Question: How to go about telling him...

Does he like any kind of anal play? Try to interest him in that. During play try a finger or toy in that area. If that seems enjoyable continue for a while, maybe even using a small nozzle without necessarily showing it to hm first, or a rectal tube or whatever you use on yourself. If thatgoes well, let him know what it is. Maybe even shwer togeher and play in the anal area.

If he goes along, ask him to help you with a "special" shower and bring the equipment into the shower with you. I'd suggest a "dry" run at first to let him see and experiment with the equipment before doing anything for real. Then have him help you a couple of times. Seeing you enjoy it will tell you how he might react when you suggest he try it. Then start small, maybe a bulb with plain water and work up.

I don't think it will go away. You may go through periods when outside forces cause you to not be able to do them. I think once you are hooked you are always hooked. Because it is such a pleasureful experience. I have been doing them off and on since I was 3-5 years old and am now 65.

Tell Him, Tell Him, Tell Him! He will probably love you for it (most men would) Especially if you already share some unusual fetishes this one isn't going to seem all that strange.

Tell him you are constipated and ask for an enema for relief. Let him see how turned on you are... he will get it!!

I would just like to say thanks to everyone that has posted a reply.. it has really helped me.. to find the right way to tell him about it.. and sad to say he doesn't have an intrest in giving them to me... but he does understand my need to want to have it done so he has agreed to allow me to seek someone that can fill that desire for me...

Having and open relationship and being very understanding of eachother is a wonderful thing

Be open and honest and all will workout. Work in during a good hot night of sex. Keeping it from him only makes it harder to tell him that you like enemas. I know due to keeping it from my wife for so long. It took me over 17 years to spill the beans.

One night I decided this was the night. I said to hubby I don't feel well I need for you to give me an enema. At first he acted as if this was going to be a chore. But after I went to bedroom took off my clothes and prepared the enema by the time I called him to the bedroom and he say me lying naked on the bed with my rear high up in the air he was already getting aroused. I told him to get the stuff from the bathroom and bring it back here. Next I told him to lube up my butt hole and with that he was now sexually excited as he said he was.

I mentioned it in passing once, she didn't reply. A few months later I let her "catch" me. That broke the ice.

I woul dhave to say getting caught.. then getting punished for getting caught.. is so much fun!..

Dear Flamebrat,

Why not use the old trick of leaving an enema bag on the showerhead with the curtan slightly closed so the enema bag is somewhat easy to see. II bet he has some interesting conversation after returning from your bathroom

John

Try bringing it up jokingly, or leaving things around that get him thinking....he may just ask you to give him one first

Well, as an older guy, 56, and into enemas most of my life since early teens, I know how you feel about admiting your feelings. I am divorced, but in a 10 year relationship with a g/f. I told her early on, in the first 6 months I think that I was an enema fetishist. She seemed to be ok with it, and not long after she gave me an enema. This today if not a thing that happens on a regular basis, as I have to ask for it. But it is out in the open and I have my enema bag in my bathroom, and other things, and she knows it.

Maybe you need to introduce him to this site he will figure out how lucky he is and how many males looking for a girl like you 😉 😉

Hi flamebrat, in response to your issue of embarrassment. I am not sure that I would want that feeling to go away. I sort of enjoy the feeling of embarrassment (humiliation). It is pretty stimulating to me. I always thought it would be neat to have a relationship with someone that insists on a monthly or bimonthly enema. Perhaps the enema equipment would start showing up a few days in advance. Think of the anticipation of what is to come. I don't know about you, but that would be really exciting for me.

The easiest way is to just come out and tell him.he might even have the same fetish as you do and you just might not know it.

When my ex and I were first together I was hesitant to "come clean" about my enema fetish, I still had not come completely to terms with my fetish myself back then. after several months of hinting, like showing her letters about enemas without success, I finally came out and told her that enemas turned me on. we had some wonderful experiences together with enemas and spanking too, which was what she loved best. so just go for it. most partners want to please their spouse and would do a lot to give them pleasure. think about how far you would go to please your SO? everyone has their limits but at least the enema fetish is good for you!

Interesting. Have you ever told another partner about these erotic feelings? If they can't handle it, maybe you should reconsider the relationship. Don't ask me why, but these are powerful feelings and they don't seem to go away. And, I wouldn't want them to!

This is a very exciting thread. I'm going to suck it up tonight and ask my wife for one of her special treatments. Sort of works that way...have to ask first and then she's more than happy to help out.