Pleasant or strict?

I prefer to give exams that are somewhat realistic, but with some variations. As an example I do not like my patents to put on a gown, but prefer the patient in their regular clothing as entering the office. This allows me to inform the patient about what I will need to do with their clothing to conduct different parts of the exam, and I do prefer in helping the patient undo their clothing. My exams also tend to proceed as i get feedback about the physical reactions the patients are feeling. I try not to be too aggressive if I feel the patient is not comfortable with a particular procedure. A good exam is one that allows for both patient and doctor fulfillment.

I posted about the type of examiner I want to examine me earlier in this thread but I did not include my approach as the examiner. I should mention that I never switch roles with the same person. I always remain the examiner or the examinee with the same person. As the examiner, I only give exams to males but will, and do,, receive exams from women.

I always have a thorough discussion about the type of exam I give in advance and make sure the examinee is in full agreement. I perform only completely realistic exams using all the standard exam equipment. I dress in business attire with a necktie and a white coat. I think I have a strictly business and matter-of-fact approach to the exam. I am pleasant but not personal. I let the patient know that it will be a full body exam with exposure of all body parts. I instruct the patient that he must wear underpants, which are preferably white briefs.

I also tell him that I do not want him to remove any articles of clothing until he is told to do so. I prefer to include a digital rectal exam but will do the exam with only exposure and inspection of the anus if the man does not want finger insertion. I never want to cause pain but I do want the examinee to feel that he has been aggressively examined, especially when it comes to the testicles and rectum. I give a lot of specific instructions and want them followed and do not want the patient to do anything outside of what I tell him to do. My intention is to provide a very impersonal and clinical experience with no sex involved and that I must not be groped nor will I show any of my private parts to the examinee.

Definitely both, as i greatly enjoy both aspects.

A very very strict doctor, almost sadist. but my doctor do not enjoy my pain. she enjoys my fear and anxiety and her unlimited power over me

I personal prefer a strick exam if I am the patient.

As mentioned before... I like both scenarios. Before starting a role-play I like to discuss things with the doctor and see what he/she likes. I sometimes feel the need to have a strict and caring doctor at once. To be strict for my own good... ESPECIALLY because it's for my own good.

I like a stern doctor, but I don't like a sadistic one that inflict pain without any motivation. A good spanking to bring me back in line is more than accepted, a sadistic one that beat me just because he/she likes to... is not.

On the other hand if the doctor likes a smooth examination, I can be quite the model-patient and follow everything without complaining once... thus having a perfect bedside manner is welcomed...

*lol* sorry I can't decide which one I like the most. Both scenarios are good for me...

As some of you who follow my posts may know, that in play exams, I dont even like exchange of photos.

Since there is no face to face meeting, presence of equipment at doctor's side is irrelavant for me, however the doctor should be polite and friendly. If the doctor explains the steps of what is about to follow, before actually doing something, it is like an added advantage.

It is a fantasy that I want to enjoy, I dont want to get scared😃

Guess my preferences fall between the two extremes described. A gentle, caring bedside manner is nice, but there should be no doubt about who is in charge, and the patient's consent is not required. So gentle could easily turn into stern if the patient is not cooperative.

As to the other extreme, I find that, while the old fashioned, no-nonsense approach generally is a big turn-on, I wouldn't want it to go too far beyond the realistic bounds of professional behavior and into the realm of sadism.

Pleasant but strict and controlling.

For me sometimes strict but caring and other times strict and very controlling which I love actually as the patient.

I prefer a firm but kind doctor that tells me what he is going to do. Even if I don't want it done he does it any how for my own good. No pain unless it is unintentional.

What you last posted here @wolfflow describes my preference 100% perfectly, I don't think I could have said it better myself.

Definitely nurturing and caring. Definitely stern. I'd say this preference of mine would pretty much apply to real life medical visits too.

When i am doing a play exam I like to take a calm reassuring approach rather than a typical sub / dom scenario although even in the real world there is an element of sub / dom between the doctor and the patient.

I like to explain to the patient what I am going to do, the reason for doing it and the sensations he will feel. I feel that this adds to the patients anticipation of what is to follow.

As a patient, I like a doc who is strict and dominating, but not mean to me for the sake of being mean or rude. I want to feel like I have no control in the exam, but I don't want to feel insecure I suppose.

Definitely a good mix, preferably more on the stern side.

