Thanks for the encouragement owne20342.
Could I ask you, what size to you begin at in a session? If you max. is 3.5", do you start at 1.5", 2", 2.5", 3" or..?
As you suggested I always clean our before I begin. Then some lube and a normal size dildo. Will then squat over a 2.25" x 18" which literally works like a key - the depth instantly relax my anus. Then I shift to a hand-like dildo (not a fist - a beak) which I also squat over. And that is as far as I can go. In rare cases - after a lot of work, carefully working it up by 'pushing' against it - I can reach a dildo at 3.25". A real rush, but my ass will be sore at this point - quite possibly with a drop of blood in the lube. Time to call it a day, I guess.
The reason I ask is, that I wondered if there is a link between the size you can easily take when you start a session and the possible endpoint. After having play with large dildo's for several years, I am somewhat surprised that a penis-sized dildo still is needed as a starting point. Would have thought that you in time would get 'larger' down there (so much for all the dark omens about leaking).
Anyway, seems like I just can't relax further. Wonder if I go at it too fast? Also the 3.25" dildo I use is not perfectly round and the way it turns DO make a differnce. Perhaps there are bones and stuff in there which sets a physical limit at this point. 😢
The stepstool sounds like a comfortable solution. I will try that.
Have fun, mate