Oral Sex & Swallowing

^^^^ We didn't get into rimming at dinner!

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^^^^ We didn't get into rimming at dinner!

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Oops. I thought you meant that you agree with the general statement.

Yeah, that's definitely not a conversation you want to have with your daughter. And one that your daughter definitely doesn't want to have with you.

This coming from a woman who walked in on her parents having sex a couple years ago and who was given the task, at a later date, of explaining to my mom what camel toe meant. I refuse to explain to her what it means to toss the salad. So whenever she says she can't come to the phone because she's tossing the salad, my siblings, nieces and nephews just giggle inappropriately. She probably thinks we're insane.

I have had a few deep oral climaxes into a lovers mouth where they have swallowed, and I find the sensation incredible, complete, and so much more intense. When I am about to cum, and I realize that she is not going to stop as I ejaculate, my orgasm takes me away and I can relax, instead of trying to hold back or control where it is going.

They found the cause of women losing interest in sucking and swallowing;

WEDDING CAKE!!!!!!

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They found the cause of women losing interest in sucking and swallowing; WEDDING CAKE!!!!!!

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I have to write that one down. . . .

I enjoy engaging in oral sex with my boyfriend and don't mind him cumming in my mouth. He really loves it too (what guy doesn't?). To me, it seems to complete the act and makes me feel closer to him. It's more intimate. You know, the penis gets larger, the scrotum tightens, then you feel the cum pumping through the penis that's held in your mouth as his loins quiver. Luckily, his cum tastes fine. Some is nasty.

Its one of the greatest, when my girl friend swallows it. Sometimes she holds it in her mouth and then kisses me and we share. Its a great turn on.........

I have been on both sides of this....receiving and giving oral. I still remember the first women who swallowed. It showed how into me, into us she was. And I remember the first time I did. (I'm bi) I didn't plan to, but the whole experience was so hot it just seemed natural. I swallow either because I'm really into it or because I trust the person. Taste also has something to do with it.

My then girfiend let me cum in her mouth, but now my wife won't have anything to do with it in her mouth.

I love the taste of my husband's cum and sometimes i can tell what he has eaten from a day or two before i go down on him. some of the most explosive orgasms he has are when i am giving him an enema and going down on him at the same time. i am not sure if his having an enema or my massaging his prostate (without the enema) causes more of a reaction from him. i do know that he dose not cum as hard or as much from a 'regular blow job' as when having an enema or me massaging his prostate.

at any rate, i really love the taste of his cum and just how warm and smooth it feels in my mouth. sometimes, though, he will ejaculate sooner and more forcefully than i expected and i end up swallowing some of his cum sooner than i wanted.

it is something i really enjoy doing and would love to do it more. 😃

I love it when my girlfriend swallows, as soon as she does I'll stick it right in her pussy or go down on her to return the favor.

I can't imagine not swallowing, lol, well, not unless he prefers to cum on me... Cum is natural, and it washes off, (or can be scooped up and licked off), so it's all good...

I appreciate it, and I do my best to please her to the limit in return.

Performing oral sex on a man takes alot of time and is, quite frankly, alot of work. For me, then, his ejaculating is the prize and, yes, I do swallow every drop. In fact, I like to keep him in my mouth until he returns to his flacid state.

I feel like the woman is rejecting me if she doesn't swallow.

I understand what you mean, Texas. It can feel like a personal affront when a lover doesn't swallow. It's rare for me not to swallow but sometimes there will be a taste or texture issue or I might feel nauseated. I hate it when I am unable to swallow but sometimes I must simply finish with my hand or spit it into a handkerchief. I feel guilty when I do but it beats gagging and becoming ill. I choose the lesser of two evils and make my apologies. My lover knows it isn't anything against him personally and that I'm very sorry not to swallow.

I guess maybe my wife is not trained in the art of oral sex, but I have never come close to a climax from oral sex. She also is not really keen on my giving her oral sex. Now as far as straight sex that is never a problem even at our ages, so don't let anybody tell you that sex is not fun or possible in your sixties. I sitll have the desire of an 18 year old but can I preform at the level of an 18 year old? Certainly not, maybe someone that takes viagra and has a 4 hour erection. I don't see why you would need to call a doctor with this problem, just make use of it. I, fortunately have never had the need for any meds for stimulation.

Is the grass really blue in Kentucky?

Bill

Robert Klein said in his HBO special, "If I have a four hour erection, I'm not going to call a doctor. I'd call a witness, a notary, perhaps. I'd call more women..."

