Older Women for Play

What do you think about older women (50 and up) for play? Guys (and gals), how do you feel about this?

It seems like so many guys want someone younger in general, and younger than they are. We are such a youth-driven society. I recently turned 50 and this has been on my mind.

Even though I'm much older than my girlfriend, i have a thing for older women. when me and my other met we just clicked, i wasn't really looking for a certain type, but older women, i like their maturity and cynicism

An interesting perspective because one assumes it's all about physical appearance and you're talking about something else. For you, and in your personal findings, at about what age does a woman still remain fresh -- without cynicism or bitterness? I don't necessarily agree that older women are cynical and bitter - I personally haven't run in to them (well, except my mother-in-law!!!), but that's not to say that you haven't or to invalidate your experiences/beliefs.

This is indeed fascinating to me. I look young for my age (late 30s/early 40s) and stay in shape by hitting the gym, so I have not yet experienced what some of my 50-something friends have experienced- they call it the transparent woman effect. But, from what you are saying, it's their outlook on life and how they handle themselves more than anything. Hmmm.

Older women have always mesmerized me. It started when I was 12 years old with crushes on my teachers and falling in love with older celebrities like Janet Leigh, Capucine, Lola Albright, Martha Hyer and the list goes on. They exuded so much class and charm...their hair always in place, their clothing smart and taylored and their manners impeccably polished. It was never a sexual yearning, but only to be near them and among their company. I fantasized being dominated by them...not with steel chains and leather paraphernalia, but with velvet ropes, invisible magnetism and words that knew no refusal. The phrase "she, who must be obeyed" from the film 'She' adequately describes how I felt about such older women. I carried these thoughts and longings into my adult life and have ever since sought out the company of older women. My companion is an older lady...loving, nurturing and firm when she needs to be. I would have it no other way.

Stephen Vizinczey wrote the book, 'In Praise Of Older Women' and like him, I too praise older women. They taught me so much about the good side of life.

Older women are wonderful they know what they want, and to find one that enjoys a good enema is perfect. Mature ladies any time you need filling just let me know of course turn about is fair play 😉

Arianna:

If you hunger for younger

Remember this rhyme:

The young girls are frisky

But old is sublime.

Mature is so sweet,

Like an aged cabernet;

Just handle with care

When it comes time to play.

The fruit is so luscious

When left on the vine;

The taste is much sweeter,

So--that ripe peach is mine!

😉

Although Arianna was referring to ladies older than 50, to me it just meant older than the male by about 10 to 15 years. So at age twenty, I would have an interest for an older woman that was 30 to 35 years old. It's all relative though. When I'm 115 and should meet someone that is 100, it wouldn't matter anymore. We'd both be ancient.

Yes, I mentioned 50+ because for me, since I hit the 50 mark recently, I'm thinking 50! To Einlauf's point the term older woman is indeed relative and subjective. This is why I tried to delineate it at 50+. Anyway, some guys who are 50 consider a woman the same age as they are an "older woman" because they are seeking women 35- 40 (just an illustrative example).

It looks like there are quite a few definitions of "older women" here. Since I'm 65, anything under about 55 is "young stuff".

I am most interested in the medical side of enemas as opposed to the erotic side, so would prefer an enema in a medical setting or from a visiting nurse in a home setting.

While I certainly wouldn't kick a good looking "20 something" nurse out, a middle aged Nurse or Aunt type would be ideal. She would be capable and no nonsense as she went about her duties. She wouldn't deliberately cause pain, but wouldn't take any nonsense from the patient either.

Hager;good point,I'm in my seventies so a female in her sixties is young to me.I guess it all comes down the attitude and interest of the opposite sex.If the female and I share the same interest,she can hold an intelligent conversation and has a positive attitude about life,I'm sure enemas can be worked in somewhere.Let the good times flow.w/m72yrs/Western Ma

I would certainly welcome the occasion to share enemas with a 50s plus woman. I'm nearly 60. There are lots of pluses with someone about your own age. We share life's experiences, music, knowledge about politics, sports, fashion, etc. So I have wrinkles. I have been searching for an e mate in the Pacific NW. Looking at the ads directory here shows there are no women from this area. Hope that changes. Age doesn't matter.

Ron

When I started dating a man fifteen years my senior, he joked that he was robbing the cradle. When I told my friend about that she, she said that I was robbing the grave. Oooooh, it was a terrible joke, but still kind of funny. He and I would overplay our age differences and make plenty of jokes, but his age wasn't an issue with me. I find "older" men sexy as hell, even if they themselves think they're gray, bald, saggy and carrying around a little too much in the middle, they're absolutely perfect for me.

As far as the largest age difference between me and an older gentleman was somewhere between fifty and sixty years. I don't remember his exact age. He was too old for conventional sex, but we still had fun. I even taught the "old dog" a new trick. In all his life he never went down on a woman until me. He took to it like a duck to water and said it was the sweetest thing he ever tasted. And he made killer homemade cinnamon rolls, so the man knew sweet when he tasted it. 😃

Absolutely- in many caes the older woman is more likely to be realistic about what she's feeling and not pretend like some younger ones

Thanks to everyone who has replied so far. It is interesting to get different perspectives.

H20dom - you crack me up - whipper snapper indeed!

I am fortunate to look much younger than I am, although someday it will catch up with me unless I become friends with a cosmetic surgeon. The other week I was renting a car and whipped out my brand new AARP card to get a discount, and the 30-something guy behind the desk couldn't believe it. But the fact remains that I am 50 on paper, regardless of appearance. I hear many of my friends talk about becoming "invisible" as they age - meaning the don't get the attention they used to get. That's what got me to thinking about this age question, to be honest. Maybe these women need to think about hooking up with an enema-enlightened male!

