Ladies, who do you like to shave your pubes ?

Since there were a couple of questions of men shaving I thought it would be fun to see what the women say about them selves.

So Ladies who do you like to shave your pubes ?

* self

* husband

* boy friend

* girl friend

* any one

No shaving here. I'm not a very hairy person, so it isn't really a big deal for me. I've shaved in the past, but I prefer au natural for me and my lover. Upkeep is kind of a bitch and my skin is too delicate for shaving. It's painful. I don't like the idea of risking a nick, having bumps or rough stubble. Smooth testicles can be very sexy, but I'd rather the shaft and everything else be natural. Giving head isn't very fun when bristly little hairs are poking up at me.

You cannot love a vagina unless you love hair. Many people do not love hair. My first and only husband hated hair. He said it was cluttered and dirty. He made me shave my vagina.

It looked puffy and exposed, like a little girl. This excited him. When he made love to my vagina, it felt the way a beard must feel. It felt good to scratch it and painful, like scratching a mosquito bite. There were screaming red bumps. It felt like it was on fire. I refused to shave it again.

Then my husband had an affair.

When we went to marital therapy, he said he screwed around because I wouldn't shave my vagina. The therapist had a thick German acccent and she gasped (gasp) between sentences (gasp) to show her empathy. (gasp)

She asked me why I didn't want to please my husband. Why I didn't want to shave my vagina. I told her I thought it was weird. I felt little when my hair was gone down there and I couldn't help talking in a baby voice and even Calamine lotion wouldn't stop the irritation.

She told me marriage was a compromise.

I asked her if shaving my vagina would stop my husband from screwing around. I asked her if she had many cases like this before. She told me that questions diluted the process. She was sure it was a good beginning, I just needed to jump in.

This time, when we got home, he got to shave my vagina. It was like a therapy bonus prize. He clipped it a few times and there was a little blood in the bathtub. He didn't notice. He was so excited shaving me. Then later, when my husband was pressing against me, I could feel his spiky sharpness sticking into my naked, exposed vagina.

There was no protection. There was no fluff.

Then I realized that hair is there for a reason.

It's the leaf around the flower, the lawn around the house.

You have to love hair in order to love the vagina. You can't pick the parts you want and besides, my husband, well, he never did stop screwing around.

I keep mine clipped real short. It feels much cleaner when it's not all long and bushy. Also it feels a lot more sensitive when there's not as much hair. I would love to be able to shave it, but like stated in the above post, it gets rashy, prickly and hurts too much.

"I'm sorry, but if a man can't accept me for who I am, he can fuck off. There are plenty more fish in the sea, guys, and we shall not be lonely. Stop trying to change us into these fantasy women you created in your head after peeking at your dad's Playboy in the seventh grade. Get over it!

I think that's why I prefer older men. They realize that most of those expectations are bullshit. Most of them would rather have a good-hearted, good-natured, funny, intelligent woman who loves them, than a cold-hearted, frigid, bimbo with a bust size larger than her IQ and a personality to match her size zero ass. Most older men appreciate women who are comfortable in their own skin. They don't need to have a sports car and a trophy wife to make them feel rich and powerful. The love of a good woman is all they need."(quote from egirlky)

Yeah, what she said! You said it, Sister!!

And can someone tell me what is meant by the term "high maintenance". Does this relate to upkeep on your physical appearance or is it about being emotionallly clingy? or something else entirely?

My first girlfriend shaved her pubic hair the night we first made love. I was so disappointed. It was stubbly, bumpy and so unattractive. I hated touching it. It looked like an alien and it felt like I was licking a sticker bush, so to speak. I wish she would have kept herself natural, but she didn't. I don't know why she thought it would turn me on. She must have taken advice from Playboy or something. Natural hair is softer and it feminizes a woman. Having a buzzcut is so butch. I like the softness and the mystery. It's like a hidden treasure to work through and find the sweet spots and so worth it when you do.

Mmmm, we like men like you, Gene. Men who can find things with their fingers and tongues in the dark are my type of guys. The right man doesn't need visual clues to find the right spots. He knows to listen to her breathing, moans and directions (if she gives them) and to read her body language to see her reaction. Sex should be an experience for all senses.

