I think that we older members have a greater appreciation of enemas than the younger members. Most of us were brought up when enemas were given in every household. We do not have the feeling that we are risk takers when we either give or receive an enema. We are more comfortable discussing enemas with persons of the opposite sex. Once the topic comes up; we are more likely to explore the idea of sharing our enema experiences. If we agree that enemas are enjoyable; we are able to move on to the possibility of giving one another enemas. With the coming of age, the libido is still strong; but the body is weak. So, an enema can be a way of having sex without having intercourse. Of course, many of us use an enema as a means of autoeroticism.