Oral Sex & Swallowing

It is a big turnoff for me if they don't swallow. However, I understand that some people just don't like to do that.

As Mashie said, what would hurt me most (as a guy) was the girl goes down on me, has me cum inside her mouth and then spits it out. That is a very strong form of rejection.

I understand swallowing is not for everybody but then you could work out with your partner and cum not in the mouth but on the face/ belly maybe

My GF always swallows it for me, it makes me feel that I should be doing more for her. Once I had my partner let me cum into my mouth(yes, i am bi), I loved the rush of semen, but wasn't too brave to swallow it, so I spit on his belly and then rubbed my body aginst his...

I generally swallow but if his semen tastes icky or if I'm feeling nauseated, I will use my mouth and hand on him at the very end and have him ejaculate somewhere other than down my throat or I'll accept his semen but spit it into a tissue.

I'm sorry if someone gets hurt feelings about it but it's a man's responsibility to ensure his semen is palatable by drinking plenty of water and eating a diet of fruits and veggies, which makes his semen taste sweet and mild. Coffee, beer, whiskey, cigarettes, too much meat and dairy can make semen taste sour, smoky and bitter. As a connoisseur of jizz, I prefer it to taste sweet and mild. LOL

My gf likes to give blowjobs but she is really scared to swallaw the sperm, she has never tried and she is convinced, without any rational proof that the taste should be horrible, I don't know what to do to convince her to try at least once, after she can decide basing on real facts. Any suggestion?

I swallow, I've never had any issues with it... At first I guess I had to get used to the taste but I figure if its in my mouth anyways, why not just go ahead and swallow...

Well, and just think of all the extra protein you are getting from that source. Sounds like a win win situation to me, lol.I know my statement is quite harsh, but somewhat funny at the same time, lol. Not to mention, I am sure both parties are more than happy with the garrvesting methods, no? Lol.

Mashie

@mashie Americans already eat too much protein. And besides, semen also contains cholesterol so it's not all win-win, no matter how much men try to shove that down our throats. 😃

@marcot If, and only IF, your girlfriend wants to try to swallow, suggest that she do so with her mouth closed so the semen is not exposed to air and that she gulps it straight down her throat without tasting it with each spurt. Without having it sit on her tongue, she can't get a feel of the texture or the taste of it and it may be easier to swallow.

I've been swallowing ever since I first began engaging in oral sex decades ago and I still don't relish the texture or taste. For people who haven't tasted it, I can only describe it as tasting like salted bleach and having an slimy egg-white texture.

It's not the most delicious stuff on the planet but I do gain a certain amount of enjoyment from causing my lover to orgasm by using my mouth. Sometimes it's a sub thing and I know I'm pleasing him and sometimes it's more of a Dom thing and I feel all-powerful in controlling when, how and where he cums and turning his knees to jelly.

Again, I can't reiterate it enough, men, drink lots of water and eat fruit, especially pineapple to make your semen sweeter and your lover more likely to swallow it.

Kiwi, watermelon, celery and other fruits and veggies with a high water content works to sweeten semen.

Fruits to sweeten the taste, etc of semen: mangoes, cantaloupe, apples, pears, bananas? I love all of those and wonder if they shall sweeten the semen as well. As my lover always makes me (more than) weak in the knees during oral, I must heighten her pleasure as well...

Don't listen to them about eating your vegetables! I have high cholesterol so mine tastes rich and creamy, and I'm a diabetic so it tastes sweet!

(Kidding!)

I've actually tasted mine- the term "snowball" isn't very apt, since it's surprisingly warm. I didn't think it was THAT bad. I've read elsewhere that pineapple is the best for making it taste better, but that celery increases the volume. So if your girlfriend is reluctant to swallow, just eating lots of celery might not help much.

😉

You forgot those wonderful strawberries...

I am blessed. My wife absolutely loves the taste of cum and always swallows every drop.

I always swallow. I think it would be insulting to your partner to have him cum in your mouth and then run to the bathroom to spit it out. Besides, it's nice to swap spits afterward...

@Mommabagz if 0I know I can't swallow that day due to nausea, sinus trouble or whatever, I warn my lover beforehand and will keep a few tissues nearby and either discreetly spit his semen into the tissues or finish him off with my hand and let the semen splash his tummy if he's lying down or my chest if he's standing. It has never been a big deal. They know I usually swallow so when I can't, they don't mind.

I asked my boyfriend about what you said and he said, "You should count yourself lucky to get a blowjob and just shut your yapper."

