Butt Stretching--3.5 inches wide and beyond!

Hope people learn from the true story. One should never play alone when doing these kind of things

Yikes 3 to 5 inches? Are you incontinent in between?

I used to do 2" and about 10" long, that filled me up plenty! One time, however, I was really super horny in my early 20's and sat on a bed post that must have been about 3" in diameter. I was amazed. I just seemed super relaxed that day. I was just fooling around sitting on it and my butt kept opening and wanted more, then suddenly the whole thing popped up my ass. It was pretty hot!

Just made the 4" mark recently. So 3.75" to 4" ?

You need to be careful putting wide objects into your anus. It is nothing like the vagina, it is not designed to stretch and then return. It is muscle, once it's stretched so far it won't ever return to its normal state, possibly causing prolapse and eventually you will be incontinent. Sorry to be a party pooper but what's more important, 5 minutes of fun or not being able to hold it when you need the toilet?

Good advice, lets hope someone takes notice.

Just conquered the DJ Bombshell so got to 3.4. Slowly stretching my ass from my 2.5 dildo starter all the way to the Bombshell was such an amazing feeling. Took the good part of two hours. My ass is definitely getting regular workouts: I am getting energetically fisted by my therapist girl at the end of my weekly massage (I guess you call that an "Happier" ending) and always adding a couple of stretching sessions a week of at least an hour. Aiming for the Cyclops next... https://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bin/edatcat/BTSstore.cgi?user_action=detail&catalogno=GD8050

My wife uses a 13 inch dildo that's about three inches in diameter . She uses it with her strapon on me. The combination of length and girth while she penetrates me is so intense. We use plenty of water based soluble lube. The position we start in is usually based on how she would like to start. This morning she bent me over and we started that way it seems to have be easiest that way especially if you haven't done it in a long time. After about 15 minutes of that we switched and I got on top. I like nice long fast strokes to where the head is about to come out and then I go all the way back in till I feel the balls against my ass. My wife knows I like it rough when we are doing it so she is always willing to accommodate me. I love making out when she's inside of me after I cum she makes me clean cum.

I will always just be happy with my puny 1- 1/2 capacity. Hard for me to understand anyone wanting to expand themselves to more than 2", never mind to 3.5 inches. Never had the need or desire to be known as a big ass, LOL

I can insert 3.75 inch diameter, and am currently fully taking in the Fat Man In A Barrel Butt Plug Flesh from Big Sex Toy Store. Their products are great.

Now that's some rough sea you sailed, sailor! Happy sailing!

I am now at 3.75 and am working with a 4.25 toy.... wish there was a 4" toy to step up to......that isn't huge dollars

I'm not even close. The largest I can take is my 2.25 inch wide prostate butt plug. I do fantasize about larger toys and get really turned on by the Cybill Troy strapon movies but I don't think I'd ever be able to accommodate something like that.

I can take a 4" butt plug as long as its got a little give. I've tried a solid 4" and it won't quite fit. I suspect I could get it in but it might cause a little damage.

Just me two cents worth! I'd think about how it will effect your health. Nothing is broken, torn or ruptured yet. You might like to keep it that way.

The anus is muscular.

Think of a gymnast learning to do a split. My daughters and I all did gymnastics when we were young. If a new inexperienced gymnast got into position and the coach grabbed their shoulders and pushed them to the ground there would be severe muscle damage and tearing of muscles. If you slowly over time build up to the stretching necessary to do a split, your muscles learn to stretch and you can stand back up and do all the things you could do before you learned to stretch and do a split.

WITHIN LIMITS, it is all about practice.

I bought a 750 ml (about 0.79 US quart) PET vinegar bottle with a screw cap. It is 80 mm in diameter (roughly 3.15") and stands perhaps 220 mm (8.66") high overall. This I fill totally with warm water. The cap is knurled and not arse-friendly, so I mak a pad of folded toilet paper, wet it and mould it over the cap, squeezing it till it hugs properly.

Then I loosen my sphincters properly to about 63 mm (2.5"), lubricating with soap inside, smother the soaked, TP-coverered cap and the whole bottle with more stiff soap lather, and squat. It takes 7-10 minutes (lots of bearing down) to get the shoulder of the bottle past my inner sphincter, after which I can ease down until my bum is on the floor.

More later on my computer where typing is easier.

Johnny

Bottle continued.

Once I'm touching the floor, the bottle is deeply enough embedded in me that I can raise myself a bit, slip a hand under its base, and stand up. That is quite a sensation! Then I can carefully work it further into me until my anus begins to close a bit over the base. By this point, the bottle can be felt with its cap above my navel. Now comes the tricky bit. I should explain that a PET bottle, well capped and totally filled with water, is incompressible and quite stable under load, but can change shape as it progresses into me to accommodate any pelvic bones impeding it.

The bottle is by then almost wedged into me, the cap pressing my spine from inside. But if I lean backwards, keeping my hips level, the vertebra that's in the way moves back a bit and I can work the bottle further up my descending colon. Eventually it is forced right inside me by my own sphincters closing on the base - an incredible (and rather nervous) moment, very erotic. If you could see me then, you would be unaware that I have a rather large bottle totally inside me! And it feels immense, gorgeous - a moment of triumph! The cap, at this point, is located just behind my lower ribs. The first time I did this, I cautiously and at each new depth, tried expelling it by bearing down - just to be sure I could. Well, I could. From totally closed anus, the first push sent the bottle to where it was still trapped by my nearly fully-dilated anus, and the temptation to push it back in again was irresistible. It again sank in with a new thrill...!

