Age - Enemas - Libido

Many things improve over time. A good wine, lovemaking, and enemas are a few that come to mind.

I'm new to this site and group and find it informative and interesting. It is nice to hear others have the same predeliction as I have. I shall continue to listen and learn.

Wow, im certainly surprised to see that people here are so much older than me, maybe people my age (20) are not very into enema stuff? I started couple of years ago and they do seem to get better with experience.

For me I started at the age of 7 & given a enema by a nurse at the hospital & then started taking enemas by myself at 22 years old & now am 47 years & still love every moment

of taking a enema & releasing it - I also love to help friends if they need to fix a health issue e.g. constipation

Shane

I would agree that probably more older people understand enemas and experienced them growing up, although I am 57 and did not get them as a kid growing up. I do find now that I enjoy them and wish that I had gotten them growing up.

67 now, and received enemas as a young child (3 to 6, thereabouts), and started going solo at around 14. Been enjoying them ever since.

My experience similar to healthy male

Having received enemas from age 4 and given them (to my sister) since age 14, I cannot imagine life without them. I find as I get older enjoying receiving laddered series starting with 2 qts of Ivory suds, continuing for sometimes 6-8 hours, as I receive, hold, and release increasingly larger volumes. Normally my E-mate (a retired nurse) stops at 5 qts, but sometimes gives me one more of 6 qts. A few times, when I took 6 with ease, she would give me a 7, and once, 8 qts. That one really hurt, and we both agreed it was too much. She normally starts my series the night before with a large dose of castor oil. This is administered about an hour after dinner Friday night, after which we watch TV until bedtime. For these lomg series, I sleep over, and we usually enjoy each other's bodies before going to sleep. Once we finish, she puts me in an adult diaper, just in case the castor oil causes an accident. I wake up in the morning feeling the urge to purge. If the urge is not strong, she eases 4 Dulcolax suppositories into me, and soon, I am shitting my brains out. Once the laxatives have me pretty cleaned out, she starts the enemas with 2 qts of Ivory soapsuds. She uses a double balloon nozzle, and makes me hold it 30 minutes. After I release, she continues with the series, adding one more qt each time she fills me. When she is satisfied that I am completely clean, she gives me a 6 qt rinse. I releaser that, an she gives me a 2 qt implant, and plugs me. Then, I do her series. This usually takes all of Saturday, and sometimes we finish the day by laying together while 4 qts of warm salt & soda fils each of us. We plug each other and enjoy the fantastic feeling of enema sex.

I am 67 didnt receive my first bag enema until15, but experimented with the red bulb at 11 12, i am just as interested now as i was them, sometimes even more so.

Guys, as you grow older, do you find it easier or less easy to talk with other men about your enema experiences, whether you take enemas for health, pleasure or both?

I like all kinds of laxatives. Though I only started liking oral laxatives when I was 12, and suppositories since about age 10, my enjoyment of the feeling of strong enemas hasn't changed since I was 3.5 yr old. As many others, I like receiving them from a stern giver, preferably my wife.

As folks who were growing up toward the tail end of the large-volume enemas, we were aware of them from an early age.. Today's young and early middle-aged adults have probably not been introduced to them, so, haven't had a chance to find if they like them. virtually every store have multiple facings of suppositories and disposable enemas. Younger folks seem to like enemas just fine, as do my daughters, one of whom had her own disposable enema storage space in one of our bathrooms.

Easier, much, at almost age 65 (Feb) and loving my kinks since no later than age 8 (rubber - orgasms and enemas at 15). And more satisfying as well. I'm so glad to have found Zity, and after two years I honestly don't even remember how I found it. God Bless you all, and a Happy New Year of plugging, enemas and all your other lovely kinks and other genteel pursuits to all.

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All the best,

Eric

Dr. Dick

In post #40, "curiousman" asks if it is easier or harder to share about enemas as we age. I was shy about it until I was18. Then mentioned it to a gay friend, and had no issue sharing after that.

Interesting question, #40.

A few years ago, I began dating a guy (we both were mid 30s). He brought up the idea of us trying colonics together. I agreed, and that led to us finding a place & scheduling. But then he flaked before our appointment. I went alone to the colonic, but found it very underwhelming (and expensive). He asked how it went but never mentioned colonics (or even trying private enema play) again.

I think some guys may have an easier time talking about enemas than following through. Not a judgment, just an observation. I've been quite the opposite -- happy to quietly do & enjoy enemas, but not really discussing them.

Except now here on Zity ??

I'm at the age now where enemas will likely stay very similar to each other for the next 15 years or so,

I feel the older I get the better each enema

Experience becomes. When I was in my 20's I was pretty much solo. In my 30's I found a girlfriend who loved to finger my ass so I breached the enema topic to her. She gave me few but never really seemed to get into it. Met many girls in my 30's who gave me enemas when I asked. Only one allowed me to give and she seemed more embarrassed than having enjoyed it. In my 40''s things picked up up some. I was comfortable now with who I was and had no trouble discussing what I enjoyed in bed and my own sexuality. Never lost a lover over discussing enemas. My 40's was when I found more willing women who were eager to give as receive. Also they were more into my personal enjoyment more than the younger women. I found my wife this way. Up front and honest. We've been married 20 years and each enema she gives is better than the last. I find myself enjoying them more than I ever have.

Age 70 1/2. Been enjoying enemas for sexual pleasure all my life, but strictly solo, as I have a wife who isn't interested in participating......which is another story.

