What is is exactly what you like about giving/receiving enemas?

Forcing to hold the content is the best part for me. Complaints, movements, pleas. Everything is so erotic.

Depends.

If it's for constipation or stomach ache then I'm happy to help.

If it's for preparing for anal sex, well that's exciting.

If it's for "calming down" my wife, perhaps after a spanking, well...

Spreading a guy's butt cheeks, inserting the nozzle, and watching the red enema bag deflate as the hot soapy enema fills his colon!!!

For me the deep intimacy of the quiet nurturing aspect has been the greatest draw. There is a deep bond of trust between the one yielding control of such personal and private functions and the one entrusted with such care.

I have to agree with the comment about being in control, very satisfying, and knowing it is for the patient's best interests.

The best part of giving is knowing I will soon be receiving!

I would not say my "favorite' part changes whether I'm giver or receiver.

When I get that clear return I feel a sense of accomplishment, and having done a good job.

When I am helping a lady who is very constipated my favourite part is seeing the look of happiness and relief which suffuses her face when she is finally able to "go". However, when it is just for fun I enjoy it when we work hard to synchronise an orgasm with the beginning of the expulsion. I know we are all different. Some ladies insist on expelling in private.

My favorite part when giving (which is far less often than I like), is bringing the recipient to orgasm. For the male, it's obvious when I succeed, but for the female it's more subtle.

Without a doubt, my favorite part of giving an enema is using my finger to lubricate the anus and rectum prior to nozzle insertion. The thought of my finger invading someone's private parts and having their sphincter muscle clamping down on my finger drives me wild.

My favorite is the lubing and insertion of the long nozles and squeezing the bulb knowing the solution is going deep into the rectum.

I asked my husband a variation of this question on New Year's day several years ago -- "Do you enjoy giving me enemas?" I still remember because the Rose Parade was on TV and I was lying on my side in bed trying hard to retain a bag of warm water. I think I shocked him by asking. I had been sick for several days, a rare "oasis" in my life when my husband and daughters (then in their late teens) ran the house–for better or worse. LOL. Hubby's answer was not surprising for a guy, although he's very sensitive when it comes to our relationship and raising our girls. "I love seeing your bare behind," he responded. I know he was smiling, although my covered back (and bare behind) were facing him, so I didn't see him. I couldn't help but smile myself. He was hoping the enema would make me feel better, as he helped me out of bed and into the bathroom. I think women "feel" enema giving differently – at least I have. To me, the closeness and intimacy and nurturing are most important, as is ensuring the safe giving of the enema. And, I love to see hubby's bare behind as well. I don't deny that!!

I really have to say I don't have a favorite part. I just love doing it. I feel like I'm being a sort of bad boy, doing something so intimate and taboo. Just hearing the Word gets me excited. Telling the man to turn over onto his side, explaining what's going to happen to him, and then separating his buttocks with my fingers, smearing Vaseline on his anus, and then gently inserting The nozzle.But before I give this, I do this, I make sure he sees all the equipment including the enema bag and nozzle. I like to see the look on his face when he sees the equipment. Just seeing a man in this very embarrassing and compromising position just blows my mind. All through the process, I get more and more turned on.

When receiving I like the coaching and nurturing words of encouragement to finish the bag and the bonding that happens, especially between two women

My favorite part would be just finding a woman to give one to.

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Aslo, I realize the enemas were specified, but we get more fun from suppositories. I hope that this question is purging-method neutral :-)

I like:

* Seeing:

* * her look of somewhat fearful Intrepidation;

* * her broad, muscular, smooth, vulnerable, delicate bottom;

* hearing her moan of pleasure as I lube her delicate rosebud;

* Selecting the suppositories as she nervously listens;

* Inserting the suppositories as she moans in mixed pleasure and nervousness;

* Watching t.v. with her while awaiting the beginning of effect;

* * Hearing her telling me of:

* * the effects (abdominal discomfort...contractions...propulsive waves increasing in power and frequency;

* * her rectal awareness;

* * her increasing urgency;

* Cuddling her as she:

* * squirms and moans from the stress of holding against increasing urgency

* * has an accident, from the irresistible laxative effect of the suppositories;

Sit on her lap (supporting most of my weight with my own thighs) during the expulsion sequence.

* * as I comfort her verbally and clean her bottom, as she does FOR me when roles are reversed;

I love doing it. I like the nervous anticipation, the look and feel of the anus as I lube her, the facial expression as first my finger and then the nozzle goes in. I love the expression and vocal reaction as the water stats, the struggle for control as it flows in, the squirmiming, the toe wiggling and curling. The sound of the expulsion accompanied by groans, but most of all I like the vocalization as it goes in.

The entire procedure is a turn-on, from start to finish!!!

