Being naked and shy

@naana: What?! You mean they don't make you strip and put on one of those humiliating gowns that display your ass if you make the smallest move, then leave you in a cold examination room for twenty minutes before a doctor ever comes in?

It's de rigeur on my side of the Pond.

Chaawirt: In that time I had a small hernia in the lower back. So it was not a massage in the relaxing kind of way,

and yes she was very attrective and also very competend. But still I was very nervous and a bit shy And treu

moostly when she pulled the undie somewhat down.

I do not consider myself shy at this point. This week I saw a chiropractor and expected I would have to get naked. But I only had to take off my shirt. I think I would like to be naked in a medical setting.

In a medical setting I don't consider myself shy at all. I figure that it is just part of their job and let's get it over with. Outside of that I'm probably more shy now than I used to be. Being late middle aged the ol' body just isn't what it used to be. LOL

At one time as a child and early teens I was very self conscious about being fully exposed or fully naked for the dr or nurse etc. In my teens and 20's I underwent several major orthopedic surgeries. At the time they required a few days in the hospital for pain management and rehab so I wouldn't injure myself at home. I felt very comfortable with my surgeon and the nursing care he personally requested for me. Those nurses were also very thorough in the continuous monitoring and assesing. I got to where I really do not care if I am asked to be nude or exposed.

It sounds as if you have had your fare share of medical challenges. Obviously, too, He was not ready for you to journey to the other side, much to our benefit.

Thank you for sharing, and it is hoped that all is well!

Hermann

Shyness & nudity in front of the (opposite sex) play doctor/nurse = embarrassment.

The embarrassment is one of the sources of sexual excitement.

And sexual excitement is the main reason for playing doctor :-)

Who does not like that, he/she can have problems in front of a real doctor and can feel any embarrassment as humiliation.

So, playing doctor can help us to overcome problems of this kind when we are to visit a real doctor.

I think as someone who doesn't normally like taking clothes off in front of someone I don't know it's really eciting and erotic to be told to strip right off by a doctor, either at the beginning or during an examination; it's the feeling of vulnerability in front of a clothed relatively unknown stranger while you are stripped naked and who is in complete control. I think you have to be nervous or shy about being naked in front of a stranger to really enjoy the full vulnerable and erotic sensations, particularly when they tell you to get into embarrassing or exposed postions as part of the medical.

I am shy and it is also difficult for me to be naked the first time with a new partner but; it is also such a tremendous turn-on as a disrobe and bear all the first time. I love it and I hate it but, mostly, I love it.

I used to be super shy, mostly self conscious about the size of my penis. Two years ago a went to a nudist park, and confronted my insecurities head on. Glad I did, and now know I have a small penis, but I'm not alone. :😃

I am very shy being naked.in medical conditions i feel very nervous and shy

Agreed nude beaches are the perfect remedy for shyness. The first thing which becomes apparent at a nude beach is that people come in all shapes and sizes. Most of us are amazingly average. Its also great to just bare it, and not have anyone really care. That has made my trips to the gym, and trips to the doctor seem simply routine (especially when you think about how many naked bodies docs and nurses see).

I am very shy, esp when it comes to my body. I get very self conscious when someone else sees my naked body. That is one reason I have love/hate feelings when it comes to being a patient. I know doctors see "bodies" of all shapes and sizes all day, but it still embarasses me to be exposed. It's not like you can turn the lights off in a doctor's office, heck doctor's never seem to have enough light. Laying there with my legs in the stirups, and the doctor shines another big bright light on my lady parts. It's like having your genitals center stage in some concert, all the additional lights shining on you.

All my life I've been very body shy, even with my current partner for the first year or so we were going together. It's something I've gradually gotten over, with her, but I'm still very uptight about being naked around people I'm not completely comfortable with. Doctors and nurses make me nervous, which just makes me even more body shy.

Shy? Naw, just ask and the clothes are off... Many times over I've been totally nude for not only a doc but for others as well. Now, don't ask to take a photo because for some reason I'm just not there.

Old, you are not alone in your feelings here. I was married for 16 years, never had sex with the lights on, never wanted him to see my body. I wasn't comfortable in my own skin.

But for some reason, Doc changed that in me completely. The first time we ever had sex we had it with the lights on, and after 4 years I honestly can't remember now every turning the lights off.

