A kinky continent?

Is it me but does Europe and Europeans have a reputation for being kinky devils? Just seems that way sometimes when I read posts. x

The percentage is the same as here, but we are more repressed, so it gets discussed less. Also, you won't find a NON-kinky European writing in here, so when a European does write in, you think they are all kinky, when the truth is, they aren't.

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Europeans are no more kinkier than we are.

I spent 7 years over in Germany - they just face life like it is. Sex is part of life - why hide it?

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According to a friend of mine who lives in the Republic of Ireland, there are very few enema afficianados there. Don't know about the continent.

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I went to Greece and they have topless beaches. They don't seem to be so repressed about nudity. I rode the mass transit in Greece and old men would grab my butt.

I think here in the UK, people are less likely to admit to their kinky side or fetish desires - especially the more unusual fetishes. I have come across quite a lot of people who say they are into bondage and kinky sex but when I have discussed some of my more unusual fetishes with them, they are shocked and outraged (apparently). It has taken me a long time to find more understanding fetish lovers!

What do you assume by kinky metters?

If a Euro lady came up to me and said she loves enemas ect... I would be sort of astounded honestly

Kinky persons is found everywhere, it's just a matter of finding the right forums/persons.

I think we Europeans do have the reputation to be more kinky then others, but I think that the Asians are more into kinky stuff then we are and that other countries just aren't admitting it as much 😃

I wonder if it's mainly the difference in attitude towards nudity? I once took an American exchange student to view paintings by Rubens, as boring an artist as you can come up with, but she was shocked and outraged almost beyond words. All those naked bodies in a painting! And they hang these things in museums and churches no less? She was flabbergasted and no doubt convinced that Belgians and Europeans by extension were a bunch of whacko kinks.

So I'd venture that with an attitude like that, as an American you are perhaps more likely to think Europeans are more kinky. While they are probably not.

But, having lived both in the US and in Belgium, I would say that group pressure to conform is stronger in the US than in Europe. And that probably spills over into sex things as well.

I found my european gfs, more willing to try new and kinky things, than other groups. Especially, receiving enemas, taking a dump while blowing me, anal, being rimmed. Even dicussing me watching them with another man (cuckolding).

This I see this in white woman back in the US and now in SA.

Cum to think of it, no asian babe ever let me do her in the ass.

And they never swallow while blowing.

Europe has a much older culture and for many years the time to explore sex and all of it's intraceies, being it ws all they could afford to do in many cases and it was no holds barred

Yes, I think europeans are in general more inclined to have kinky sex fantasies and to realize them. But the most kinky are definitely the Japanese. You will find extremely kinky manga comics in every convenience store and you people, boys and girls, read these. They therefore know about kinky sex habits early and and are therefore later very open to practicing them. In fact, Japanese women normally don't even think of kinky sex as kinky, it's just natural for them that men should be allowed to play with their bodies in fantastic ways and they should enjoy it (and most often they do). Japanese women I have talked to told me they used to have very kinky masturbation fantasies as young girls and always wanted to be played with in such ways. But it's interesting, because sex is also a kind of taboo, nobody talks about it in daily life, although everybody is constantly exposed to sexy images, it's just a natural part of life but not to be discussed other than with "special friends". Once a women feels that you are a "special friend" she is open to discussing anything related to her sexuality, and if the relationship advances to sex she will most likely be extremely willing to try anything.

Agreed indeed the europeans are very kinky . we had a program here a few years ago called euro trash and it was brilliant the things they get up to in germany ,,france ,,italy was great .

i used to watch it all the time .

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No offence, but is so easy to portray things in an extreme light and distort things beyond their actual effect in real life. Especially in programs on TV, which as everyone should know by now, is hardly an objective medium at all, but rather thrives in showing things in very slanted terms to say the least. It is so easy to take single instances of just about anything and generalize from there. And this is even more so if a TV program is supposed to be entertaining, rather than factual. Which I would sincerely hope is the case in this instance.

And while of course the title of the show is not you´re doing, it does sound objectionable and depreaciating ... ´Euro Trash´ indeed. What do you think Americans here on the site would think of a hypothetical program called ´White Trash´ for instance?

It was one nice program

I guess the barriers for what is considered taboo and kinky is stretched all the time...

The Norwegians have a reputation for being cool and distant, but they also have a reputation for being very much into kinky sex and "dirty games"...

A well traveled friend of mine offered this explanation to me years ago. He said that many of the countries around the world have had thousands of years to overcome religious, sexual and cultural insecurities. The United States, as powerful and influential as it has become is still only a little over two hundred years old. It is still wrestling with the same insecurities that other cultures have dealt with during the early stages of their development.