Most importantly, he cannot act embarrassed by seeing me. I want him to completely control what is hapoening, and make me feel like I am simply an object he is examining (to a degree).

But, there are other things I want, also.

Pleasant with a touch of embarrassing.

I like a doctor that is strict and also caring at the same time.

I want it to be clinical to an extent, the more accurate the set up, (setting, instruments, attire for both dr and patient) the more real it feels. The "dr" definitely needs to be strict, and dominant, purposely causing some embarrassment and anxiousness, but I also want a bit of a pervy side to him. Procedures that are a bit unconventional and you know would never take place at a real drs office.

Not only is getting examined so intimately a real turn on but hearing a little heavy breathing or a dr that just has to have a little lick or suck and knowing he is enjoying the exam just as much as you are heightens the experience tenfold!

I think either type of exam would be so arousing. I personally would love a doctor who examines me with care and compassion, carefully explaining what he's doing and being all reassuring. "It's OK sweetheart, I'll take good care of you"...his hands gently exploring by body.

But equally, I would love a doctor who brutally forces me into the exam room, ties me down, gets rough and hurts me, and treats me as his medfet fuckdoll.

And if I could find a doctor who is equally proficient in both of those roles.....heaven ?

When engaging in online RP, I prefer a stern bedside manner with a no nonsense attitude from my doctor; not sadistic or cruel, just stern. He has the attitude that he is delivering a routine standard of care which in play certainly can include nipple and clit stimulation to measure arousal. It can include other ‘tests and procedures’ that would be considered unethical in a real doctors office. I like to play the confused, frightened humiliated and inexperienced sub who questions and is hesitant to cooperate with the doctor because she’s shy and afraid.

I definitely prefer play exams to be realistic and the doctor to behave also as real doctor would. So for me a BDSM scenario with a sadistic doctor engaging in torture is actually a turnoff, as it breaks the illusion of a realistic clinical setting.

In a play exam I like the doctor to be professional but also not overly gentle. Also real doctors can be sometimes a bit unpleasant, especially if they don't have any patience towards the patient . The primary concern of the doctor needs to be the patient's health, not necessarily his comfort. In that sense I like the doctor to be strict, but without being sadistic.

I prefer as authentic as possible, but would prefer the doctor not to ask permission to do something, but be in control and tell me, of course if the procedure would require restraints then so be it

Strict, slightly sadistic, and he might smile or chuckle at my embarrassment or when I complain of discomfort. He says to just relax.

I prefer to be clinical to a great extent, with a realistic set up of instruments and attire. I prefer to be in control and strict, when necessary. I would expect to cause some embarrassment and anxiety, and perhaps to cause some necessary discomfort / pain as might be experienced during a real exam or procedure. I enjoy seeing and hearing the reactions of the patient as the exam or treatment proceeds.

If she is the doctor I would like both. If I am the doctor I think I'd prefer being rather friendly, cause I want to spend plenty of time just enjoying to listen to her heartbeat. But when it comes to sex, I'm gonna be a strict doctor of course.

I prefer a gentler approach, whether I’m doctor or patient.

Strict but caring? Someone who knows what he wants but in a very gentle way. He must be patient though, but willing to tie me down when I disobey too much...if that makes any sense? Sorry if it don't.

I like to play it strict and no nonsense but not mean about it. I like to tell a girl she will be getting a procedure or getting an enema and watching her fidget and complain a bit is half the fun. I like to give her her water and never force more than she can take but will encourage her to take just a little more like a good girl. It is a very hot scenario for me.

All depends on my mood. I usually like to play the mostly submissive patient who enjoys having her doctor tell her those kind and reassuring words during the exam. Sure I may get a little sassy, and squirm while you’re doing some parts of an inappropriate exam, but that’s half the fun.

Really not into a mean, rude, or uncaring doctor. If that’s a turn on for you, awesome. Just not my cup of tea.

Give me a kind, caring, but no nonsense doctor who gives me orgasms and fucks me afterwards any day ?

I typically prefer to play a doctor who is caring and talks with the patient to gain consent and make them feel at ease, but I also tend to not take much back talk or indecision. I am the doctor and I will help the patient feel comfortable, but at the same time I have a task to accomplish.

When I am playing a patient, I tend to be compliant and mild mannered. That is unless I feel like the doctor is taking advantage of me and is not performing up to par in which case, I tend to become a little more sarcastic and question the doctor's moves.

Of course, this all can be adjusted after discussion with my play partner in order to fulfill specific roles or desires.