Mom and first exam

My mom took me to the doctor the first time and was in the exam room at first...........but she excused herself when the Dr asked me to get on the exam table. I was glad she was with me but also glad she stepped out of the room.

I took my daughter to my gyno so she could she what happened and dispel the horror stories going aound the school.

At her request I went with her when she had her first.

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I took my daughter to my gyno so she could she what happened and dispel the horror stories going aound the school. At her request I went with her when she had her first.

[/quote]I think you must the only UK woman I know who does this:

Being nudist we have a different slant on life I guess.

I went into see the doctor on my own but mom went with me to the clinic and i think I would prob been ok with her coming in whilst we chatted but for the exam itself not something i really wanted my mom to see. Although embarassed when me and mom taked about it and made appointment i was grateful she did.

I think i have great relationship with my mom but there are limits to what she needs to see and know

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Being nudist we have a different slant on life I guess.

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i think he means seeing a gynaecologist. As in the UK no one sees a gynaecologist unless they have been referred for a problem. Unless, of course, you pay for a private "well woman check"

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I went into see the doctor on my own but mom went with me to the clinic and i think I would prob been ok with her coming in whilst we chatted but for the exam itself not something i really wanted my mom to see. Although embarassed when me and mom taked about it and made appointment i was grateful she did. I think i have great relationship with my mom but there are limits to what she needs to see and know

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im the same me and my mum have a great relationship however medical matters and all things vagina related are private, but if she asks about it, i will tell her, but i wont volunteer the information

Exactly miss 3003. Not embarassed to openly talk about it but at same time not a topic of conversation i would have choosen

I would have been mortified if my mother went with me. She never even gave me the talk, lol. I went on my own and she didn't know about it.

Usually age 13 or later, girls prefer their moms to wait outside. Then the physician may discuss any additional testing or results later

Results etc aren't discussed with the parent unless the child has given consent for that information to be passed on to her parent here.

No ... my mom was NOT there. She would never talk about anything "birds and bees," and when I needed my first exam because of a yeast infection, it was the school nurse who gave me information about what to expect, why I needed to make an appointment, etc.

My treatment (pre-Monistat days!) was a twice daily douche, and my mother made me take the syringe to the basement to hang and dry instead of in the bathroom because "my dad might see it."

I suppose that's a bit of a statement about my mom's entire mindset about things sexual, eh?

OMG Jinny, dad might discover that you have a vagina!

Our family was totally different. All 3 kids are girls, and they thought nothing of sending dad off on an emergency run to the store for tampons. Kind of pissed me off, not that I had to get them, but by telling me after the need had become a crisis, I had to dash out to whatever market or pharmacy was still open, where with a little advance warning I would have picked up a case of them on my next trip to the local big box store. Dad did not embarrass easily, but he IS cheap!

My wife's mother did not accompany her for her first exam.

Nope. That would have been too weird to have my Mom with me. I went alone.

My mom drove me to my appointment but she stayed in the exam room. I went in alone.

She ask the doctor if im still virgin and stay at the exam room while my legs are opened, she saw every details of my first gyno exam. sometimes she examined my vagina at home to check if I was still a virgin too.

I didnt have my mom come to the exam with me but i did bring a close friend with me

I am a boy. I answer because I brought for the first time my girlfriend at the gynecologist. unforgettable experience.

No. Im 37 and she still has never even talked about it.

I honestly can't remember if she drove me or not but she definitely was not in the room

My mom made my appointment and took me to my first exam, but she stayed in the waiting room and was not there during the talk with the doctor or my examination.

My mom has never gone with me.

My mom went with me for my first exam right after my first period. She also came with me to get a BC pill prescription and be fitted with a diaphragm when I was about 16 She had caught me masturbating my boyfriend at the time. We never did go all the way. Later in college when I did start having intercourse with my future husband, we used triple protection: condom, diaphragm and the pill

I received an invitation to go for my first smear test when I was 19 (I'm a trans guy and still have that stuff). It was the first time any doctor had looked between my legs since puberty. I'd left home by then and went alone.

I've never taken anyone to a full exam. It's just something I think I'd rather do alone.

I have had only two gyn exams till date, first one was a part of my university physical so, obviously mom could not be with me that time but she was there with me for the second one which I had few months ago when I was diagnosed with ovarian cyst.

Her presence really comforted me.

How much ever I be open regarding my fantasies here but when I have to undergo a real exam, I need my mom around.

I did and as I discussed in another post as weird as it was I kind of needed the moral support at the time.

My step mom did when I was 15, she got to see all of the exam. It was a bit unsettling at first, but I got used to it after a while.

When I was 15 my mom scheduled me an appointment with her gynecologist. She did go back with me to make me feel more comfortable during the exam.

Yes for the very first one