I have to say at age 61 I really look forward to doing enemas as much as I ever did (started at age 13). I pretty much try do a session every week and during the week will be thinking about and looking forward to my next indulgence. I do enemas for erotic enjoyment and do them solo. My wife knows I do them and I don't have to hide my activity or my equipment, but up until now she hasn't shown an interest in participating. I am always dropping suggestions hoping one day she'll let me give her one.

So as an enema enthusiast have I come to love doing enemas more as I age, I would probably say so.

I agree with ProV1. At age 62, I enjoy my enemas now as much as ever. However, I am more open about the fact that I enjoy enemas than I was when I was younger. I try to get in 1 enema session each week. It's usually solo, but sometimes my partner gives me my rinse enema as part of our D/s play. We have found that it is much easier for me to slip into subspace when I am naked, bent over a high bar stool with a fairly large nozzle up my ass. That is when I most enjoy feeling his cane on my behind.

By taking my enemas on Saturday afternoon, I am always clean and ready for any other anal play later that evening. This doesn't happen as often as I would like due to our busy careers. When it doesn't happen at least I had a little me time earlier in the day.

Im 60 plus and i have been doing enemas for over 50 years.i enjoy them as much now as ever .orgasm during enema session. have a healthy sex life with wife.

"I think that we older members have a greater appreciation of enemas than the younger members. Most of us were brought up when enemas were given in every household. "

I think kinksters are the royalty of wishful thinking. Because a person enjoys enemas, we assume everybody does, vis a vis- Our household had some enemas, and therefore EVERYBODY'S did.

Using this same logic, everybody who enjoys a little bondage grew up in a household with a cross in the living room, and a copy of DeSade on the coffee table- laughable you say?

I have an enormous circle of friends- Mostly women around my age. Some kinky, some not. None of them remember routine enemas as youngsters. Most of us remember their mother's douching (a seriously discredited practice now) hence, yes, there was equipment in a lot of houses.

As one of the "older" persons referred to having a greater appreciation for a good enema there is another factor to consider - available time to enjoy our pleasures.

As a teenager at home there were those enemas when mom and dad were out for the evening but that wasn't all that often. As a young wife and mother with a couple of kids there was very little time to have private fun.

But now, the kids are long married and gone, I am retired from a daily job, I have the most time I have ever had to do what I want. So in these last few years I have had more enemas than in all of my previous life. I am enjoying retirement.

I have been getting enemas for some 50.plus years for many reasons all discussed. It is also a good release as well and enjoyment. I recently came out of the closet with my wife of 27 years, I even got her to give me one so I could teach her that they were not bad. Her only encounter that I'm aware of is when she gave birth to our 3 kids, I was there and the nurses could have done a better job. After she gave me an emema, she said she had no use for them, so I did not press the issue. Aussie health recently had a great sale on an ebag, so I bought her one and wished her many happy orgasms, with or without me. I hope in time she'll come around which might help to spice up our love life. I travel a lot and hope she'll do a little experimentation on her own now that she has a great new friend.

I'm with Cheryl on this one. I grew up with enemas at home as many of us did and once I got to self-giving many of them were quickies with limited time. My wife was a reluctant participant once I sweet-talked her into trying them. She just couldn't get over the discomfort and fear of making a mess. But now when my wife has lunch with her friends, or goes shopping for hours, I have the time to do it right. Age has it's privilege.

With maturity cums the willingness and joy of exploration.. we lose "the fear of flying"

I am 72 and still enjoy enemas as much as ever.

I'm also in my 70's, and enjoy a good enema (actually, several); before my wife and I got together, I gave to myself several times a week, and my sexual energy was extremely high. Once we began our life together, my self-giving dropped to almost nothing and most of the enemas I got, she gave. However, the frequency dropped, as I gave to her MUCH more than she gave to me. Recently, and due to her sleep issues, we've begun sleeping separately. No other changes in our relationship at all, and we get along extremely well...she just can't sleep well with me in the bed. She has become a night insomniac and sleeps a lot of the day.

So lately, and with more free time, I've turned back to my old habits: enemas every day or two, with a full cleanout at least every third day. Needless to say, I feel much better all the time. In addition, my libido has skyrocketed. I now wake up every morning with "Morning Wood,," and I am as hard as when I was a teenager. I still do have some of those over 70 experiences (not quite the wild energy I had earlier in life, etc.), but the libido increase caught me a bit by surprise. I've always had a very high sex drive, but it had decreased just a bit the last couple years. It's back now, greater than in quite a while. Dangit! Wish my wife was awake...

Anyone else experience this, or have an idea why it has happened, OTHER than psychology? It's almost certainly physiological, because it seems directly connected to the enemas themselves and the internal stimulation involved. It's almost like I'm on a Viagra drip...

80 + and still going.

It is definitely physiological to a large extend. I stopped having enema erections some years ago even though I still become excited at the thought of my next enema, as well as relish the sensations I feel during an enema.

I have been taking an enema every three days for over a year now to manage constipation and I look forward to every session. My body however no longer responds as it once did. Dems the breaks with aging and health issues. I can achieve a decent erection with the aid of drugs and I still get strong erections during REM sleep. I try to masturbate sometime after the enema with varying success.

I'm young enough to where stuff still mostly works (39), but still find that it works better and more often when combined with enemas and/or anal/prostate play. Not sure why.