Do enema enthusiasts like BDSM?

I enjoy incorporating both electro-stim and role play with the enema. For me, the addition of e-stim with the enema changes the perception of both, making the combined sensation much more erotic than either alone. Add in the role play (prison guard, torture session, etc.) and I'm in heaven.

One of the most intense enema/bdsm experiences I have had was a cuckold/enema punishment session where I was restrained, hooked up to a gallon enema bag, the e-stim was turned on and I was “forced” to watch my GF get fucked by another guy ( actually a good friend) and made to hold the gallon until they both orgasmed. After I was released and allowed to empty out, I had sex with my GF while being filled again. The following orgasm was one of the most intense I have ever had.

This is a very interesting question for me. I started my journey in kink as a 8 or 9 year old. I discovered my moms enema bag and intrinsically knew how to use it. Use it I did.

Way back in second grade a manhood test was to staple one's thumb with a stapler. Manhood tests were things boys torture each other with to prove sufficient toxic masculinity had been obtained. Physical prowess, disgusting things, withstanding pain, anti social and criminal activity.

Well, Steveo came up with a much better test then staples! HO and N gauge trains were something my dad liked and justified because ‘the boy likes them’. Take the wires to the rails off the rail and place them on the manhood applicant. Fingers or arms. As the inventor naturally I was the operator too.

Somehow I never gave other boys enemas - strange how societal norms are wordlessly passed down. Girls you ask? Dr. Steve at your service! (WEG) Sadly just 3 girls before puberty, but enough to cement a lifelong kink.

Take that background throw in a few healthy helpings of trauma, bake at 350 for a few years and bingo! Sexual sadist.

A sexual sadist isn't cruel to be cruel but thrives on delivering sensations to partners and relishes the reaction. Is an enema painful? Is it pleasurable? Is it unique? Yes. Do all three outcomes have reactions? Why, yes, yes I believe so.

Does a sexual sadist like to spank with or without implements? Does a sexual sadist like to use electricity for all sorts of delightful activity? Does a sexual sadist like to tickle bound or unbound people? Does a sexual sadist like to lovingly bathe their partner after doing terrible and and delightful things to her? Could one go on? Yes.

Unsaid in the literature, in general is the fact that in general a sadist gives the finest aftercare in the BDSM spectrum because, quite frankly the sadist needs aftercare just as much their partner does.

The enema has a uniquely powerful effect - it is humiliating, it induces submission, it removes agency - the ability to control one's course - ceding control over deification is quite a right side act (left side/right side S/m D/s M/s the top, dom act is the left, the bottom, sub act is the right) and taking that control is pretty right side.

Enemas can sit by themselves as a discrete activity. Enemas can be part of the constellation of MedFet. Enemas can be part of BDSM. Enemas don't have to be part of BDSM, they are independent elements.

Does this enema enthusiast like BDSM? Yes.

Great post. Which is why preferring to give to oneself is not BDSM.

Submitting to the bag, with or without a Dominant is masochistic. In a sense the fluid becomes your Dominant. A silent partner as it were. It cleanses and delivers as much discomfort as you desire. In my case, pushing limits for decades. Like everything sexual, it's all about your head. The genitals follow.

MrsFn and I recently played out this scenario, inspired by this very picture from @bottomsup2000 's album.

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It was actually a very HOT scene, so…..yes?

Fn

Is a good spanking during an enema bdsm ;-)?

Yes especially when its a forced large retention enema. I love when they moan im full as water keep pumping

Like that spreader bar. Gonna have to try that.

@Moppys_jalopy

You'll have to let us know how that scenario plays out…😉

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Submitting to the bag, with or without a Dominant is masochistic. In a sense the fluid becomes your Dominant. A silent partner as it were. It cleanses and delivers as much discomfort as you desire. In my case, pushing limits for decades. Like everything sexual, it's all about your head. The genitals follow.

If you prefer domming yourself, rather than meeting with a live person, I would wonder why.

@DrFn , Glad I was able to help provide the scenario for you and MrsFn's pleasure. !!!!!😁

My interest in enemas is more emotional then actual. although there may be some small degree of BDSM it would only be a very quiet and gentle subtext.

@DrFn , Glad I was able to help provide the scenario for you and MrsFn's pleasure. !!!!!😁

Definitely did @bottomsup2000 ! It was definitely pleasure! Thanks again!!!!

Fn

Sundaybrunch,

I partially agree with you when you say that being a Dom to yourself is something you would wonder why about. It certainly is better when you are with someone else and he or she is giving you the enemas instead of you giving yourself enemas or doing other Dominant things to you or you to yourself. However, when you do not have a Dom to do it to you, if you do it to yourself, there is still some punishment value in it.

I often give myself enemas to punish myself. When I do, I try to take as much in at a time as I can. I imagine that there is another male or female there doing it to me. I often say to myself that the Dom is there watching me and has ordered me to give myself that enema or two, or more and that if I do not do it, he or she will punish me even worse. Therefore, I do as he or she would actually tell me to do. If there really is a Dom there and he or she is doing this to me, of course, it is a lot better.

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Submitting to the bag, with or without a Dominant is masochistic. In a sense the fluid becomes your Dominant. A silent partner as it were. It cleanses and delivers as much discomfort as you desire. In my case, pushing limits for decades. Like everything sexual, it's all about your head. The genitals follow.

If you prefer domming yourself, rather than meeting with a live person, I would wonder why.

I like enemas to prep for BDSM play, but never part of the actual BDSM scene. I think the closest I would get to that would be if someone were to give me a punishment enema, but that would be the only thing done to me during that time. Just the enema. No restraints or any toys used during the enema.