4:30AM, about 11 years ago. There, I've finished a second enema. The bag is empty. I'm feeling half asleep but I managed to give 2 enemas after older dd wakes up at 3:00 with terrible cramps. At first I go for the Tylenol and fill a hot water bottle, wrap in a towel give it to her. Here, this will help, I tell her. I'm going back to bed. A half hour passes. Husband is sleeping but I'm not. I get up and check on Jen. How are you feeling? I think I'm constipated. You think you're....? When was the last time...? Obviously, Mom's age old question. Saturday night, I think. This is Wednesday...no it's Thursday, isn't it? Why didn't you tell me? I could tell you were on your period. You've been so crabby with your sister. OK, what do we do? The first time in her life Jen asks for an enema. I hadn't given her one in years, and she wasn't happy getting it. OK, let's finally get to the point of this question. Fast forward nearly an hour. I'm sitting on the side of her bed after finishing a one quart rinse after giving a rather uncomfortable SS enema. I'm encouraging her to retain the warm rinse enema -- there's more to come out. She's on her side and I encourage her to turn onto her back, stretch out and massage her tummy and below. I cover her with a sheet so she's not embarrassed. We're together chatting for at least 10 minutes before she needs to get up to the bathroom. Those are 10 amazing minutes between us. I encourage her to breathe through the cramps so the enema gets more stuff out. She actually smiles through all this now, with a tube still in her behind! It's difficult to explain the bonding that takes place during these moments between Mom and daughter. These are some of the magic moments in life!

For me the favorite part when giving is the preparation of lowering the panties, placing a raising pillow underneath, pre lubing with a finger, and relaxing the patient as I slowly insert the nozzle. When receiving it is that anticipation of what is coming

Once I noticed that an ex girlfriend of mine was preparing herself for having anal sex by cleaning herself out with a small bulb enema. Of course I jumped at the opportunity and from that day enemas became an interesting diversion in our daily sex life. Pure fun for both of us as we were giving enemas to each other creating different fantasy scenarios...

Yes and also as a form of discipline for naughty young ladies, fun for me at least!

Oh, for sure. I had a g/f who was very anal. She would always enjoy it after it was all done. And we had great sex.

I have always loved taking enemas. My Mother knew it. My Grandmother on Mom's side knew it. And as far as I know my Father knew although we never discussed it. In college I got real serious with the absolute sweetest girl. There was nothing I wouldn't have done for her and she for me. How I let her not stay in my life is beyond me. She made sex fun and would give me my enemas anytime I wanted. She and I both called them "Cobb Specials". One afternoon, she asked me if would give her a "Cobb special". I was more than happy to help out. And I gave her her first. If I had to do it over, I would have prepared the bathroom better. I would have brought in candles and a blanket along with pillows for her. The enema itself would have been warmer and the bag would not have been hung as high as I had it. There would have been soft music playing as well. But, being a stupid, young college student, I wasn't as sophisticated as I am now. But, I really wish I had been more thoughtful. My girl did not complain though and what could have been or should have been was less than it should have been. Oh for the memories....of that sweet lady.

Kinda...

my ex wife gave me several enema sessions 'for fun'....she and I were both pretty buzzed with wine....she dressed me as well, in what essentially was a girls school uniform...when she was pregnant, at 40, and we thought she started going into labor, at over 9 months, she knew she was going into the hospital, and knew she was very constipated. so she didn't want the hospital to give her an enema. fully pregnant and having 30 min cramps, she asked me to give her an enema.

I mixed soap and very hot water...she took an entire 2 qts / expelled then said she knew she still had a lot left. so I put the kettle on the stove again, cut up 2-3 bars of ivory into slits....stuffed these into the bag. then when the kettle started to steam, I poured it into the bag 3/4. capped it, shook it real hard to get suds. the attached the hose and clmp...bled the air. attached the retention nozzle. this time I had her on her back...legs pulled up. I put the nozzle in and set the clamp at just a little open. it took 30 min to get the whole bag in her.

about 6 months later, she gave me an enema session for fun. it was killer. she did research. added turpentine like I had when I was a kid. heavy soap, really hot water...and like I did, she shut down the adapter to min. and made me take the full bag over almost 45 minutes....by the first 5 minutes I was cramping. I spent the next half hour plus in agony. then had to hold it for like 15 min. just sitting there, I remember having to sit when I was a kid, after getting an enema. it was horrible if I recall. I do recall that if I couldn't hold it long enough, that 'we would start all over'...and I do think I got multiple enemas.

Don't really consider the enema itself fun!

Therefore no!

I do consider the "cleaned out" feeling that the enema produces to be a pleasurable one.

Only once...but I'll never forget it!

MANY times!!!

Only to my wife. Sometimes there is a medical reason (constipation or stomach ache) but often it's just because she's "acting nervous". As my wife says, the bad mood should be flushed with the poop.

(It's "for fun" even for medical reasons in the sense that most constipation issues could be resolved by a glycerin suppository. But it's more fun giving an enema.)

I give my wife daily enemas for her bad IBS, but she is not a klysmo. She sees nothing erotic in the process. I give her 16 oz. bulbs and she expels after each bulb. About once a month she asks for a 2 qt. bag when she has severe pain from IBS. I use a colon tube to inject the enema up high to relieve her pan. I enjoy giving to her, but she doesn't enjoy giving to her.