A German friend of mine recalled visiting a friend's house during his youth and seeing his friend's older sister walking around naked. She wasn't trying to tease him as it was just part of her normal routine. He was amazed at the difference in attitudes toward non sexual nudity upon coming to America. He suggested that Americans had a lot of growing up to do if they were going to be so uptight about the female form.

While I have yet to visit Japan, I have studied Japanese culture extensively. They view sexuality as something that is a part of the human experience. It is sometimes viewed as a burden that must be dealt with. Sexual desires exist and we must deal with them to maintain balance in our lives. For example, how can a man be a good businessman in the workplace and a good father and provider at home if his sexual desires are not attended to? His life becomes out of balance and his sexual desires begin to hinder his performance at work and his ability to be the head of household at home. However, there is an appropriate time and place to address sexual matters.

I hope that this can further our discussion on this most interesting topic.

Sensei1980

Muslim countries have also had hundreds of years to develop and what we now see there is more of a repressive attitude. And yet they should have had time enough.

I think that religious attitudes have more to do with this than will generally be admitted. And these religious attitudes also change and evolve, often reverting back to previously held rigorous attitudes. When i was young, Europeans considered Americans to be hedonistic, materialistic and far too free in mores and values for their own good. Now it is apparently just the opposite. And also when i was young, the East was thought to be a garden of sensual pleasures, much of that taken of course from romantic Orientalistic ideas originating in painting types and styles dating back from the 19th century or from reading of 19th century texts such as Richard Burton's 'Arabian Nights' ...

None of this need be a correct interpretation of reality, but such ideas can often live on in the collective consciousness and assume an aura of perceived truth.

Religion is the ultimate diversion from reality. This is especially true when it comes to sexuality. Having sex is as natural as eating and drinking. Yet, many religions have demonized it throughout history. Let's assume that there is a god responsible for our creation. Why would he create us with a sex drive and then punish us for indulging it? If god was against human sexuality, surely he could have invented other means to procreate. However, since sex remains our only means for procreating, god obviously found it worthy. Without procreation, the human race would become extinct. Without the desire for sex and the pleasures that accompany it, who amongst us would procreate? We eat because we are hungry. We drink because we are thirsty. We have sex because we are horny. All three are natural responses to internal cues that our bodies are in need. If we choose to believe in a loving god who created us in his image, then we need not be ashamed of who we are.

Japan is a fairly kinky place. Anyone ever pick up comic books there. They are very much in to enemas, bondage etc. Funny thing though in their porn they used not be able to show any pubes. Maybe that is why everyone is shaving now. It was a censor thing. They have some of the wildest videos.

I once vacationed with a man from Milan. He was deliciously kinky, but he warned me to be very careful of the Dutch because "they are extreme pervert" ROFLMAO This coming from the man who pumped at least a half gallon of warm milk up my bum plus extra air, then got off on me farting all night 😄~

The example given by eroticred is typical of the free-flowing erotica that you see especially in southern Europe with Greek-Roman heritage, where people play to the pleasure of their souls without giving every single detail of what they do a name. Northern Europeans like to call everything a name. In a sense, what a southern European would consider "play" a Northern European would consider "kink". In the US, we have sex innuendos everywhere, including common ads, but sex outside the absolutely ordinary (or committed relationships) has to be classified as something else, usually controversial or troublesome. It was probably different in the 60s and 70s, but this is the way it is now.

Three years ago I have written in this forum for the first time; up to this day there exist 760 contributions. I think that not one of these postings may be designated as "kinky"; perhaps I am too much unemotional for this sector. But I know upon other men and women in Europe being really kinky, this especially at the time of the carnival - the time of an established unscrupulousness in the Roman Catholic countries: The carnival is the established and socially accepted period for an extensive adultery in the form of an unrestrained widespread alternating copulation.

Not kinkier, they just have a more open approach to sex, and they dont seem to have the hangups that a lot of other countries seem to have. based on living in France for 8 years.

So that's why I'm kinky. ?

I'm Dutch originally, and living in the USA since late 80's, and yes Europe is much more relaxed in the xxx laws.

I grew up living in a country where adult stores display there goods in the windows, prostitute's / red light district common and access able.

gosh I miss it?

Having lived all around the world, I think Europeans (especially in mainland continent) are not any more kinkier, just more open minded about life. You only have to go in a municipal FKK sauna to see that, well you get to see everything.

Depends I would say, what for us is normal is may for someone else from another continent extreme. I don't know!

America is unfortunately very puritanical, inhibited and sheeplized. Europe is far more open, as people in Europe are taught how to think, rather than what to think.