Being naked and shy

I am a more shy and reserved person. With my experiences in the military, however, I'm not very shy when nude around other females - 100 females in the same barracks and one group shower... you get over it pretty quick. But around men, I'm still shy about that exposure. One of the reasons I prefer to be gowned in an exam, I guess. After I relax around a guy, though, I'm not so modest or shy. And the relative anonymity of Zity allows me to be more free with responses and such... so I can be more open here.

I'm the opposite... I'm way more comfortable naked around women that blokes

That's why the male play doc adds that extra element of humiliation. It just does seem right standing there in front of another man with all you bits dangling down!

I have always been shy of being naked until we vacationed at an all-inclusive clothing optional resort in Jamaica. When we booked the vacation, I agreed that I would go topless. We arrived at the resort late due to airline delays with enough time to get our luggage to the room, change, go to dinner and then to sleep after dinner as we were so tired from the long day of travel. I'm an introvert and stayed most of the first full day in my beach chair sunning and reading but getting up occasionally to go to the bar for a drink and looking at the naked people. My husband is an extrovert and after a few hours of sitting next to me was restless and took off to the bar to meet people and talk. That evening my husband said that everyone is really nice and I should spend more time by the pool and bar. By late afternoon on the second day I had more to drink and was feeling relaxed and less shy. We went to the large hottub, which is actually a small pool and got in. There were probably 8 naked couples there already and everyone started talking to us and were so nice. After a few more drinks the other couples coaxed me to take off my swimsuit bottom. I finally did and it felt so wonderful and free. We stayed at the hottub for a few more hours and more couples came in and as it became dark out all types of sexual activity also started, but that's another story. Since we had such a great time we have gone back to that resort a number of times over the years and my swimsuit usually stays in our room.

Never be concerned about those scars from accidents or surgery, they're signs of a survivor. when i first saw mine after a rather serious surgery she was concerned i wouldn't think she was still sexy because of the scar. i love my sweetheart and i love her scar because it's a part of her.

I love being naked, but it's a private thing we do at home. Also, when my sister visits, and her husband and mine go off to do some "men's things" like college sports events, we do ... but I've never been nude in my brother-in-law's presece and my husband has not been nude when my sister is around. Never been to a clothes optional resort anywhere ... like ai said, I love being naked, getting rid of the clothing, but it's strictly a private thing we do just around our house. That's us!!!

Since I used to work as a nursing assistant in a hospital, I have no problem with modesty. We all have buttocks, and either a vagina or penis. Just parts of the human body, which I discovered is an amazing and magnificent machine with many, many redundant systems. When I was in a hospital chronic pain clinic a year ago for six weeks (in a teaching hospital), I was given several enemas due to constipation from drugs. One time, the charge nurse and attending resident asked me if it (since they knew I had some clinical experience) if it would be OK if they had several of the first year nursing students watch me getting a large volume enema (vs. the usual Fleet). I said "no problem" and a dozen men and women came into my room while my duty nurse gave me a very large and difficult to hold in enema...and then I had to expel in front of them into a portable commode. I had no problem with that at all, although some of the students seemed to look a bit embarrassed.

When I was young I was very shy about anyone seeing my naked body, but then I was brought up in a conservative home where nudity was considered a dirty thing. However, as I got older it became less and less of a problem for me. I studied theater and in that profession it just doesn't pay to be shy. I learned to do shirtless parts and eventually roles in which I had to do fully nude scenes. This cures one of shyness quickly! During this period I also became a nudist as well. As a nudist one discovers that few people ever have the perfect body and even those that do usually do not think they have. So no shyness anymore for me in any situation.

I was never shy around my extended family but was shy about undressing when visiting friends and didn't like it at the doctors. I outgrew that soon enough and enjoy social nudity.

The reason medical exams are so exciting to me is because of my shyness regarding my body. Although I'm 100% ok exposing myself, there is a twinge of nervousness and anticipation that makes it so thrilling.

