I gather from reading the threads on this board that many of you use enemas before anal sex. I also understand there should not be any irritation/swelling/hemorriods after the enema, but for me, sometimes there is, and I'm too sore for further anal play. And that just sucks. A few things about that:
1. Don't suggest that I need more lube. We already use enough to drown a horse.
2. I usually wait for the sex until about 8 hours afterwards, and I'm still sore.
3. We use the standard douche nozzle.
4. I almost always add lemon juice to the enema, not soap.
Does anyone else experience this sometimes,and have you found an effective way of preventing it/getting rid of it?