Enema before bend over boyfriend

If I think my wife is going to entertain me in the evening with her good old strapon I'll usually have a good 2 quart enema twice earlier in the day to make sure I'm totally cleaned out. She will usually let me know by saying "get ready big boy, your ass is going to get fucked fast and hard tonight". As soon as I hear that the precum starts to flow. I take my enemas in anticipation of the reaming she will give me.

I lost my boyfriend when I suggested we give it a try. Some guys just have it in their head that its a no way deal. Same as performing oral sex. I have known guys who wanted me to give them a BJ but they were not going to reciprocate.

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I lost my boyfriend when I suggested we give it a try. Some guys just have it in their head that its a no way deal. Same as performing oral sex. I have known guys who wanted me to give them a BJ but they were not going to reciprocate.

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You should do what I did when I was your age, well at least a few of the things I did when I was your age.

The main point of interest here is to make sure they would be good at oralling me BEFORE they got to have sex with me. No oral orgasm, no intercourse. Blow jobs were always given in reciprocation and for a job well done.

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You should do what I did when I was your age, well at least a few of the things I did when I was your age.

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I wonder what the things are she should not do. 😜

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I wonder what the things are she should not do. 😜

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It's not so much what she shouldn't do as much as what they boys might not want to have done to them! 😁 😁 😁 😁

If you recall from prior posts, my BDSM life started as a youngster when I was tying up my friends as a virginal junior high school girl who evolved into a very stern and severe dominatrix in high school and college before I started switching with my husband. I slept with quite a few guys, but it was always under my terms.

Oh yeah....love to give a guy a good enema and then insert a dildo into him.....

Oh yes when the wife is in the strapon mood she calls my enema a douche.she will tells me that i need to go and get my douche bag ready then i know what is next love it.

when both share the fun and closeness of enemas

Wow, never got lucky enough to be with a woman who understood and wanted to do me with a strapon but do love to play by myself. Just wish some of the women here, who enjoy enal play were near me.

Reciprocity is the best way. 😃

We both will do that .. because we are bdsmc player..

Roxx, if he likes your asshole he would probably love you to do him with a strap-on. Why not ask?

Senior, I have mentioned feeling like doing that and he chuckles a bit. The ass toys don't come out too often but then I am so anxious I need to remember to regroup and announce that it's his turn! Thanks for the encouragement. His really likes licking and fingering me and the times that I tell him don't feel 'ready' or clean, he says, "but you like it so much"! It makes him rock hard and but he still likes to prolong his performance on me for quite a while.

After reading these posts I am shaking all over. This has been my fantasy for so long but unfortunately it has never come true. I wish I could find a nurse who would like to be my first and bend me over her couch

To Roxxy , I propose you to visit a eshop with your lover , and letiing him see your interest for strappons or other similar toys .

Here a link for strap ons and double ended dildos .

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Arthur

On a few occasions I've been given enemas before dildo and strap-on play. The most memorable time my friend gave me 3 or 4 slow fills, the last being a 4q fill, while spanking me quite hard and sucking me off. She also was having quite a time thwacking my balls. After the 4q and subsequent expulsion she proceeded to have her way with me bent over the hotel room bed with her feeldoe strapless strapon. She had a way of putting her hands on my back to hold me down firmly that seemed to feel great. She was totally in control and I had totally submitted to her will. I was soaked in such a warm, soothing and intense feeling all over I couldn't believe what I was feeling. That was one of my top few most intense sexual experiences of my life.

Wow. What an experience.

I sure it was quite memorable.

Til the next time.....

My wife and I like strap-on play after enemas but like to wait about twelve or so hours so I have time to "dry out". sometimes we use this time to play with a series of anal dilators.

I've always enjoyed a couple of nice warm soapy enemas before anal play. Like most guys, the wife couldn't care less, but I know what pleases me and I'll do it alone if need be.

I have had a couple of nice experience over the years sharing enemas with others (both male and female) and found those sessions to be the most satisfying sexually 😉 No way one can do enemas and not seek relief of the sexual tension that is released by a good clean out. I've tried using a dildo alone, but one would need to be double jointed to really enjoy the experience. But do I love being stretched open.

As far as arousal, a good clean out followed by a slippery anal massage gives me the strongest orgasms.

I am in my 50's but am open to sharing enemas with like minded people.

Dave

My wife gives me a baking soda enema an hour before she takes me anally. The enemas were given right before, but now as I have aged they make my roids swell for a bit.

After a few frustrating months I was finally able to convince my new boyfriend to let me give him enemas. He wasn't to happy the first couple of times even though I was slow and gentle. Now four months after I gave him the first enema he is starting to really enjoy them. It has improved our sex life tremendously.

I wish my wife could give me enemas also...

Nice treat for your boyfriend Gretchen. What a lucky guy!

Nurse Nikki I so wish I could find a woman like you who would enjoy giving me enemas, but such women are close to nonexistent. I bet that the prostate massage you give does feel wonderful. Also, if you were my gf, I would gladly accept strap-on penetration from you if you were willing to give it to me.

There are plenty of women out there that would love to do all kinds of kinky things to their men.They are the ones you would least expect. Sex like that can be smelly and that is a turn-off for some women.Make sure she is liking it, if not remedy the situation to her liking.Maybe burn a strong scented candle close to the action.

I have been with a few guys, and I always insist on multiple enemas before anal play as it makes everything cleaner, makes they guy feel good, and reduces the mess. I try to gently work my way up so that I never give more than they can take. If someone is unwilling to have an enema then there is no anal play for them. I also love using strapons once someone is clean. 😃

I would like to know what type strap on to get the Mrs. Ladies any suggestions? I want her to enjoy it and at the same time have it feel good for her

My lady often cleans me out before anal activity and often just for the hell of it.

As noted in an earlier post, my ex- thought that enemas were just weird, which seems to be somewhat of a typical response. That being said, I wonder how many women find using dildos on their partner to be erotic? I would like it, but suspect that the "taboo" thinking is even greater with dildos. Any comments?

JT

We do (and love) both pegging and enemas. But, a good enema can be quite a workout in and of itself. We've found both in the same day to be a bit rough on the old butthole.

Nothing like a good enema then my gf riding my ass with a strapon