Spanking prior or during or after an enema

I agree with all. Spankings play a huge role in submission which is the first step to a successful enema. It's been too long but I'm a fan of a prep spanking then a retention spanking. After each end a rectal exam with a flashlight if needed and a deeply inserted finger to check if I'm clean. If I'm not bottoms up for another harder spanking and a harsher enema. Squirming or complaining or not takings quarts is also a valid reason to keep the spankings coming.

And I have found that a good hard spanking after taking 2 quarts focuses my attention so much that I can take another 2 whereas otherwise I couldn't. Bottom line spankings are a part of even administration.

A series of good, soapy, embarrassing enemas accompanied by strict, bare-bottom spankings is, in my opinion, a truly unselfish act of love between the giver and receiver. It is an emotional and physical catharsis that sweeps away all of the day's cares and worries and, between consenting partners of all ages, I believe that it helps to open up a pathway to honest and sincere communication about private feelings, needs and desires in a way that nothing else can.

Deb, I've been on the giving end of many sessions very similar to what you describe. They've always left the recipient thoroughly satisfied. Kind of whole body satisfaction.

I always spank my wife first, the enema becomes further punishment.

When spanking and enema come as a punishment, you cannot imagine the better match. Humiliation and pain, helpless and uncertainty what can be better for a good session?

I find that even though a spanking enhances the humiliation and submission of being given a nice, hot soapy enema, being placed on my back and given a through rectal exam while the bag hangs nearby in full view is much more humiliating! As my "nurse" smiles and looks me in the eye as she slides one, then two well lubricated gloved finger deep into my rectum, my erection becomes most noticeable. The humiliation comes when she remarks that I must really really be enjoying being penetrated like a girl!

There have been about a dozen times in my life when I’ve wanted and/or needed to make a woman feel very, very submissive and have done “enemas until clear.”

Works like this. Big soapy enema to capacity. Respectably long retention time with a hard spanking during some of it. Expel. Repeat until returns are clear. Usually this has meant 5 to 7 enemas and 5 to 7 spankings. That’s a LOT of enemas and spankings, so it’s not something you can do over a lunch hour. Without exception, every woman I’ve done this to has described it as the most submissive she’s ever felt in her life. And, I’ve never known one not to orgasm very rapidly after the experience or not to drift off quickly into a deep, satisfied sleep.

I actually had this done to me once (while I am absolutely a top, I do dabble from time to time). I’d describe it as being totally out of control and totally at someone else’s mercy. The first enema is yummy. And, even though it hurts a lot, the first spanking is fun. By about the third, it’s not about you having fun anymore; it’s about your subjecting yourself to the will of someone else. A full strength hairbrush spanking 15 or 20 minutes after having gotten a full strength, long and hard hairbrush spanking is memorable. By the fourth or fifth, it’s all about the surrender. By the time you’re bending over for your fourth or fifth enema, it’s all about pleasing someone else with your submission. In a word, it’s pure.

It’s not a good routine for every day, But, sometimes, it’s about the surrender. And a string of enemas and spankings will definitely you there.

I love having a good hard bare hand ass spankimg as I'm receiving a 4 qt soapy enema I love being on all fours as

miss L gives me an enema with a large dildo nozzle

Being ass fucked and spank at the same time with a bare hand is very arousing she'll switch frombare hands to a leather the paddle

Deb is right on the mark, A spanking should always come before an enema. Not done with anything but with the hand. The spanking is just the warm up for what is about to happen, A gentle first enema is a nice start but a serious big one needs to be the finish. Makes the receiver realize who is in charge.

I was spanked by my mother when I refused an enema. She gave me the enema anyway so of course it is a turn on but any destructive pain is unacceptable.

By all means a spanking before an enema. I am a spanking fetishist loving the stimulation of the nerve endings down there, makes it easier to take the enema after ;-)

I agree with the idea of before during and after!

For consenting adults, it is strictly what each party is agreeable to. I always like to give my baby girls a few swats if they are naughty and fight their enema.

Kids should never get enemas as a punishment! This is a medical procedure and should only be used for medical need.

I am often spanked before my enema as a warning to be cooperative, then I get a good strapping while holding the enema because I leaked some. It is very intense trying to hold 3 quarts while being strapped.

Should be given before during and after. the longer the better.

It varies but anytime is good, one thing I'm wanting to try with me wife is being given an enema over her lap while being spanked.

I'm for before to get warmed up. Then during because im squirming to much and need a few swats to settle down. Then after because I like it! 😃

I am afraid of spanking, but in my fantasies imagine being punished corporaly for not holding enema well or for fighting with insertion. In general I think spanking is a great addition to enema.

A spanking before an enema is definitely the way to go for me.

A follow up spanking after an enema can work as well on occasion. The bottom line ( just a little pun intended) is that it is all good!

For me:

1. Enema

2. Spanking

3. Light caning

4. Anal dildo

5. Orgasm!

Spanking first, then the enema, tush cools on the toilet seat, then another spanking after the enema.

I agree with DST. A sound spanking prior to the enema. Then another sound spanking after the enemas are over!!

For me, as a child, a spanking always came before an enema, simply because I put up such a fight trying not to receive one. 😢

I think it would depend on the spanker or spankee's preference....I would prefer to give the spanking before the enema with maybe just a gentle "love tap" during the enema at most....I have always been afraid if one does a heavy spanking during the enema that something akin to a slight 'volcanic eruption" might occur and just ruin the whole beautiful scene .LOL

Spankings were quite common when I was a child. One certainly didn't resist mom or grandma at enema time. Consequently, the spanking always preceded the enema if we didn't submit as required.

As a willing participant, there wasn't a need for a spanking prior to an enema. Just say the word and I'll submit. On the other hand, maybe I need a spanking for enjoying an enema too much and too often.

Being hand spanked during an enema can be a big turn on for some. I think that it makes the expereince much more intense. A hand spanking will bring more blood to the buttocks and increase the pleasure that the receiver feels.

As a child I was spanked once before an enema, let me say it deffinetly adds a new aspect to the process.

For me, spanking during an enema diverts my attention, and makes the enema less enjoyable. Spanking before an enema was more enjoyable back when we did spankings a few times.

It a toss up before or after i can go either way,but a few licks during can remind you who is control

I can definitely say it adds a new aspect to enema,more erotic.There are many ways to combine enema and spanking and must be discussed in advance, because in this way experiment and good results go together.

If we just want a punishment enema,i think , believe,that punishment comes first.