This is the only context I'll receive enemas in... my current Mistress/girlfriend opened me up to "the world of enemas." I had heard of them before just never used one, now I get them regular since she understandably won't fuck me without one. However, it's not looked at as a chore by either of us... we both love the experience. We've a loving Mistress/Pet dynamic and a deep emotional connection and bond and when she gives me an enema it feels like we're strengthening that bond. It makes me feel so close to her... she never uses them for punishments.
We'll start off snuggling, her every touch sending shivers up my spine, and she'll toy with and tease me, getting me ready and relaxed for what's to come. It's not rushed, she takes her time making sure I'm comfortable. It's such an intimate experience, there's nothing quite like it. She'll slide the nozzle in and out gently, making me squirm and moan on my side with a knee lifted.
When she lets the water flow gently I'll moan and coo as the warmth rushes in and I feel SO close to her while she massages my belly as it distends and it's divine. Something about feeling like I'm submitting all possible control to her... even my most basic bodily functions. I feel so obedient to her and after I'm full she continues coddling me and encouraging me to hold it. The last thing I want to do is disappoint her, so even though I crave the release I always try my hardest to retain as long as I can for her. Before long, she allows me to expel the lightly soapy solution and is setting up the rinse for me.
The whole experience is just magical... knowing the entire time that soon her mood just might take a complete 180 and she might screw my brains out and stretch me this way and that... or she might remain intimate and gentle and make love to me... either way the whole process makes me feel so close to her and love her even more deeply than I usually do. I highly recommend enemas before intercourse, not just as a way to get clean (which is great in and of itself, because who wants a mess in the bedroom?) but as a tool for increased submission and intimacy.