Enemas Before Anal Sex

I would love to experience an enema given by my partner as a prelude to anal sex. Seems like such an intimate thing to experience together. However, I'm a little embarrassed to tell lmy partner this. Also, I have heard of some people administering an enema and then being fucked prior to expelling. What do you think of this? Thanks for any advice.

An enema befoe anal sex is a very good idea makes sure every thing is cleared out . you can make the last one before sex a oil enema small amount of oil ,helps with lube makes every thing slide better . It is hard to hold water in while having sex .

Thanks for your reply. I am a real novice at this so I'm hoping to me a man with experience so I can play safely. What is an oil enema? Maybe it's self-explanatory. Sorry to ask stupid questions.

Warm regards,

Sharon

And oil enema is ware you use a small amout of oil I like olive oil 4to 6 oz . then after sex 2 soap and water to get out oil . Hope you have fun.

So that is 3 enemas per session? What would happen if you didnt do the 2 soap enemas after? How long have you been doing this? You sound very experienced.

If you dont do soap enemas after you may leak oil later on I am 60 yrs old been doing enemas 57 yrs and loving them more all the time .

Wow, that is awesome (about your experience). Do you have a regular partner or do you enjoy this yourself?

Mostly by myself . had partner when younger now wife does not wont to play

I have tried this in several ways. With my former wife while we were in the bathtub. I filled her to capacity and we were both standing. When she was filled, I replaced the large douche nozzle with my erection and slowly entered her.

It was really hot since we could see our reflection in the large vanity mirror. She looked pregnant and the sounds and feelings were incredible.

Enemas before anal is a great way to introduce enema to a partner. I have found that after suggesting enemas for anal play that my partners have begun to enjoy enema play in general.

I used training for anal sexs as the reason for giving my sub repeated enemas.

she was very tight to start with and I would give her an enema. Following the enema I would use a series of dildos of increasing size to stretch her.

It took about four weeks before I tried to eneter her myself, of course only after she was cleaned out witha couple of quarts.

She suffered the enemas and enjoyed the sex more.

Certainly challenged her acceptance of our roles, me on top and she as sub.

Taking an enema from the master is a sure way of enbedding the submissive perspective into the sub.

I would advise against the oil enemas.... can deteriorate the condoms

My girlfriend (my wifes ex friend ) likes me to tong and finger her ass while i give her oral but says it hurts to much with my cock . would a enema help her relax ?

Hey billanders have u try more as 1 finger up her butt when i statre with me wife i did 1 then 2 and after is got relax and trust me i enter her carefull and with lot's of lube you have to do it slow and she will enjoy it too[quote author=billanders link=topic=2809.msg30312#msg30312 date=1213295053]

my girlfriend (my wifes ex friend ) likes me to tong and finger her ass while i give her oral but says it hurts to much with my cock . would a enema help her relax ?

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I do this both with my female partners, and even receive them from male partners before they penetrate me. It is extremely sensual and hot.

How many enemas do you suggest before anal....and how far in advance can you do them....

i am a newbie

I only use one with atleast 2 qt to start and then a clean out after.

In the shower always works for us.

It's good to do so u can be cleaned out before anal sex

Then go ahead but not to much first time, if it is your first time. Two pints, or even less, of warm brine and do not try to break a record for holding it in. Let it go when you feel uncomfortable. Quantity, holding time and different liquids can be tried as you gain confidence.

It may hurt the first time,make sure u use plenty of lube

My wife doesn't get any kicks out of enemas as she experienced some very uncomfortable enemas in hospital immediately prior to giving birth to our four children. That was a normal preparation for a woman about to give birth. She knows I enjoy enemas and has given me enemas from time to time. Rarely have we practised shared enemas as a prelude to sex because she needed much sexual arousal before she would consent to anal sex. On the other hand, my most erotic enema sessions have been with other guys who could appreciate enemas and who enjoyed enemas as a healthy, as well as sensual, preparation for any form of anal sex. I personally would not take a dildo up my bum without a thorough cleansing of my colon.

No for me the enema is not prelude to anal sex

A certain amount of irritation takes place from the introduction of the enema and its expulsion, as well as some residual fluid remaining to weep out for an hour or so. It is for that reason that the pre-anal sex enema cleansing should not be done right before the sexual activity, especially if penis insertion is to be accomplished. Any liquid remaining in the rectum is also far more bacterial laden than a clear rectum after all the liquid has been either expelled or absorbed. For fingers, dildos or other inanimate objects, other than the slight irritation, there is no downside to having liquid remaining, other than for a little leakage and soiling.

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I used training for anal sexs as the reason for giving my sub repeated enemas.

she was very tight to start with and I would give her an enema. Following the enema I would use a series of dildos of increasing size to stretch her.

It took about four weeks before I tried to eneter her myself, of course only after she was cleaned out witha couple of quarts.

She suffered the enemas and enjoyed the sex more.

Certainly challenged her acceptance of our roles, me on top and she as sub.

Taking an enema from the master is a sure way of enbedding the submissive perspective into the sub.

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That's interesting. Never thought to indroduce that type of stuff into the BSDM activities... I'll have to try that out.

There is no need to be embarrassed by that. it is a good idea to clean up there before having anal sex. give your friend/gf or who ever 2 good bag full 1 with soap and the other with just plain water. then have them do the same to you. & just remeber to have fun doing em & of course with the anal sex. i do this with my gf b4 i give her anal sex & she does it for me too, after anal we do more enemas to get washed out up there.

have fun

Never anal without enema here !

Anal sex while she is holding an enema is the BEST! The anticipation while she takes her enema is quite special too.

Anal play/sex with enema prelude and with out are both hot. I've not yet had more than a little messiness with or without.

With the two lovers I've played with this way the enema prelude served several purposes. It alleviated some of the "ick" concern for one woman as she was new to anal play (at least early on, though that "ick" concern became an non issue as she became completely comfortable with anal play).

It was great foreplay and designated "us" time. It bonded us in like minded anticipation for the more vigorous play to come. We always found we were more open and accessible after enemas.

As has been noted here, we would wait at least an hour after the prelude to for left over water to be absorbed. but that meant plugging and cuddling quality time.

My routine, then as now, is the first enema is an isotonic salt and baking soda solution, then second is plain water.

My master always gives me an enema before he takes me anally. Since he likes anal sex as do i i get a lot of enemas