Which is the most arousing experience, to be spanked just prior to an enema or to be spanked during an enema?
Trying to get comfortable on the toilet seat is quite challenging after receiving a good spanking followed by an immediate 3 or 4 enema. For some it's quite erotic, for others damn uncomfortable. But it is, what it is.
I really like to be spanked, but only by bare hand on the knees and never, ever during my enema. At that time, conversely, is greatly appreciated some gentle caress on the buttocks and, above all, lots of sweet words. It is one of the play that my partner and I do: he gives me an enema to relieve my stress due to the previous spanking.
I would have to say a bit during and a bit after. I enjoy the submissive side of things so i think alittle "tough love" before would get me more excited, and during for the humiliation of being completely exposed to someone in a very unique fashion.
I enjoy a light spanking, especially OTK, before an enema. I also, enjoy giving one in the same position to my partner.Stimulation not pain is important.
I want to try this, but I have no one to administer it to me. We have some very talented ladies on this board. Some, like MissStress, seem like they would be a very good teacher. I'm afraid if S. Susie got ahold of me, I'd wind up in an E.R.
I can enjoy an enema, and/or a spanking as much as the next person. However, I have never entertained the thought of a giving, or receiving a spanking during an enema. Seems counter-productive ~
I've never had it done, but I think a light spanking before would be stimulating. During, I'd want caressing of my back, butt, thighs, and the Valleys of Pleasure.
Spanking is the preliminaries. It focuses attention. It's a tough act to follow, but if anything can, an enema will.
Spanking and enemas go together like peaches and cream! I LOVE to be spanked prior to and during a nice, big,warm enema 😃
Ok..A brisk light spanking to warm up the butt cheeks before getting a warm soothing soapy enema is stimulating and arousing. I agree that enemas and spankings should be a definite duo.
I really enjoy a OTK spanking before and during the enema. A good spanking takes my mind off the enema just enough so I can take more and forget about the cramps.
One of my favorite videos on the internet is of a woman being given an erotic enema while being lightly spanked throughout the administration. He used a balloon nozzle and swats her bottom every so often, while also telling her to take her enema like a good girl. She is really into it, playing with herself and moaning at each swat. It is an amatuer film, very short but real. This couple seems to have found the right mix of the physical with the mental and verbal.
There's always the "both" option! Little is yummier than the hairbrush while holding a good, hot, soapy enema.
Years ago I had an enemate that loved a good spanking to "settle her down" before her enemas. It became part of our many different role play scenarios and enhanced the erotic aspect of the enema for both of us. They were always administered prior to the enema, never during. During the enema she enjoyed massage with oil or lotion, particularly on her rosy fanny.
The inevitability of both activities - the spanking and the enema - is a big turn-on for me. Being told they are going to be happening and there's not too much I can do about it is so final. She's assumed control and I have no choice but to focus on her and what she has planned for me.
Spanking shakes up things a little and I think it would be much more erotic.A vibrator works well also.I have a Whale vibrator for many years that plugs in to a wall outlet and it's very satisfying when placed in the right spot like right next to an inflatable nozzle. I can't take the warm water continuously because it's so intense.
As for me and my girlfriend an enema is primarily an erotic game (although sometimes you need it really) so the spanking can be an integral part of the game, often for who should receive the enema is opposed (to fake of course) and then the "doctor" must necessarily regulate the patient. Naturally in the case of a spanking before an enema is a very soft spanking
OHHH the silver hairbrush. A girl's best friend. I have red hair down to my ass and it is so nice to be spanked with a hairbrush and then later on have it used on your hair while the Doc/Dom patiently explains why you needed to be spanked and how sorry he was to have to do it along with a promise that you will be good in the future. Love how the brush starts out icy cold and warms up as it warms your backside. Is there ever NOT a time for a good OTK? I think not.
A spanking should not be a beating, even if it's done for discipline. If a spanking becomes severe enough, then it's a BEATING, not a spanking, and that's wrong in every case unless the spankee actually requested "BEAT me." (I still think that's not the best idea, though.) I get a weekly maintenance spanking after an enema series. There's been a few times I've had more strokes added for punishment, but it's what I've earned and is NEVER abusive. Then there are spankings that are quite erotic and those can be a wonderful part of an enema.
It's always nice to have warm cheeks to sit on while meditating and expelling the warm water. Always brings a smile to me face.