Never uncomfortable in my own house, with my husband. I don't even mind changing in front of some of my girlfriends either. I'm generally fine with people that are really close to me. On the other hand, always uncomfortable in a medical setting or gym. It has nothing to do with what my body looks like. It is mostly about people that I don't know.

I WAS shy 3 years ago for a surgery when they gave me a really short gown to wear, but i think i'd be the opposite today, now that i've embraced medfet & exposure more.

I'm not shy about being nude in front of women at all.

I'm somewhat shy about being in front of guys. i tend to change or use the bathroom with the door closed if a male other than my son is around. Although i'm not really shy in front of doctors of either gender.

I was very shy until I started enemas. I used to not like to get naked with anyone but my wife. I didn't like it at the doctors, I didn't like it at the gym, etc. I think part of my shyness was that growing up I did not have a brother so I always had my own room and wasn't naked in front of other people.

But when I got into enemas and read about having a lady enemate or a lady give me an enema, I got up the guts to go to an enema nurse. After making the appointment I almost chickened out, but I went through with it. It was so enjoyable that my shyness went away. I will get naked anytime to have a lovely lady give me enemas or a medical exam. So I have changed completely in this regard and it is because I love getting enemas.

I just re-read the title in the list again "Being naked and shy", and i thought "that's kind of hot"

One recurring commonality you'll notice in these posts is that shyness is often overcome eventually through experiences. It's like getting used to the water temperature when swimming.

This is really strange, but as a child I was very shy, even in my early teens as a young boy I was.

Then when I discovered what my gender situation was, and I started being more open about it my shyness disappeared somewhat.

I got to know some female friends in my later teens, and being with them, and they knowing my situation, it sort of felt more natural and as my confidence grew my shyness went away

Hi Transgirl, I am interested to know where in the UK you were subjected to such draconian treatment. Teachers whether headmistress or headmasters have no right to be inspecting a child privates, someone like that should be prosecuted. Shameful behavior.

Hi Big Easy Guy,

In response to my post on a slightly different thread on this site, it was in the Midlands.

But it was way back in the 60s, so I would imagine that things have changed somewhat now, and changed for the better too..!!

I feel a little shy since gaining a little weight. I enjoy sharing pics though without people I don't know. Some people like a little bit bigger girl.

I am actually really shy in person until you get to know me . Painfully shy when I was a chubby little girl , then I became much more outgoing when I blossomed into a teen , still shy about being seen naked but I did show some skin when among close friends and boyfriends . Over the years I have become once again painfully shy when it comes to my body image , society can be very cruel when it comes to the plus sized . Only until recently with the loving assurance from my sweetie have I been able to feel good about my body and have amazingly lost enough of that shyness to even send him some naughty pics ! His reaction .....well I keep sending him more now ! ???

I was also a very shy person when it came to showing my naked body to anyone even Dr's but since my surgery in 1989 I have lost that shyness not totally but some. I was also overweight and didn't like the way my body looked, sometimes I still don't but I have dropped 35 lbs since winter and just have 5 more lbs to go before I'm at my right weight for my 5'4 frame and that is where I'll stop and try to maintain my weight there. This is the lightest I have ever been since high school and I think I look good for my age. 😃

Large build here so have a belly and man boobs lol. As a result, I'm pretty shy about my body but also feel liberated when I do get a chance to be nude in front of someone other than my wife.

Hi All,

A long, long time ago in a galaxy far, far away I was your really shy person ..till my early pre-teens...something lifted from me ..... maybe it was being around guys my age going thru puberty some of us developed faster than others.... I remember at the swimming pool guys commenting on who had "MOSS" (that grey stuff that hangs from live oak trees in the deep south!!!) I was one who sprouted early and everybody would comment!! It was a "Rite of Passage." After that ...Nobody cared!!

