What is is exactly what you like about giving/receiving enemas?

Vicki that was a nice response. What you said is so true,"That's what sets women apart, we are the givers and nurturers to our families." Karma to you!

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The points made by the writers below are very important.

But the most important part to me is what the woman's goal or purpose is in wanting to receive the enema(s) in the first place.

Is it to relax, to be dominated, to experience lots of cramps, or submission, or to try out a different solution or different equipment? Does she want a new provider or to further test a new relationship or to break away from an old one? Does she want to be brought to pain or lots of stretching or comfort? Does she want to hold more or to have less? Does she like lots of variety or to experience the same as always once again? Does she want prolonged insertion as the act begins, or does she want suddenly to feel the flow into her? Does she want constipation relief or to get ready for anal touching and/or penetration to come? If so, with what? How long does she want to hold it, or is her goal to fill and then to empty right away? Does she want relief, or simply to be soothingly at peace? Does she want to see the enemas being prepared, or does she want to hear it from the next room? The temperature? I am sure there are other primary goals to receive enemas. All of them are important.

If the woman wants me to engage in life threatening behavior, she has come to the wrong person. I will not do that.

I will make a consciencious effort to understand her goals and carefully to give her the experience she wants. We will be in this together, although her experience with me will be very different if she wants me to direct and dominate the entire experience or if she wants us to work it all out equally as a couple. Whatever, she can trust me.

Once we have an agreement, I will follow it carefully and exactly. I will carry it out, and your enema(s) will be as exciting or as rough or as soothing or as whatever else as you want.

I love to make the enema as pleasurable as possible. Avoiding cramping, etc. so she will want to have a repeat performance. So many people have had painful experiences and bad impressions of enemas.

I was showering with a fuck buddy once and suggested we give each other enemas. He was open to it, but once the water coming out of him turned dirty he freaked out and wanted to stop.

Enemas for need or recreation are all fun for me.

Gave to a lady in need recently and it was effective but she only talked about the side benefits of her enemas.

Hope to repeat for recreation only. I'm sure she will get off on them.

I actually gave my wife her first ever enema just to see if she liked them. I have given her several more since that time.?

I take my time time administering an enema. I like the bulb with her over my lap. I set the bowl of water on the night stand and then the fun begins, fill up bulb, lube her ass , insert, squeeze and repeat. I like opening the ass and the disappearance of the nozzle in her ass. Any ladies wanna play? ?

Yes I have given another person an enema for fun. I loved doing it. They were on hands and knees and I inserted the nozzle so it pointed down towards their belly button and their ass easily took the whole six inch nozzle. I held the bag while it drained (baby shampoo enema). They held the enema for just a few minutes before heading to the toilet to expel. After the first enema we did another bag to make sure the rectum was squeaky clean for some anal play afterwards.

Many times. The receiver may not have been having fun but I sure as hell was having fun.

Yes! I talked my GF into a series of enemas because she had too much gas. It solved her problem for several weeks. There is just something erotic about slowly inserting a nozzle up the rear of a beautiful woman! I get hard every time I think about it.

In Nursing School many new nurses are given enemas for fun by senior nursing students.

Many times!!! I dated a guy in the mid 1990's who loved for me to give him a large hot soapy enema, watch him hold it, and watch him expel!!! We had ALOT of fun!!!

Yes, both male and female

No, all mine are solos. My wife isn't into anything anal.

YES!!! I gave my wife her very first(years ago).........her pussy got wet, and she became very anally responsive since then...............she can climax with just my finger "massage"...........or with a hard buttfuck.............GLORIOUS!!!!!

I've given many guys enemas for fun!!!

Alec 123, are you waiting for a volunteer ? 😉

Giving is often as rewarding as receiving. Volunteers should be accommodated wherever possible!

I only give enemas for fun 😃

Yes, girlfriends and ex-wives, always for fun. Also receiving from them for fun. I'd be happy to give enemas to anyone needing them for relief or pre-procedure cleansings, but that would just be clinical, not for fun.

I used to give my ex wives enemas on occasion but never unless they were constipated,

I had 1 gf that would do enemas for fun, damn wish i hadn"t broke up from her

Yes, I have.

Great fun for me but a punishment for him.

My best friend came to visit one day and he had been eating Curry and was farting and burping noxious Garlic and other spices fumes and thought it was hillarious.

I was heaving and had to sit in my bedroom after he had left as the stench was so bad in my Living area.

The following Day, I visited his place an hour or so before his wife and Son came home.

I took my Enema Bag and told him I was going to flush him out and get rid of the Rat that had crawled up his arse and died.

This friend knows I am Gay but I have never laid a finger or made a sexual move on him.