Getting it right out is surprisingly easy. I do it standing up and bearing down hard, and the last bit comes out in a rush. Then I can re-lube both my areshole and the bottle, clamp my knees together, bear down hard on my already almost prolapsed anus, and in a single, highly erotic movement, push the bottle home again in one smooth thrust. Aaahh! Sometimes I will do this in the shower, and soap myself with the bottle fully enclosed before rinsing, drying myself and then expelling it while watching in the mirror behind the wash basin (= sink, US). The view of my hole stretching and stretching is also quite a turn on.

I found it isn't a good idea to do this with a full bowel, thought the bottle still goes in easily enough, because it does come out dirty, and moreover my anus does not immediately recover its ability to close properly. There can be, shall we say, fallout!

Johnny

A warning to members:

1--Regarding massive widths of objects, be careful. A muscle with stretch and eventually cause pain. After it reaches its maximum stretch, it will RIP without warning. Anal reconstruction is NOT fun and will probably end your anal play forever. Tears in the rectum can be extraperitoneal or retroperitoneal and those repairs are extremely difficult and not always successful. If you are going to puncture something, far inside is better than lower down. They can do a better anastomosis there and you still might end up with a temporary or permanent colostomy.

2--It is NOT recommended that you insert anything into your anus/rectum that you cannot retrieve from the outside of the body--that means you should at least have a strong string attached to it so you can pull it out if you cannot expel it by bearing down. I think members on Zity have seen some of the surgical videos I have posted or retrieving various objects from the rectum along with the glass jars and bottles that have broken inside the rectum.

3--Use caution with glass AND PLASTIC bottles and jars. They will flex a little until they bend and tear open which will lacerate your rectum.

For those who are interested, there is a book entitled "STUCK UP" showing about 100 pages of photos of toys that had to be removed in the OR or ER by various physicians. So you know I'm not joking, here's the link:

https://www.amazon.com/Stuck-Up-Inserted-Ingested-Shouldnt/dp/0312680082/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1493924305&sr=1-1&keywords=%22stuck+up%22+in+books

Just because you can get something far in there, that does NOT mean you'll be able to get it out on your own.

Play safely boys and girls!

Good advice, Sussie.

Three inches or my wife's fist is my widest. I'm not sure which. I think I hit a skeletal limit after that. Buttwoman, you are amazing with 4". I'd love to see pictures!

The theory of careful training like a gymnast learning to do splits fits my experience. I've never forced anything. I've always been very patient. Consequently, I've never hurt myself or caused any irreversible stretching. After two days of being stuffed with a 3-inch plug, I can pull it out and close up immediately as tight as ever. No running to the toilet for me, and I can pleasurably clinch down on small anal toys now as well as ever. There are a lot of myths out there--and real dangers too.

This probably doesn't belong here, but I made the mistake of buying myself a toy that was about 2" in diameter. And - even after loosening up by hand and with a smaller toy - I haven't been able to get it in yet. Any tips.

@squidgicunt if at first you don't succeed, try, try again.

As corny as that sounds, it's appropriate. Progression to a larger toy is possible through repetition over time. Always plenty of lube. One piece of advice that in my experience is seldom shared though is that inserting a toy in your arse is easier if you bear down upon it as though you were trying to push out a turd. That causes your arsehole to open and stretch.

.... And - even after loosening up by hand and with a smaller toy - I haven't been able to get it in yet. Any tips.

It may not happen in the same session, but over time. Start with fingers, then a smaller size plug it dildo, then something larger and then try your 2 incher. You still may not get it in this time but continue with patience and care. And yes bear down as if you were eliminating to help.

It took over 6 months of trying to get my big red in because I didn't eat to cause damage.

My tip, time and patience.

Buttwoman, you are amazing with 4". I'd love to see pictures!

That's fucking amazing. That's the size of the cast iron waste pipes in my basement!

I recently have had success taking a 3 inch diameter toy. That was after many years of slowly increasing the size of my dildo. After i final get a dildo in, I continue to work with it until it would easily pop in. Only then would i go shopping for s bigger one. However, I think 3 inches may be my limit, it still takes quite awhile to get it in and I am not successful every time.

I have never experienced any gaping problems. Things seem to recover nicely.

I start playing with my ass some 9 years ago....with a finger...and now I open my ass with Ass Servant but plug - 3.75 inches in diam. and my latest is Ass Master. Was to big so I took the outside layer out and that gave me a diameter of 4.3 inches, wich is perfect for my ass for now.

Just an update. I have a 4" bullet shaped plug I got in the gaybourhood (Big toy store called Priape, I think they're gone now). This thing is enormous. Before, I had only gotten it in twice, and both times left me hopping around, going fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, and pulling it out almost immediately.

This morning, after a good warm up with a fist shaped dildo, I decided to give it another try. I sat down on it, and as expected, felt a bit of pain, and then just slid down it's length. It's been in about 40 minutes now. I'm getting a throbbing, so perhaps I'll go an hour, and get rid of it.

I think I may have found my limit, but, i've said that before.

And I thought 2 to 2.5 and maybe 3 was large. I do like watching. My avatar shows where I've been and where I'd like to get to be.

Priape closed and moved to Montreal.

This probably doesn't belong here, but I made the mistake of buying myself a toy that was about 2" in diameter. And - even after loosening up by hand and with a smaller toy - I haven't been able to get it in yet. Any tips.

Get a few more toys with in-between-sizes and slowly work your way up. Never force anything in if it doesn't fit (yet). Hafe fun. ?