Do enema enthusiasts like BDSM?

Do most enema enthusiasts also engage in other practices that fall under the broad category of BDSM? If so, what else do you enjoy within that realm?

I'm not sure everyone falls into the BDSM group where enemas are concerned. I and my sub do though. I enjoy bondage, spanking, deprivation of sight, sound, and on rare occasions air, and I enjoy having him in discomfort. Whether from the solution of the enema or from something I am doing to him(large plug insertions, figging, insertions of large sized objects, and fisting).

It depends on the enema. A general enema, one without hard to take, hold solutions would be classified as DS, while one with hard solutions would fall more under SM.

R

The one who gives an enema needs to have some control during the session. I don't see any pleasure in giving an enema to a sub who wants control. So in a way, BDSM seems practical if a couple wants to engage in a little playful mischief.

Thanks for asking, LisaK. While most of my enemas are self administered, I do enjoy some BDSM activities whenever I can arrange that. I was able to visit a dominatrix several times for a very enjoyable session. I would confess to some wrong for which we agreed I needed to be punished. She gave me a good over-the-knee spanking on my bare butt, followed by making me bend over a saw horse for some more spanking with various paddles. Next, I was given a very thorough enema along with some probing of my anus and stroking up and down my crack which drove me crazy. That was to prepare me for the last treatment which was the receiving end of her stap-on dildo. She has since retired from the business, but I have some very wonderful memories.

Glad to see this subject on the board because my hubby and I can't understand some types of BDSM ... specifically restraints. I see so many sites with women and men bound and/or gagged, receiving enemas. Is this supposed to be enjoyable. We tried restraints and found it very uncomfortable and absolutely taking the pleasure away from our session.

My hubby and I love the freedom of taking enemas in any number of positions, in any number of different locations, and totally enjoy being able to move about totally free to do what we want while receiving.

How to others feel about restraints?

Diana -

I'm not into restraints at all. Have never used them on anyone or had them used on me. Maybe I don't know what I'm missing.

BTW - It sounds as if you have a GREAT relationship with your husband! Just keep experimenting!

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Diana -

I'm not into restraints at all. Have never used them on anyone or had them used on me. Maybe I don't know what I'm missing.

BTW - It sounds as if you have a GREAT relationship with your husband! Just keep experimenting!

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OMG! TRUST ME, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE MISSING!

Some enema enthusiasts like BDSM and some BDSM enthusiasts like enemas.

Some enema enthusiasts DON'T like BDSM, some BDSM enthusiaists DON'T like enemas.

I'm way into BDSM. I like to imagine situations where my enema is "entertainment" for some one or group. I like restraints and enjoy chaining myself up while giving myself a very fulling enema to see how much I can take.

In as much as I have never resisted much of anything when it comes to enemas, I have never seen the need for restraints.

I do like the feeling of being exposed, but I have never gotten off much on the feeling of helplessness.

Then again, never having done it, I may not know what I am missing!! :-)

Diana -

I'm not into restraints at all. Have never used them on anyone or had them used on me. Maybe I don't know what I'm missing.

BTW - It sounds as if you have a GREAT relationship with your husband! Just keep experimenting!

OMG! TRUST ME, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE MISSING!

more later on this.

Glad I'm not holding my breath! 😉

Please do share more Susie.

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Not everyone has BDSM tendencies with enemas-sometimes they come out later and maybe not. It is an acquired activity with both adults' consent and if pursued both need a clear understanding of what is acceptable in the realm of play. There is so many variables in this field so everyone can experiment with anything they want in or out of BDSM and enemas.

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BDSM may be an acquired taste for the submissive, but I can tell you as a dominant who has been tying up boys and girls since I was 11 or 12 years old, it comes completely naturally. 😁 😁 😁 😁

I tie my wife up and blind fold her and really have to come up with new and creative ways to make her cum with as many orgasms as I can make her have.

just putting her in restaints get her going a little spanky on her tush gets her a little mad but then she just moans.

I have asked her to do the same but she just doesn't get it I love it also and she think other things I look at and like are weird but I do not put enemas all together into bdsm but it can be something to humiliate some one just don't think every one uses them for this reason or every one likes bdsm 😜

BDSM and enemas seem like they would be a natural fit. I'm new to the lifestyle but can say that i'm beginning to feel a stronger desire to submit to my Dom playmate on as intimate levels as possible.

He has expressed that he wants me to begin receiving enemas for more, uuummm shall we say, intimate and in-depth ass play. hehe

I've facinated by all the postings i've read hear and am trying to work up the courage to dive in to the deep end of the pool.

😁

Glad to read some from a few of my favorite posters!

