Solo enema play

Ok folks, here's my dilemma. I have been doing the solo enema scene for so many years, I am, I guess you could call it, "set in my ways". I have had enema partners in the past and they were always loads of fun but I always wanted to get back to my private bathroom and play by myself. I truely love being dominated by an enema top/master (whatever you want to call it) but more often than not I find myself reverting to being my own enema master? Is this some screwed up ego/control freak thing in my head?

I feel bad and I hope people don't think that I am a total flake, but I am sure they do. Always chatting, making vague plans and then never following through. Since moving to Central Florida, I ahve a really cool enema guy just a few miles away with a phenominal playroom yet I have only play three times in the past year and a half. Not his fault, completey mine. He can't understand it and I really don't know how to explain it to him either. I would love to have few hours in his playroom by myself but I think asking for that indulgence would be the ultimate slap in the face.

Its funny, I am a complete enema bottom but I like to be in control of me. Am I the ultimate control feak? I know what I like and I find it difficult to meld other folks "techniques" with my essential needs. I am I as screwed up as I think I am? I would love to hear other's thoughts. Thanks for listening.

I do not believe you are screwed up or a freak wanting to be your own solo enema master!

By choice I also enjoy being my own enema master and the feelings are so wonderfully erotic and being in full control of the enema scene created for myself are quite differant than giving or receiving an enema from my partner!

In the past I have experienced giving and receiving enemas but now much prefer being my own enema master and each to their own!

Control is such a broad subject. I want control in my life because I recgonize what I need and provide it when no one else is. I do not want to give up control because there is a loss of respect for my self. I will think about this and write more later.

Redbagman, control is your choice. What do you enjoy? That is the key. If you are truly able indulge in the session by yourself and truly enjoy it, more power to you. I do not think you are screwed; simply asking some fine questions.

It has nothing to do with control. You just know what you like.

What you are calling "control" is no more than selecting your own preferences on how the enema is given. Similar examples of what you call control, would be selecting what you want for dinner instead of someone ordering for you or selecting a piece of music to listen to instead of listening to the radio.

Redbagman-

Simply stated, no one knows what works best for you and gets you the most satisfaction better than you do! Nothing unusual about that!

I don't think this is screwed up at all. All of my enema sessions are solo. I've had a few partners and boyfriends over the years who would do it, but weren't really into it. Not as much as I am anyway. I would love nothing more than meeting a nice guy who enjoyed enemas as much as I do. But I want that partner to actually "get" the enema experience, no pun intended. I want someone who can just be themselves, not feel they have to fall into some character, and just intensely enjoy the whole enema/medical experience!

I think there are lots of variations in peoples enema interests. When working with another these interests should overlap. If not they're not the right partner.

I think i know exactly what your saying. i to have done most all my enema playing solo. im sure if i had a partner to share my enemas with that just like masterbating, id still want to enjoy some enema time alone. like its been said nobody knows you like you. and theres nothing weird or wrong with getting to know yourelf better. denis

Into adulthood I was very much "solo", butt occassionaly get someone to help. All of my wives (except the first one) would sometimes give me an enema...not always.

In 2005 I had the first of 6 gut surguries that then included visiting nurse services for 10 days to two weeks. It was the visiting nurses that established my routine; three 2 qt soap-suds followed by a clear with salt & soda.

Since that time I didn't do solo anymore (except for coffee enemas)even hiring a visiting nurse until I married this last time to our former Veterinary Nurse --and me being an "old dog" was a match made in heaven.

So, every other day I get "the routine". --life can be gud!

the boxcar

I too like it solo, because i think it is a private thing, and the pleasure is wonderful, and selfishly, all mine. so i'm just a little selfish.

Nothing wrong with knowing what you like. Be upfront with your friend, let him know you appreciate him but you are just a solo kind of guy.

I don't think you are screwed up. You seem to a person who very much knows what he/she likes. There is a very wide choice of preferences. For my self is almost always solo not because itis my preference but because of the difficulty of finding and enema mate.

Never had a partner, but imagine you are right. Time alone is good too, sometimes there is no replacement.

Nobody knows what you like better than you, redbagman. I'm a happy loner yoo. You are certainly not screwed up.

I found that I can share my alone time in the gallery.

I do my own enema time. I give myself enemas alone. I wish i had a enema doctor or naughty nurse to give me enemas.

It is nice to share and have help but then again sometimes you have to take matters in hand 😎

Cheers all,

Skybear

Something over 90% of my enemas are self-administered. Sometimes my husband will initiate a foreplay enema. Even onm most of those, I'm the instigator, even if he is the giver.

Enemas solo are wonderful... I do them every chance I get😃

I find solo enemas very satisfying. Finding an e-mate is difficult.

Would love to find a friend or 2 that I could share the joys of enemas with

I have always taken my enemas solo. Unill I found this site I didn't know there were so many others. would like to try a partner if I could find a female willing to play with me.

redbagman have you tried telling your partner what and how you like your enemas given? He can't know what you want unless you tell him/her.

Being the planner, writer, actor, producer and director works for me !

I know the feeling. I have involved a second person, only to find out, after they agreed to "help" they really were not in to doing enemas. As to playing alone in the guy's "white room", maybe a special offer, if you are up to it. Two ideas come to mind: 1 He stays in the room, but does not help, no talk, etc. 2 He uses a web cam to watch you from another room. Idea here is you are putting on a show for him, just how you would do it. I do not know how it will be received but it would be worth a shot if you really want to play in his "white room".

R

I have been solo for so long I am not sure if I would be comfortable letting someone help/administer. If the right person offered and we clicked I might give it a try.

I have always been solo except in the beginning when I was like 6-7 yrs old when someone decided that I needed them. and that was what got me started. I really enjoy my solo's but often wonder what it would be like to give control to someone and let them do what they wanted.

I've always fantasized about having an enema partner but have never had one. I have always had my enemas solo. In reality it is probably better this way because the fantasies are likely more fun than the actual.

My enema time is an exercise in self-indulgence and it really enhances my 'alone time'. Not sure how to develop a partner to share this so I just enjoy going with the flow at my own pace.

I will, soon be discovering the pleasures of solo enema!. Several months ago I bought a red rubber enema bag off an ebay site. After several weeks, of dithering I’ve finally plucked up enough courage to go ahead and insert the nozzle into my anus. I will be using it over the Christmas holiday