GUYS--Do you want a male or female REAL doctor

Def a female Dr please..

Absolutely a female. It adds to the excitement for me to have a female examining me in my most vulnerable state. I suppose I would prefer a younger to middle aged female, but ultimately I'm not picky 😃

Young female doctor

Definitely female doctor/NP/Surgeon - any age/race

I prefer female doctors. Besides the reason that they are a fantasy of mine, they also have skinnier fingers. I want the DRE, but with a skinny finger. I have had 2 check ups from my new female dr. The DRE was done on my request at my first physical. The next year, she didn't do it, saying that a blood test could check the health of my prostate. And if blood results were bad, then she would do the DRE. I left that exam a little disappointed.

I prefer a male doctor, especially for playing doctor games.

I prefer a female for physicals or minor problems but a male if its a problem related to genital area

I prefer going to a male doctor due to the fact that its not as awkward between us when i get an erection, i feel that if it were a feamle, it would be very uncomfortable

I prefer a female doctor. I've had bad experiences with males and my last doctor was a female. I'm 29/m.

I have had good and bad experiences with both. I have a male now and I like him.

I have no strong preference. I like someone I can work with.

Both are fine with me.

I think it's pretty normal, especially for a gay, but I prefer female doctors/nurses.

I prefer a male doc but I have been examined in the past by a female doc and that was also very exciting. In that case I prefer an older woman

If I had the possibillity to choose wheter the doctor is female or male, its hard to say. On the one hand side some exams could be very erotic by a female doc, but on the other hand side I d feel "on the same level" with a male doc.

Though i'm not gay...being examined by relatively old male doctors does turn me on at times...

the drooling face and the expressionless eyes...grey hair and impassive voice giving instructions is a great turn on...

Both are bad in different ways. I'm straight so I don't wanna be seen naked by another guy. But a female doctor would be incredibly embarrassing to be sitting there in one of those gowns in front of her. Well I guess it wouldn't be bad if she was older. But if she was younger, say, under 30-35, it'd be pretty bad.

My current doctor (male) is someone I've known for many years. I went to him for some time, but when he focused his practice on gerontology for a few years I switched to another doctor. Eventually I ended up with the same one my partner was going to, who is female.

She was a very nice person, and very competent. But I just never felt comfortable with certain things. Taking my shirt off with her was about the limit of my comfort level. Luckily when I was seeing her I never had any issues related to my "private areas" so I never had to undress any further or be examined. But when I started to have problems which I believed were related to low testosterone levels, I knew I needed to find a male doctor again.

By that time, my original doctor had returned to general practice and I went back to him. I am much more comfortable discussing various topics with him, especially because he is not only gay (he actually has known my partner longer than me) but kinky as well. There is no subject I can't talk about...except medfet, ironically. I still don't know how to bring up THAT topic, or if I should.

Another bit of irony: I had never had a prostate exam before because I refused to allow a woman to do one on me. Once I switched doctors I figured he'd want to do one fairly soon, and I was OK with that, even ready for it. But he believes that PSA tests are more accurate than DREs, so he's never done one on me, either. That didn't happen until I ended up in the hospital ER with a kidney infection. Now THAT was an interesting experience!

Im a bi-curious guy and would love to be examined by both female and male. I have only enjoyed this experience thus far with males. I have examined many females in my role as Play Dr but not experienced a woman Dr or Nurse.

I prefer female doctors. The first time I got a complete physical I was extremely nervous about what the experience would be like however I decided that it was a hang-up I needed to get over.I discovered that women doctors give a more complete exam than the male doctors and are in general better doctors. If given a choice I will select a female doctor every time

It doesnt worry me whether be m/f, but it was a female doctor that gave me my first prostate test,but i was so tensed up

i dont know whether i enjoyed it or not,i think that could have been through fear as to what she could have said afterwards.

For me, it's not so much the gender of the doctor, doctor are professionals and are just doing their job. They are doctors and are trained to treat all the same. I have been to both and dont have a preference anymore. No matter what I go in there for. but finding a doctor you like and can be open with them.

For me it's the simple act of being naked in the presence of another person.

There is 0% chance of sexual congress so we are both safe in that department.

S/he may get turned on slightly, but they are only human too and they have it harder because they must hide their (potential ) arousal, better or risk a lawsuit.

I like being looked at by men, I like being looked at by women. When it comes to my choice in the gender of my medical professional, it's whoever enjoys to see me stripped off and at their (more or less) total control.

Having said that, I think it would be fun for an aged female doctor to boss me around in the exam room or maybe a chunky bookish looking one, one who doesn't get dates often so she uses her medical authority to satisfy those urges (like I said, dr.s . are people too.)

I prefer a female doctor. Mine is far more through and gentle, especially when doing a rectal and prostate exam. Instead of standing and being bent over an exam table with my pants dropped to my knees, my doctor has me completely undressed, lying on my side on the exam table, knees bent, with my bottom covered with a sheet. She places a well lubricated index finger on my anus and tells me to take several deep breaths. When she feel my anus relax, she slowly penetrates me and takes her time exploring my rectum and prostate. She feels the prostate both internally and externally simultaneously because only then can she feel any hardness or lumps. She spends minutes, not seconds, doing that part of the exam.

I prefer male, 35-60, as they tend to keep up to date with the latest healthcare issues,treatments etc. I'm into HMO group practice as the MDs are affiliated with larger hospitals or academic medical centers. Rare things are rare and common things are common, mist can treat the common things with ease, it's the rare things that need speciality treatment and large medical facilities or academic centers have just that.

I prefer female

I wouldn't be opposed to a female doctor, but there's just something about having another guy look you over, you know?

I definitely prefer a male doctor and also preferably gay as well. I would feel the most comfortable with this type and would be more open to discussing gay health issues and feel he would be the most non-judging type of doctor.

I definitely prefer a male doctor and also preferably gay as well. I would feel the most comfortable with this type and would be more open to discussing gay health issues and feel he would be the most non-judging type of doctor.

I definitely agree. Though the male doctor being gay or not doesn't really matter to me. Him being male is most comfortable when talking about any men's health issues.

I prefer females without a doubt I think they are better and take more care of their patients

I am a 'straight' male, in his late fifties ( 60 in January), and I have preferred female examiners since I was in my thirties and had my first female doctor, a young resident at University of TN.

I agree with Spanked Boy, that they tend to be better. I believe that it may be from their personal experiences with examiners in general, and also that females, (mostly) are generally considered to be more nurturing.

That said, however, I am now faced with a quandry. MY PSA came back higher than the female doctor would like, and she seems to be uncomfortable following me with this issue. She keeps referring to her "male" counterparts, when asked about good urologists.

I also find that there is a wide gap between the female examiners in terms of the "male exam.' Either it doen't get done, or it is a very thorough examination

Hope that helps.