Dianne

Do you remember the first cock you sucked and did you swallow

Yes, my high school boyfriend Troy Allen. He wanted me to stop sucking because he was so sensitive and inexperienced and he finished himself off with his hand and came into his sweat pants. What he did after that, I have no idea. Probably went into the bathroom to clean up.

I got even a lot of recepts for cooking with semen.It is healthy and tastfull. As a student I have made desserts for my girlfriend and myself. Very exciting.

There's a book of semen recipes

http://www.amazon.com/Natural-Harvest-collection-semen-based-recipes

My BF and I have been together for 4 years but last night was the first time he came in my mouth...tasted sweet and it totally turned me on. Can't wait to do it again!

If I was sucking someone's cock I would definitely want them to cum in my mouth and yes I would swallow it. I would want the full experience.

Over time, I have learned, for lack of a better word, to love swallowing from either a man, or a woman. I would say, it increases my pleasure tremendously. Now, don't ask me why, i'm not a shrink. But I do have a few ideas about it. Also, it seems to increase the enjoyment a great deal for whomever, I'm sucking. And, again, although I have a few ideas about why this is, I really can't say that I know for sure. As I've done this over time, my pleasure in doing it, has increased a great deal to the point of where I absolutelyI love It, and would miss it if I didn't or couldn't.

I always swallow

The only way for a woman to completely satisfy her man is swallow all of him all of the time. Good for you Pammy32.

I love oral sex and love it even more when she swallows. That being said, if she did not want to swallow it, it would still be great!

I love having someone suck my penis or beat me off, but I do not like to shoot off in someone's mouth unless he swallows the semen. If the cocksucker does not want to swallow, I have him take his mouth off my penis when I am reaching orgasm and finish by beating me off. There is something about having a cocksucker protect his throat from having the semen go down that ruins the ejaculation for me. When his throat is open and receptive to the semen, the sensation is incredible. I think this is because he relaxes the back of his throat to continue taking the head of the penis as far down in the back of his throat as possible. When he is protecting against swallowing, he closes his throat and the head just stays in his mouth rather than down his throat. This effort to protect himself from swallowing becomes even more pronounced when the cocksucker is told the semen is coming soon and the head of the penis is confined to the very front part of the mouth so that very little suction and stimulation to the glans occurs. When he is preparing to swallow, that throat becomes even more receptive than it had been earlier in the blowjob. Those throat muscles are in a swallowing mode allowing the head farther down the throat and the muscles stimulate the head even more. As the semen is starting to shoot, the swallower keeps the penis down his throat and continues to work the head of the penis, encouraging every possible drop to come out of the penis. Think about it, you usually have to tell the swallowing cocksucker that you're done so that he will let your penis out of his mouth. The non swallowing cocksucker cannot wait to get the penis out of his mouth so he can spit out the semen before he risks swallowing any of it. Often, at least for me, my last spurt or two of semen occurred outside his mouth which is very unsatisfying. I also find the feeling of dominance that comes with having the cocksucker swallow the semen to be a big turn on. I like to have a beverage handy so that I can have the cocksucker take a big sip after I get done ejaculating just to ensure that all the semen goes down. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing bad about getting oral stimulation from a guy who prefers not to swallow, but I will let him know when I am getting ready to go over the edge so that he can finish me up by hand.

"The only way for a woman to completely satisfy her man is swallow all of him all of the time. Good for you Pammy32."

I wish I could claim credit, but to be honest I do it because I cannot stand the taste,

Pammy32 - that makes you a special lady. Even if you don't like the taste, you still swallow makes you one hot woman. Thanks again.

It was great as a young Baby Boomer, as it seems that every woman swallowed in the 1970s. One lover of mine, the only woman i knew who mutually orgasmed during "69", would take me deep into her throat and increase her sucking intensity when I began to cum. This action caused me to lick and suck frantically until we both had wonderful orgasms. We also snowballed on occasion, which was quite stimulating. (Ah, for the days of immediately going at it again.)

Later I had a vegan lover who rinsed her mouth after I ejaculated. Never thought about it that way, but saw her point.

The most skilled oral lover I had usually knelt over my crotch and used her hands and mouth to bring me to climax deep in her mouth. She was most dainty about it, teasing me how she never made a mess, unlike my wet oral ministrations.

This century, all but one of my partners didn't swallow. Probably because of STD transmission. Not that there is anything to speak of to swallow now.

What is the difference between Like Love and Lust?

Spit

Swallow

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