I love walking around naked in front of him, and he loves being naked as much as possible for me. Strange how that works. Sometimes we just lay around naked together, not doing anything in particular, just laying around in total nakedness, reading the paper, discussing the days events, what we want to do later, or just enjoying being naked together since we don't get enough time together as it is.

We are both happy in our own skins because we are with somone who we love both inside and out probably for the first time. He wants to see me naked, and I want to see him naked, that in itself makes a world of differece, trust me.

At home mom kept us kids in the nude most of the time later my wife and I never told our two what to were or when except I would have yell at my daughter to get dressed when some one came over . My self I find i am very shy around any one I am uncomfortable with all through I prefer to be in the nude when I am on the mining claim . It's in the deep woods water and no one for miles unless they were invited .

I am also very shy and was uneasy about being naked but i do admit im aok w being naked w my special someone now im blessed to have found a lady thqat is ok w me as is and is able to indulge me and my kinks

It depends on the situation for me now. I used to be very shy, but then I lived in Japan for some time where full nudity in public baths and hot springs in front of strangers was a normal part of life, so I've gotten used to it. However the keyword is 'strangers', people who I am unlikely to meet again, and also the baths and hot springs are gender separated.

I'm not shy but I feel total exposure is less arousing. Sitting on the edge of the exam table, blouse pulled open and pushed back, breasts lewdly pulled out over the bra cups... This can be so much more exciting than sitting naked. Somehow it's inappropriate and has that abusive edge.

I sure have bits of me that I would rather look at in certain ways (or positions!) and can find it momentarily distracting if a position is less than flattering to the way my breasts are positioned for instance. But on the other hand I'm at an age where I'm over most of the worst hang-ups and for the most part embrace my body. I think we simply project our acceptance of ourselves and if we embrace our bodies then our partners will too. At least, that's what I like to believe...

😳 Shy, reserved and quiet

I've come full circle and a half. Completely open as a youngster, very shy as a young adult when I really looked good, but thought I was fat (tiny at 98 lbs!), progressed through my 40's and 50's feeling good about myself and confident. Now, I'm back to impossibly shy again - a 75 year old body is nothing to look at. Not shy with my Docs though - It's his job and I'm in better shape than most of his patients. At home alone, I'm your basic nudist.

I'm very shy being naked in medical conditions...I fell very uncomfortable!

But during medical plays it's totally different 😄

I used to be quite shy but as you get out of your teens it seems you become less and less shy.

This weekend I will be going to a mixed sauna with some of my friends and as it is a mandatory nude one all of them will see me naked and I am totally relaxed, but come the next day and if they were to give me a physical I would go all shy.

Somehow in a medical situation, being naked seems like the most natural way to be. All of this wearing gowns and pulling them up or dropping the top and tying it up again afterwards seems rather pointless and a waste of time. I've never really understood where all this prudery and reticence has come from these last decades.

That said, in other situations I rarely at all go around naked at all (in the house), if only because of the awful weather where I live and the heating costs ... ha ha.

When younger I was always very shy/embarrassed over being nude, then I never undressed in front of others except when I was forced by my dr it was always a very humiliating experience. now I am not shy any longer and don't mind being nude

I used to be really shy about my body. I rarely been shirtless ever since I was little but recently went over the shyness and find being shirtless at the doctors for an exam or any procedures is pretty hot 😄

I was always really shy about my body and being naked in front of others, even the doctor, well probably especially the doctor seeing as how I have my white coat syndrome and all, lol. But that all changed the very first night that Doc and I got together.

I don't know how, why, or what made me change that night. I know it had to have been by his doing, but again, not sure how or why, or what he did that made me change inside. Maybe it was because he is a real doctor and even though my body is very very far from anything perfect, he still thought I was hot and wanted me. He gave me a sense of self that I never had before, felt before, a sort of self acceptance maybe?

From that point forward being naked was never a problem for me again. Maybe because I knew that someone found me attractive, someone important, a doctor who sees hot naked bodies all day long. That has to be it because when Doc and I split, my feeling of being embarrassed about being naked have returned. I no longer buy the sexy panties, the low cut shirts, or the tight pants. Yes I know it's silly and crazy to allow someone else to define me that much, or to be accountable to my own self worth, but I do. Without him all of my self confidence goes too.

I had a chance to be naked a few weeks ago with another couple who wanted to play. I just couldn't bring myself to do it. I have another chance to be naked next weekend. So, we will see what happens then.

Mashie

I became a nudist in order to battle body modesty. It worked.