A.

Arianna,

Thanks for your question. For me probably the last thing I think about is chronological age when I'm getting to know a lady. I think the most important part of a woman is between her ears.

I admit that when I see a young woman with a nice shape and wearing a tight pair of pants I get these incredible "warm fuzzies" but being older I don't get a raging hard-alas.

That said---its about living-sharing--understanding pleasure-having fun--not creating dependencies------

My current gal pal and I don't have sex but we share most of lifes intimicies--most importantly we have a hell of a lot of fun

I gave up years ago trying to explain all this stuff--I just learned to know when life was ok--and right now its really good--I feel content

So I guess--you need to feel good about you--if some guy doesn't get it--it's his loss--

LOL--I could share lots of crazy stuff that my women friends have told me they worry about--and crazy stuff guy's worry about----but you know guy's don't share as much ---I've always found that intriguing---

sorry if I blabbered on too much---

Badger

Arriana, I much prefer getting enemas from an older, experienced woman. Although 60 years old myself, It makes me feel like a Little boy again being cared for by a loving mother or aunt.

My current enema giver is a 70 year old lady colon therapist whose treatments I consider Divine.

Electra

Like I said in the other thread: couldn't care less about age or size.

From the male perspective I believe "age is just a state of mind"..............no real relevance!

I would have no trouble accepting treatment from an older woman. In fact, I once had a colon hydrotherapist past 80. She was of course knowledgable about enemas too, though she generally didn't give them to adult patients.

Arianna.

Actually, your right in saying men prefer younger women? I can tell you from my experiences that older, BBW women are the "BEST", they know what you want and believe me they will tell you what they want. Younger women are great. But, women near 50 are more eager to accept enemas than younger women. Or should I say its harder to convince or recruit a younger woman, unless she is really into it. Older women seem to relax more and enjoy a good enema and frankly more fun to be with.

Hey, guys--

Just remember "a fiddle that's old is more in tune" and "just because there's snow on the roof doesn't mean there isn't fire in the furnace"

At 77, I'd be happy as a clam to accept or reciprocate with enemas with/from any female from 50 to 80+.

I have a hard time imagining being with a younger woman. My sweetie is 12 years older than me---she hasn't tired of me yet.

Okay, I have this too say. First I'm 45 and I'm married to an older woman. She will be 65 soon. The only problem is does not like enemas like I do. I have been into them for 30 years now. It started at 15 when I asked my female next door neighbor to give me one. At the time I would guess she was around 50. I enjoyed it very much and wanted more from her was too scared to push my luck. I will say with all my dealings with enemas over the past 30 years the older women know the way when comes to enemas.

Great comments about "older women". In general, the older a women becomes the more likely she is is to have a realistic expectation regarding a relationship. Therefore she is far more likely to enjoy all manner of sexual activity that she might not have been willing to consider in her youth. In short like many of the prior male respondents, I find older women very sexually attractive indeed!!!!!!!!!!!

You forgot: The older the berry, the sweeter the wine.

And: When you can't cut the mustard, you can still lick the jar. 😃

Thanks, Honey. I agree with you about the realistic expectations. You don't often get that with younger men or women. Younger people are more likely to want to please and say all the right things to make the other person happy and less likely to share their opinions. So instead of having a fully satisfying experience, it tends to be lukewarm. Not necessarily a bad experience, but not having all the elements you desire. Some younger women are not as vocal as older women about what feels good to them and don't often tell their partner how to please them.

When I was younger, although not shy in bed, there were times that I would let a lover fumble around and try his personal technique rather than tell him what works best for me and how to make me cum. I kept quiet sometimes because I thought my lover would share something new with me and sometimes because I thought he would feel insulted or embarrassed if I told him he wasn't doing it right (not in those words.) I'm not like that now. If I'm in bed with someone who needs a little direction, I'll tell him what I need and the best way to do it. I've found that men are more receptive than I thought they would be and that their desire to please trumps their egos. Men would much rather do what a woman wants and watch her lose her mind in bed than to see them lying there quietly waiting for it to be over.

Older ladies ......... not a problem ...... i am an ' older ' but very physically fit ' baby boomer generation ' gentleman who enjoys give / receive .... thanks mom !!!! ......... and i find experienced older ladies a real ' plus ' in website correspondence or in a ' one - 0n - one ' give / receive or any combination thereof !!! i encourage our ' older lady ' ' e . ' friends to stay active on the site !!!!! we love you !!!!

I am also older, and fit, and enjoy plus size mature women, I would guess that would be older ladys. I am guess I would not turn down an enema from a younger lady, but my choice would be older. I find mature plus size nurses to be quite sexy.

larry

I'm with Larry. I'm 33 s/w/m in NYC and plus size older women into nurse kinks are a serious turn on for me. Not the sort of people you can just find at a bar though.

I just want to clarify that I am older (50) but I'm not plus size. I'm not a size 2 like I used to be when I was in my 30s, I'm average. It takes a lot of work to stay in shape as you age! I go to the gym 3-4 times a week - one hour on the elliptical for cardio followed by an hour of strength training on the circuit.

Arianna

I'll take skill over energy any day. Younger men are full of bravado and bullshit. I'd much rather be with a man who has lived a little, is more interesting to talk to and has more than his words to back up his promises and dreams of giving me a good time.

I prefer being older and knowing what I know now and doing what I do now to being younger and less knowledgeable and skilled. My body was adorable back in the day, but I'm a far more interesting person, especially in bed. And I like men who are the same.