I'm sorry to hear it you have never climaxed from oral sex, Bill. Oral sex is such a wonderful pleasure to give and receive, at any age. No mature woman wants a man who can perform at the level of an 18 year old. A woman wants a man who'll spend time performing foreplay, make love to her right the first time, hold her in the afterglow and cuddle and talk with her for hours. Then if the time is right, make love to her again. I know I don't want a rabbit of a lover who jackhammers my head into a headboard all night and doesn't know the first thing about making a woman cum. Leave that kind of sex to the idiots who deserve it. I'll take an older man who knows what he's doing every time. And, yes, I mean, older. Fifty and older is my preference. I like a man who has experienced life and has stories to tell and who has something to talk about after the sheets have cooled.

If you don't mind a personal question, Bill, have you cum from oral sex before (or after) meeting your wife? Or is it just an activity that you don't get as much stimulation as you do from straight sex? Does she enjoy performing oral sex? That's kind of the key. You have to love what you're doing.

On some of the rolling hills, in the right light, the grass can be so green that it looks blue. You should come see it sometime.

Dianne

[color=#000000]I don't like to swallow. I'll let the guy cum on my boobs or something instead but I get soooo nervous when they cum in my mouth because I'm scared I'm gonna choke on it I don't like the idea that the cum is like floating in my stomach. I know it shows love & stuff so maybe one day I will for the right guy but its just not something I'm entirely comfortable with. [/color]That's my some what embarrassing but 100% honest truth on the matter.

Wildbill said:

. . . . maybe someone that takes viagra and has a 4 hour erection. I don't see why you would need to call a doctor with this problem, just make use of it. . . . .

THE REASON you need to call the doctor if you have an erection lasting more than four hours is that the PRIAPISM will damage the erectile tissues of the penis.

PRIAPISM IS DANGEROUS because the blood trapped in the penis is denied oxygen (because it is trapped in the penis giving you the erection) and it becomes toxic to the tissues because as the oxygen becomes depleted it is replaced by carbon dioxide so the penis has no oxygen left for the tissues. When the erection lasts more than four hours, the penis tissue is damaged due to the lack of oxygen and parts of the tissues can die, just like part of the heart dies when you have a heart attack (myocardial infarction). You can end up with erectile dysfucntion and the penis can become misshapen or disfigured as a result.

NOW YOU KNOW WHY you have to see the doc if you have a persistent boner that won't go away.

This is NOT something to strut around and be proud of. The prolonged erection is NOT due to sexual stimulation. It is a sexual dysfunction and it needs to be treated promptly.

I enjoy swallowing if the guy is married and clean

Panties4ut2ply said

i enjoy swallowing if the guy is married and clean

Why does that matter????

Zippy, from what I've heard about many wives husbands, the men have nothing to worry about since most of them have their erection for closer to four seconds than four minutes!! 😁 😁 😁 😁

Damn................4 seconds.........thats not long enough for a handjob much less anything else.

I think as men get older their sperm tastes better!! they mature well

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Hey Course! Speak for yourself. When I was 14 (yes, I do remember) 4 seconds was an eternity.

Now that I'm an official curmudgeon I agree with Willie Nelson, "The rest of my body has outlived my dick."

I also say, "If I get an erection who cares if its 4 minutes or 4 hours, the hell with calling the doctor, I'm calling a press conference!" 😁

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Damn................4 seconds.........thats not long enough for a handjob much less anything else.

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I exaggerated slightly, but according to my girlfriends, there are tons of men with premature ejaculation, and I'm NOT talking about lasting long enough for their wives to cum during intercourse. I'm talking about them not lasting long enough to even give them a good pounding they'll remember for the next few hours.

Swallow, always. I think it is a little rude not to do so...it is a part of them after all. I have had a few times where he has had too much alcohol and was almost too salty to swallow but if I do it right..and fast..I won't taste.

It's great when the female partner swallows, But I do not thank that it is rude not to do so. Some females may not like the taste. I just feel lucky when it happens.

I have come to appreciate the taste of my man as I mature, I simply love him filling my mouth as I swallow deep when I am taking him orally. I am conscious about him releasing inside me and then going down on me, but I think I would absolutely love it if he did...you girls are lucky who have had this experience!

I agree that it is a turn-on to see my partner swallow my cum after I orgasm. But I won't hold it against them if they spit it out or remove their mouth at the last second and jerk me off instead.