Got "MOSS!!!,"

highwater

I do not see how presenting myself for a medical examination compares at all to being home and engaged with a lover or spouse. Granted, there may be some sensations that occur but the experiences are so totally unique for me. The medical always engenders nervousness and a heightened sense of vulnerability when standing in a gown or having it lowered, raised or removed. Being exposed, probed and viewed as part of the doctor's daily task hardly seems romantic or necessarily sexual. Yet, the body can react and surely our minds can travel to very special places! Feeling shy at the doctor's is for me the start of anticipating what is to come - will I have to get....etc? When my anxiety meets up with having to receive more that I would have wanted, it becomes intense and sometimes momentarily embarrassing or even painful (shots) which tends not to characterize intimate experiences elsewhere. Of course, there can be reliving those exam experiences at the hands of a gentle lover or given my own fantasies.

Thanks for the question - it gets complicated - I shall think about it more!

Julie

One of the most compelling reasons for med fet play is that part where a submissive woman knows she must give up control over her body, possibly her body functions and will stand or lay totally naked in front of a fully dressed man that has control over her in a way that only is given by that woman as a "patient"... In no other normal setting would a woman disrobe and present herself to another man in a non-sexual setting.

As a dominant male, I find this interlude where the woman must make that final decision and begin undressing or when she must "slide down the table" or "spread your legs" or decide to obey any other command that in a normal setting would never occur. In play exams, I thoroughly enjoy the first part where we establish the D/s relationship and she obeys that first order, whatever it might be. In play exams, at this point, I have yet to meet a woman patient that doesn't respond with becoming swollen and wet. This, I believe is the essense of med fet play for me.

One of the most compelling reasons for med fet play is that part where a submissive woman knows she must give up control over her body, possibly her body functions and will stand or lay totally naked i....... In no other normal setting would a woman disrobe and present herself to another man in a non-sexual setting.

I agree with the part of it being compelling. But, just to be honest, I've never thought of medfet play to be anything else but sex of a somewhat different kind. Maybe quite different, maybe even when it happens with no sexual play or interacting as most of society understands it.

If a play exam isn't a sexual setting, then what is? I wouldn't kid myself that conducting a play exam isn't a kind of sexual activity for both patient and doctor, even if the doctor doesn't even disrobe. It is still sex. Just a different and special kind.

Med-fet is whatever the two of us make it when we play. If the woman wants it not to be "sexy" I will oblige to assuage her sense of guilt....this always helps to relax the ones that have any sense of guilt. However, few times have I done a med-fet scene where the woman does not leave well climaxed. Sometimes I will forego myself to get her pleased, but ultimately she comes back to reciprocate. The emotions can be all over the place...but yes...in the final analysis this is a sexual fetish that she wants played out. If I do her right, she will want to please me. Remember, almost every woman I play with has already declared herself to be either somewhat submissive or an out and out slave for this.

every thing I do is consensual and these women want this so damn badly...what a treat to pleasure them.

I am definitely shy about being naked even by myself. I love being shirtless because I like to see my belly but fully naked is not something I like to do especially at the doctors because it's so embarrassing

@Doctorzacho how do you feel about being in just your underwear?

Well, it's a bit of dual sensation for me. I'm not shy about my upper half, I love to expose my breast in a safe and controlled environment, but… I'm shy about my bottom and legs. I feel they are not so good, especially considering my age and the fact i don't have time to actively seek a sport regime … thus I feel very shy about having to show them.

But recently I was forced to show them during a play physical and… be it that I was reassured they looked.fine, and I was otherwise occupied, I felt it was just right to be naked in front the doctor…

@DomGreekChi the only time I'd be in just my underwear would be at the doctors because I really refuse to take off my pants and socks cause I hate my legs and feet

Since early in my life (about 10 maybe) i've been shy about my body and being naked around people. Even my own family. I was the only one locking the door of the bathroom 😁

I think no one in my own family has seen me naked since I was 12 or 13 (and I'm 50).

Same goes with friends (male or female), or strangers, or doctors. The only persons I'm not shy with are my girlfriends.

I think this modesty is why I'm so into CFNM 😁