other all over our bodies ever so slowly approaching the 69 position. When I got down to her love petals with my tongue, and began to delicately dip the tip into her, she let out a deep moan and greedily sucked me as far as she could into her mouth and clamped her legs so tightly around my head that my ears bruised and felt like they were going to pop. I will never..ever forget the taste & narcotic aroma of her pheremone laden secretions, and the extremely intense spasmodic passion that she was expressing/sharing with me,it was no act. Happily she is the one that I earned my "red wings" with, I will never forget that experience.

Sadly, as with many high school romances, we went our seperate ways. We did cross paths twice since then. Once, in 1981 when I attended a party with a date, and again in 1994 at a restaurant that I was having breakfast in with a lady friend who I had been seeing for several years. In both cases, neither of us could talk with the other, yet across the room, we both had smirks on our faces that neither of our companions could understand. That was,and still remains to this very day a singular lifetime experience, she will always own a piece of my cardiac real estate. 😁

Sincerely,

GN 😃

I had my period young too (age 10 as well). I think most girls do now. It was at the Mall of America. If I ever go back I'm going to tell everyone I see there that's where I got my first period and spin around in circles shouting it to the roof tops....

Seriously though I've had sex with boyfriends on my period. I found it embarassing but they didn't seem to mind at all. It was very sweet actually.

I think allowing a partner to be part of a period is one of the most intimate things we could do. True, it can be messier than normal, but it's also allowing them to see our most intimate parts at a time when we're most vulnerable.

A lot of the woman's reaction will also depend on the man. If he's turned on, we will be too.

I am usually pretty horny during my period (right now, in fact) because of the extra lube there. Thankfully dh doesn't care and has even earned his "red wings"

Most professional gynecologists won't do an exam while you're on your period because it will interfere with the pap smear. As a play doc though, I love doing an exam while a woman is having her period. You have to be a little more careful to keep things from getting messy, but it's a lot of fun to see things happening from the inside.

PS - Try looking with a speculum while in the knee-chest position when you have your period...you'd be amazed what it looks like from the inside!

I remember when one of my past girlfriends went to the gyno, she was on her period. She felt really embarrassed because she still had her tampon in when she got on the table to be examined. Her male doctor made her pull out the tampon right there on the table so he could do the exam. She felt really humiliated, she said.

I love to examine my patients during their period. It adds heightened sensitivity in many cases. Also adds some sexual tension because of embarrassment about mess and smells.

We made it a point to schedule monthly examinations during my partners highest flow days. This, to add realism to faux procedures like d and c, labiaplasty, clitorectomy etc. Tender breasts also made breast procedures more painfull for the comsenting and willing patient.

She loved every minute of it, as did i.

Yes, if my period happens to fall at a time when I have a real-life exam scheduled, I reschedule the appointment. They cannot conduct the examination.

I'm not a big fan of intercourse during my period - oooowww - but would love to play with someone who was gentle and interested ... I think it's just a different intimacy, no more no less ...I'd be happy to share, talk about it - be very free and open to experience - but would want my partner to understand that everything is a bit tender for a few days during this time ...

I like the idea of examining my play patient during her period and it is something that we have discussed.

The whole idea of her having the "doctor" remove her tampon and then carry out a very invasive and detailed examination with fingers and a speculum is exciting. Of course the "favour" of putting a new tampon in afterwards is appealing as well.

We've also discussed briefly me carrying out a menstrual extraction procedure on her, during which a catheter is placed through the cervix into the uterus and the blood etc is drawn out using gentle suction. This process was common in the later part of the 1800's and early 20th century.

Receiving an enema during menstrual periods is helpful. it helps the cramps.

I've given an exam to a regular patient a couple times while on her period. In her case I was a lot more gentle than normal...breasts, uterus, ovaries are a lot more tender at this time...so if you are used to giving a very thorough exam make sure you are aware of her comfort level as it's probably not exactly the same

In real life I always cancel my doctor's appt. if I start my period and they always understand. Have never had a play exam.

I once had to have an exam during my period because I started bleeding quite heavily in the middle of my cycle so the doctor considered it an emergency and did the exam. It was pretty messy 😮 but the doc didn't seem grossed out. As someone pointed out it's probably nothing compared to the mess that comes out when delivering a baby...

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I'm not a big fan of intercourse during my period - oooowww - but would love to play with someone who was gentle and interested ... I think it's just a different intimacy, no more no less ...I'd be happy to share, talk about it - be very free and open to experience - but would want my partner to understand that everything is a bit tender for a few days during this time ...

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First,

Helena has a valid point, many women are more tender and highly sensitive during their period than other times due to the swelling of vaginal tissues during that time. Tender gentleness is paramount, no exception.

Secondly,

I should have clarified in my earlier post when I stated "That was,and still remains to this very day a singular lifetime experience, she will always own a piece of my cardiac real estate". That was not the only time that I have engaged in oral or conventional sex when a woman was experiencing her period. It was my very first and, the standard by which I have referenced over the ensuing years as to whether or not I will do so with a current partner.

GN 😃

The thought of being examined whilst on my period is quite arousing, although I've never experienced it before, it is a subject I have discussed with my playdoc, and as my periods are quite heavy and painful, it may be useful for his research 😉

I do find I'm more easily aroused in the few days before my period 😄

My gyno does them...but I don't. I called to reschedule because my period was late and ended up being when I had the exam scheduled and the receptionist said there wasn't a problem doing it anyway. I told her, "Well *I* have a problem with it! I have cramps from hell and if she thinks she's putting ANYTHING up there right now she has another think coming!" lol

If its for a annual pap smear then it would be a bad idea to take the smear during the patients menstrual period. If it is to diagnose menstrual problems then examining them during their period is normal in some cases.

Some of you might be amused at a little story about my late mother.

She was born in 1906 and throughout her life was a staunch Christian. She could not talk about anything that was intimate in nature, except possibly to another woman.

When she was frail she used to ask my wife to check her refuse bin which was kept in an enclosed but semi-public area, to see if anyone had put 'unmentionables' (pads or tampons) in it.

Of course my wife would not report back that she had found those 'unmentionables' whether she had or not.

On a previous occasion, when she was more mobile she came to my home after I had just finished painting the lounge. I said 'do you like it Mother?'. She said 'Its very nice. Did you use that Durex?' She dashed out in something of a state, having realised that she had used an 'unmentionable' word, and to her Son, as well!.

Of course, knowing that I worked for ICI who made Dulux paint, she had got confused.

A couple years ago I was at the doctor’s office for my gyno exam and when he was all finished, he always offered both his hands to me to help me sit up. After I was sitting, with the paper sheet still draped over my lap, he reached over to a cabinet, pulled open the drawer and handed me a kotex, saying, “Here ya go. You’ll need this or you will shortly.” I took it from him but I must have looked confused because he said, “You started your period.”, then he turned away and finished writing in my file so he may have been embarrassed too. I was embarrassed because I was completely unaware that I had just started my period and he had to tell me! And to this day I still wonder how he knew I didn’t know I started. I mean, why would he just assume I didn’t have a tampon or pad with me and offer me one? I suppose your cervix looks different or something when you just start than when you’ve been on it a few days. I have always tried to schedule my appointments during a time when I’m certain I’m not having my period.

I don’t mind having sex during my periods anymore. I didn’t always want to and I’d cringe at the thought, but my husband constantly assured me it was a natural part of a woman’s body and it didn’t bother him at all. Plus, I happen to feel more sexually aroused when I’m on my period than at any other time. We just put a towel under us to protect things and he always gets me a warm washcloth to clean up with afterwards.