As far as my desires. I like restraints, I like knowing I can not control the situation, I guess I need the mental release of not thinking about anything but what is being done to me. Depravation of sight, sound, smell can be very erotic as well as a nice placed slap on the butt. I like when my ass aches while in my session. The back entrance also is my favorite position either for vaginal or anal entry. This I know is because of the "sub" part I know me to be. I have been trying to find a partner to introduce me to fisting. I love the idea and I can only imagine the feeling when done correctly. I also like the idea of an audience. Make me take an enema or have your way with me and let others watch my submission to you.

I think that electic stimulation could be fun too. This site has given me much to read and for this enemate - bdsm is hand in hand for me.

Not to say that sensual sessions is out, they have their place as well.

I'm a switch. :-)

Having a VERY strong dominant side, I also enjoy being subbie.

Besides the enema erotic stuff I'm also into spanking (including anus spanking), figging and bitching.

Every so often, when I misbehave, my husband must place me across his lap for a good bare-bottom spanking. My hiney is wetted then I receive a good hand spanking. Only when he is happy with the redness of my cheeks am I allowed up. After I am blistered, I must get on my knees and "reward" my husband for a job well done. It may be kinky to some but I love it.

Then we switch places. I have a male chastity device which I put on my husband when I feel I need the upper hand. His down time can be a little as a few days to as much as a month. During his down time, he must get down on his knees to keep a smile on my face. He becomes so loving that I really think he needs it on him fulltime.

I am very into BDSM (almost all areas), I am talking to a new sub that is very into enemas, so the two will have to mesh. I am getting many ideas on here about how to make that work.

I was into enemas before i got into BDSM and Female Domination. Now, the two are completely intwined.

i serve a Dominant Mature Woman who just loves my enema fetish. She loves to fill me and play with me while giving me an enema.

My sweet and young japanese gf would like to meet some special doctor able to give her enema with inflable plug. Also would like kinky medical examination from a man or woman

I am into BDSM, but I don't think it necessarily goes along with klysmophilia. And I don't like to combine every enema with BDSM. Often I am in the mood for an enema administered gently and lovingly.

I do wonder though, if many klysmos do get off on BDSM because of the submissive nature of being given an enema, especially if our fetish stems from childhood. Maybe submitting to an enema over our mother's knee is our first erotic experience, so we keep trying to recreate that feeling (emotionally, not literally) as adults.

I know there are a lot of enema fetishists out there who don't like BDSM, and a lot of folks into BDSM who aren't into enemas, but I wonder if it's more common to find the two matched than with other fetishes.

I'm just wondering, based on my own experience. I certainly have nothing to back this up.

Enemas and BDSM are only related in the sense that chocolate chips is related to ice cream.

They can be used in conjunction with each other if you want them to be, but they are both just fine on their own or in conjunction with other things.

Some people like to combine them, some don't.

Oh Susie, I love that comparison between cookies and ice cream and enemas and BDSM, that is so true...Personally I am not into BDSM.

Whereas I appreciate the disconnect others may harbor and espouse, I believe they go together deliciously.

Regarding the original question:

No,I do not like BDSM. That is by informed choice and decision of my own preference. My erotic stimulation from enemas has it's psychological roots in areas other than bondage,discipline,sadism, or masochism. I am just one of many who prefer a gentler approach with respect to enemas. Every one in our community has their own personal preferences.

G.N.

My hubby and I seek only the pleasures of enemas and enjoy all the aspects of the pleasurable experiences we achieve from taking and giving ... and then from any addition pleasures after that. We come away feeling good, really good, after each experience ... and we want to keep it that way.

Not directly related for me. However I seem to have a few kinks.

I've been into enema for decades. My wife has never been interested in it and thinks of it as a 'guy thing.'

Recently we have taken up a couple of minor bondage kinks with small sex teases, mostly in the 'startle and surprise' category.

No BDSM for this guy. Had a girlfriend that liked to be spanked, but I had a difficult time hitting a woman even if she wanted it.

My answer is mixed. I find some aspects of BDSM appealing, but I'm not really that into it. The exposure/embarrassment that is part of some BDSM is hot to me, but pain or discipline aren't really my thing.

For example, I love spanking my girlfriend because it exposes her butt and because I love to play with her butt. But I'd never want to actually hurt her by spanking her, and wouldn't want to mix pain with sex in general.

Definitely adds to the melodrama when the receiver is bound [and maybe gagged] and about ready to receive a 'forced enema' and can do nothing now but accept the warm, soapey water that will soon come his way in the most personl manner. Spanking also adds to the intensity and drama of such a happening.