Older Women for Play

I like older women. Always have wanted to be with one long before the American Pie movies coined the term MILF.

Yes it would be nice to meet an older and mature nurse for en examin and a serie of enemas

When I was in 7th grade during spring break I traveled to visit my best friend who had moved the year before. While I was in their bathroom I saw an enema bag with a very large nozzle and immediately got hard as a rock thinking about Mrs. J sliding it up my tight ass. Later that week the whole family and myself was to do a day trip into NYC and that morning I woke up not feeling well. Not to ruin the day for the others, I said that I was ok to stay behind and take care of myself. Mrs. J wouldn't hear it so the others went and Mrs J stayed to take care of me. I was 13 and she was probably 40. I napped for about an hour when I heard water running in the bathroom. Shortly, Mrs J came into my bedroom to check my temperature and said it was 100.2 and she thought it best if I had an enema to clean me out. She told me to strip down to my underpants and she would be back. I stripped to my shots and immediately got another boner .I laid down on the bed face down so she wouldn't see it. She came back into the room and started to my massage my backand legs with a warm oil, As she massaged it in she slipped her fingers into my shorts and gently pushed them down and immediately saw my erection and said what a big boy was I. She took a tube of Vaseline and put a big glop on her middle finger and started working it in my tight ass, I felt like I was going to explode so I asked her to stop which she did.

Then she started massaging my buttocks and smacking them ever so lightly and again the feeling of immediate explosion came over me and I shot a huge load of cum all over the bed. She said it was natural for a young man to cum when stimulated. She left and came back with a basin of warm water, wash cloth and towels. She cleaned me up and as she left she told me to nap and she would be back shortly to give me a "big boy" enema. Some time later she came back into holding the enemathat I had seen in the bathroom and the black nozzle looked more like a black penis with purplish thick veins. It was scary looking and I told her that I didn't want an enema. She became very angry yelling at me, smacking my ass and pushed me face down on the bed holding me down a tight grip. I felt her lubricated finger slide into my ass. After a long time of lubing my rosebud she gave a couple more hard smacks and then I felt the mushroom shapped head of the nozzle probing my unyielding hole. She started dripping very warm oil down my crack onto my hole and then with an unexpected forceful push the blackhead of the nozzle forced itself inside me. The feeling of fear, anger and hot pleasure swept over me.........more later

Unfortunately older women are now my age!

Im now 8 years older than the "older" woman who gave me my first enema.....still remember her.......

Ever so often, I will either go out with, or meet, some of the women I work with for a drink as it's just fun to get together from the rigors of work. And as always happens, men will come by to talk hoping they can get just a bit more than friendly. As I have gotten older, I am 44, I have noticed the men in my age group no longer approach us as it seems the men 40 and older now go after the big breasted blondes, or whatever, under the ages of 30. Have to guess they have their Viagra and want to put it to use.

At the same time, the men who now approach me are likely to be mid 20's to mid 30's and are looking for the Mrs Robinson to enter their lives. Told my husband if he ever leaves me, I'm going to find a 25 year old stud and break him in the way I want him to be.

Tillie

Tillie--You should see the exclusive steak houses and sushi restaurants near me that my husband and I dine at fairly regularly. On Thursday nights traffic slows to a crawl in front of them as cars try to enter their parking lots that have valet only parking. The very large bars in those places are frequented mostly by well to do, impeccably dressed 40-60 year old businessmen, doctors and lawyers buying food and drinks for the admittedly gorgeous (but lack-luster) 21-35 year old women they are hoping to bring home for the night. I have heard the conversations and demeanor of these people because we sometimes sit at the bar waiting for our table.

My husband knows a few of those men and they have told him they cannot believe they (55+year old men) are getting the thirty year old women into bed.

Some women are getting a lot of sex for for food and drink.

Just curious, when is a woman "older" exactly? And does it correlate to menopause?

Also, is a man "older" at that same age or is there a separate standard?

There is a special sex-appeal from women 50+, very much in my taste

Cool. Then I'll enjoy my homestretch into older... Somehow it's relative to the people you're around. I work with 20 and 30 somethings for the most part and constantly feel older!

I can understand how having an "older" woman give you an enema would feel like your mother giving you one. Or even that an older woman will be more confident and tell you what to do with more assertiveness.

It seems to me that the majority of us, with actual enema experiences, fit into the category of being "older". That's not a knock on those youngsters who may have had a few. As I attended a few of the Vegas EFEST events, it was apparent that most of the enema lovers were around prior to the 70's. A few of the MEDFET, BDSM, or D&S crowd were a tad younger, but they were not into the enema scene as a 1st choice.

