I discovered my significant other has been frequenting "medical" sights. I knew he surfed a little porn, but whatever... he's a guy.
What I found most interesting is that he seems to frequent these sights far more than others. And though I have some latent fetishes there, I haven't been able to bring this up in conversation.
My biggest concern is though I really have TRIED not to snoop, I can't help it. He's not very technologically literate, and when I have been working on fixing his computer, I have inadvertently found it. He's TERRIBLE at covering his tracks.
Any suggestions as to how I can bring this to his attention, without making him defensive? For those guys out there, how would you feel if your girl came to you and asked you for a gyno exam.... or wanted to give you an enema?