He took the Enemas with great difficulty, Effing and Cursing and was so embarrassed and his face glowed crimson and you could have fried an egg on it.

He didnt get an Erection and I had no intention in purposely giving him one but I have never seen a Guy produce as much Pre cum in my life as he did

I left of course before his family returned and an hour or two later decided to call him.

His wife answered and said he couldn't come to the phone as he had spent the best part of an hour in the Loo!.

This was before Christmas and although we have never mentioned Enema's since,he knows the consequences.

It started out as a treatment for the brown squirts for my neighbor friend but he wasn't hurting - just had the squirts. We had gotten back home from camping and were in my backyard, a heavily forested lot with a shed at the back and a new garden hose connected to a new well for the house. He had soiled himself badly and was quite miserable. Since we were both in shorts, I suggested we go to the back of the shed to rinse him off. I told him the water was not that cold and at least we could get his underwear off and clean him up before he went home. We got behind the shed and he stripped off, bent over while I sprayed his butt down. He rinsed his undies and then had the urge again. I suggested he just squat and relieve himself and we could hose his butt off again. It worked great and he said it even felt good to get sprayed like that. That led to a little experimentation by spraying his anus with the hose stream with the effect of some of it shooting up into his rectum. One thing led to another and we kept filling him with water from the hose. We kept the hose stream to a sort of trickle while he was filled till he said he needed to dump. We repeated this five or six times. After the final rinse with a pretty large volume expelled, he said that he didn't feel the need or urge again. By that time he had a huge boner and was trying to cover up as he got his in his shorts to cover up. The day was hot so his cloths were already drying out. This eventually led to some interesting events the rest of that summer with a different kind of fun for both of us.

I like the look they get when they see how big the bag is when I hang it up. I always like to fill it with at least 2 to 2.5 quarts, after all I want them to know they have an enema inside of them. Then to see that look of apprehension go away and a look of lust come over them when I tell them what the reward is for taking it all and holding it until I tell them they can expel.

While my dear hubby is not into enemas, I have, on occasion, given him one when he complained of constipation. (When he does complain, he always acts shocked I'd suggest an enema...but I always do!)

I have to agree with others, it has to be the look on his face when he comes in the bathroom and sees the bulging bag knowing its contents are meant for him. I have oftentimes laughingly remarked that he looks like a little boy that's terrified of getting a shot! Reluctantly, he'll get in position, but continues the furtive glances at the bag as though it's contents are going to magically disappear and everything is over.

The last two times I administered an enema to him, I helped him get through it with some "strategic massage" and he seemed to get over the fear rather quickly.

Guess we still can teach an old dog new tricks!

Deb

Although giving an enema to a partner has been a major life fetish, I haven't found a partner yet with whom I could administer such. There is still a lot of life in this "tough old bird", so it might, just might, happen!

[The sounds. I've said it before. I love the sounds my babies make when they're taking their enema (gasps, grunts groans, some whining, sometimes a little crying) and holding it, and finally when they expel, the sighs and then the explosion. But the best part is the sounds they make when they cum during or after their enema. Its better than "thank you, Momma."]

I was going to write a post about this but momma summed it up so well that I'll just refresh your memories with her quoted post above. Couldn't have said it better. I absolutely love the sounds, of enemas, or sex, or both together.

Eric

My favorite part has been the role-play dialogue during our enema sessions. Like many here, the word "enema" has been a sex word for me since I was a kid and both using and hearing the word "enema" during our sessions would always provide enhanced erotic stimulation. Our routines would include medically necessary enemas, enemas given to relax and relieve stress and tension, and even an occasional discipline enema. Fun times!

I think the part I enjoy the most is the control aspect of the giving part. I like ordering them to take off their clothing, and let me poke and prod all their private parts. I like having her lay naked as I prepare the enema bag, and then come into the room with a bulging bag. I know when I am on the reserving end of an enema the submission is exciting for me, so I have to guess it is for the person to whom I'm giving the enema.

Until reading some of your posts about the "control" we have when giving an enema, I hadn't given that much thought. However, you "guys" are right. I manage a department at work and am aware of the authority I have. I'm the quiet leader type, and I treat my colleagues as equals. But there are times when I must exert control to get projects done on time. I do like that ability to control but never to abuse.

When I think about the occasions when stood over a bed hanging an enema bag and my patients (aka husband or daughters) looked like they want to hide under the covers, I WAS in control. "Let's get you on your side...I'll need your panties off...bear down for me...take slow deep breaths...you have to take a little more...I need you to hold it in a little longer." Then Mom's dreaded (rare) statement they didn't want to hear: "I feel there's more that needs to come out."