"Older" women may have a better understanding of the history and the practical application of the enema procedure. I find this advantageous in that 1st hand experience with an enema/douche bag allows them to get down to business without lots of explaining or coaching to do.

The chances of a "younger" woman, with actual enema experience, is likely a pipe dream for many. Besides, I am not necessarily trying to replace my mom, I just appreciate someone who is adept with those wonderful rubber implements of old.

Susie--- The very same happens at one of the steakhouse-sushi-sports bar (all owned by the same person in the same location). It is located about 2 miles from where I live, a great gathering place with a fantastic outdoor bar, but also what I call "The Meatmarket" It does not take long to spot the players as they pull up in their BMW's, Porsches or a car as such, dressed in either a suit and tie, or the well dressed casual look, and always coming in looking for the much younger woman at the bar. And yes as you have said, some of the opening lines are either stuff dreams are made of or nothing but pure bullshit.

Earlier this summer, my husband were in there rather late one weekend night having a small plate and drink, As we were leaving, we walked by our 50 something neighbor who lives across the street, while he was coming down rather hard on his conquest for the evening. I started to ask him how his wife was doing, but didn't. The games people play.

Tillie

50 is not a problem. I am 65 and they're ALL "younger women."

One of my all time best relationships: We were in our mid-40s. She was 5' 2" and 232 lbs most of the time I knew her. She also had significant personality disorders. We WORKED and having a relationship.

I got ,maybe 70% of everything I wanted and she got maybe 70% of everything she wanted and it was very nice for both of us.

The point is: We negotiated a relationship that worked for both of us.

She died of breast cancer in 1999. Sometimes I really miss her.

I am a little odd. I had two much older sisters (8 and 10 years older than me) and I am still, often attracted to women who a slightly my senior. My ex-wife was 11 years older than me! My Fathers second wife was younger than mine!

My last GF was 4 years older than me. We had some REALLY nice times.

Why not! This would be a fantasy come true, to have a 50+ lady give me my treatment is something I'd like very much. She would know exactly what to do as she has the experience to do it. Happy to submit to an older lady.

Older women are my preference. Having grown up before the internet and instant access to porn, older people had to work much harder to access porn (and toys) and subsequently, it took more viewing and effort to access kinky images and stories. I appreciate women who grew up finding their "Zity" side earlier and even enjoy those who only found their "Zity" side later in life. Bring on the plus 50s. We can have fun too.

I'm in my mid sixties and now I find that I associate with women in their mid-50s and up.

There was a time when I was younger that mothers introduced me to their daughters and vice versa. A very satisfying arrangement for me.

Intimate discussions and enema exchanges as much easier now and more likey to occur.

I still enjoy intimacy with older women and find myself seeking them out when I have plenty of opportunities to interact with naked younger women.

I gave a three enema series to a mid-50s woman last week and find myself fantasizing about her and not the younger ones!!!!

I'm in my late 50s. I find that women (or men) in my general age range are far more attractive for real life play and relationships.

Don't get me wrong, I like looking at pretty young bodies, but there's more to it than appearance. If the answer to the question "Where were you when Kennedy died?" involves a small plane crash, thank you anyway.

My FWB is 71 and I am 62. We have had a sexual fun relationship for 32 years. She is the most fun partner I have ever had and she gets better each time we get together, usually twice a month. We have been fuck buddies through the years spanning husbands, wives, children born and sadly dying, and other lovers, both straight and bi. We enjoy everything two people can think of doing. We have done and still do, every single kink topic here on Zity. I wouldn't trade her for any age lover as no one will ever be half as good and enthusiastic about sex and the exploration of all things sexual. She is as pretty and fun to be with as the day we met. She is the most orgasmic woman I ever heard of and easily has 20 or more orgasms during each session, whether it's regular or anal sex, enema play, fisting, e-stim or toy play, it is truly remarkable to see and feel.

Yea for the older woman!!!

When I was in college as a pre-med student, I worked in hospitals both during the school year and on vacation. I also spent some time with my uncle who was an urologist and the majority of his female patients were "older" in the sense that they were in their 40s and 50s. As I became more involved in the fetish aspect later in life, I realized that women of that age group and older for the most part have had more procedures and experiences than their younger counterparts and so there was a wider variety of play opportunities. It had even given me the opportunity on at least two occasions to play with a 20-something and her mother.

It's all in the attitude. There are women in their fifties, sixties and more who have keen senses of adventure and exploration, and 23-year olds who do not. I live in a college town that is full of young women 18 to 25, whose bodies make one faint with desire, but when they open their mouths and talk, it is like fingernails on the blackboard.

Among all ages the biggest factor for me is cheerfulness and a sense of humor. Resilience and flexibility seem to follow automatically if these two traits are present.

When I was divorced at 60, I tried dating women in their forties, based on the common assumption that from fifty on women's bodies changed in ways that made sex unpleasant for them. I discovered that among my modest sample, there were three classes of women in their forties.

The first class included attractive and sane and very desirable ladies who were in a good relationship and were going to stay in it.

The second class was ladies, again attractive and sane and very desirable, who were at the height of their profession or career, and while wonderful company, were committed to seventy and eighty hour weeks, and not susceptible to suggestions that we take off and go to Paris for a nine-day week. Alas, these were ladies that were a joy to be with, but usually not available very often.

The third class included ladies who were stark, staring bonkers, including some who swore, or at least suspected, that they had been abducted by aliens, and one who said that her husband had died and left her some money, so she was going to live on that money until it ran out and then drown herself in the Pacific. Er, instead of getting a job maybe? Too gloomy for me. Ladies in this third class seem NOT to be cheerful, and tend to have no sense of humor at all.

I like older women a LOT. I wouldn't even consider going out with a woman younger than 35, let alone playing with one. Sure, there is the exception, but women under 35 lack the experience, wisdom, vibe, self-possession and knowledge base of older women. I saw Isabella Rossellini recently and man, she looks awesome to me, including the lines near her eyes and spread in her body. I realize guys seem to be more visually/physically driven, but when I think about a woman like Isabella Rossellini, coupled with her brain, I can't imagine why anyone, man or woman would prefer some fly-weight 20something kid. Gimme a woman of substance, like Isabella or Mariska Hargitay any time over a Jennifer Lawrence type. Like comparing freshly whipped cream to cool-whip.

^^^^ I have always been attracted to lesbian women with brains and looks like Suze Orman, Madonna, Tammy Lynn Michaels, Eleanor Roosevelt (I know, she's dead) Jane Lynch, Rachel Maddow, Sally Ride (the astronaut) and a few others.

There are also a number of straight women that turn me on, but you can't make them change teams. I tried to change one gay male friend by sleeping together one night and it ruined our relationship. I also tried to bed one straight woman and that didn't work out so well either.

I actually prefer older Women, They appreciate the attention and seem to be of the old school with the kind sincere loving touch.

I have found older women are better as they treat an exam more in the spirit that it is given, and not an exercise in sex

Older women as well as men, have two choices dwell on age and rot or live life to its fullest

don't let the young kid in you die, for you will too

i'm 62 and haven't grown up yet and don't intend on doing so til i die

live today like there is no tomorrow, because someday that will happen!

^^^^ I have always been attracted to lesbian women with brains and looks like Suze Orman, Madonna, Tammy Lynn Michaels, Eleanor Roosevelt (I know, she's dead) Jane Lynch, Rachel Maddow, Sally Ride (the astronaut) and a few others.

There are also a number of straight women that turn me on, but you can't make them change teams. I tried to change one gay male friend by sleeping together one night and it ruined our relationship. I also tried to bed one straight woman and that didn't work out so well either.

@Susie What sucks is when you are with a woman for a while who says she's on your team, who you met at a team event, who seems like she has always been on your team, hell, is way more knowledgeable and politically vocal on all the legal stuff for your team and then she texts you one day after 3 years and says she was only doing rehab on your AA league team and is going back to AAA to play shortstop in NY. (no offense meant to any teams or leagues) #So2009

Bedding a straight woman is fine with me as long as we all know who is straight and who isn't.

I totally dig Maddow, Suze, Sally and Jane also. Esp Maddow. Rhodes Scholar and she's had the same gf for years and the gf is like 2 years older than she and you can really tell Maddow is shackled by love (which I find really hot).

Older women + 50 years are very sexy and most knowledgeable about life and what they want. Make great friends and even greater lovers.

I cast my vote for older AND plus-sized. Since my younger years, I've always bonded well; on all levels; with older women. The fact that many were plus-sized was an added bonus. Now that I'm 50, my preferences haven't changed, but older now means 60+ for me.

" I also tried to bed one straight woman and that didn't work out so well either."

Susie - although it didn't work out, I would love to hear details... How did you approach her? How did she react? Was she tempted?