As far as the hair issue, I prefer natural, but trimmed is fine, too. I've had lovers who shaved their testicles and they were very soft and smooth. But sometimes when a man tries to shave or trim near their penis, they just shorten it and makes the hair even more prickly and rough. And that just doesn't feel good on a woman's mouth or vagina.

I agree with you that it doesn't really matter what kind of situation a lover has. As long as the area is clean, nothing else matters.

Do you know the difference between a g-spot and a golf ball?

A man will spend fifteen minutes looking for a golf ball.

I have been totally shaved since I was 14. I would feel unclean and unkempt if I had pubic hair. I wonder if it is a generational thing, because I know many ladies who are older than me who keep their pubic hair. I don't think I ever could. I love being smooth, especially for oral sex.

You go girl!!! You tell it like it is. If we weren't supposed to have pubic hair it wouldn't grow there! I also tried trimming, shaving, and even perming "down there" before giving it all up to return to my natural state. Lucky for me it grew back much thicker and longer with a lot more body and curl than it ever had before all the experiments. I wull never mess with my pubes again. Besides I like the stares and comments I get when I walk down the beach with my Rotweiler Spike plodding along side in my bikini.

When my husband and I were together (he passed 10 years ago) we shaved each other. This was back when that sort of thing was "taboo". After than I shaved myself. Now I a living with a Mistress and back to shaving each other.

It's been so long since I have not been shaven I would not know how it feels not to be.

For a while I even shaved my head and spent a couple of years bald, but now have hair and letting it grow long again

My ex wanted me to be completely bald down there;..just like a little girl. I was not comfortable going that far and told him so. I agreed with him that "close trimming" would be OK with me. He became the greatest "barber" any woman could ever hope for. I would sit up in bed with a towel under me with my legs pulled up and spread wide open. He was able to trim me very close and never cut or pinched me.

After finishing the front, he would turn me over and I would put a pillow under my hips, raising my butt so that he could trim the hair around my "back door." Ths was the part that really got me turned on and I was wet in no time.

Having my little rosebud exposed as he held my buttcheeks open to the air was heavenly. I did not have a lot of hair back there, but enough to trim with his small sharp scissors. He would "tease" me by gently pushing his finger into my anus very slightly as he trimmed along one side of my butt cheek. It drove me wild to know that when finished and after a quick wash of the whole area, it was "play time" an I'd be soo turned on, it wouldn't be long before some great orgasams would rock my body. There is something about having your anus rimmed and entered with a tongue right after a nice trim and wash!

Whew!...gee, my hand is in my panties already and I don't even remember placing it there! Automatic reaction for me, I guess! 😮

I love it when my man shaves me bald; very hot and sexy!

The only one I would ever allow shave me, Doc of course. He handles a scapel for a living, I absolutely trust him with a razor down south. Besides that, he owns me and he would never allow anyone else to touch me with a razor or anything else down there anyway. And I am mighty fine with that, mighty fine.

Mashie

I prefer to be smooth. I also prefer to do it for myself. I do not like prickly next day regrowth, so I use an appliance that plucks out the hairs. Over time regrowth has been minimized and maintenance has become simple. However, what hairs remain will be plucked from a very tender area. Therefore, I prefer to do it myself!

My boyfriend shaves me and I shave him down there. Afterward we are totally bald

My boyfriend shaves me and I shave him down there. Afterward we are totally bald

My partner and i are the same way, although we aren't together as often as we'd like. Neither of us is allowed to shave without the other's permission as well. It's one of those special things we do for each other. I know her shaving me is something she loves, and her shaving me down there makes me feel both dominated and loved. I shave both her private parts and her legs when we're together, it's something special she knows I do only for her.

My boyfriend likes to do it and he does a good job too.

Anyone, as long as they take their time😃😃

Anyone, I love the imitacy of the act

The GF keeps a bush at my request, but I trim it up around her legs, anal area, panty line at the top and then dye it various colors.. I mush prefer a bush to bald or other light amounts of hair.

By myself or by my boyfriend.

I like to do it myself. Just did it in shower this morning.

This is something that I prefer to do myself. My husband can give me enemas and douche me if he wants, but getting anywhere near my girl parts with a sharp anything gives me goosebumps.

Wife prefers to shave herself but if I ask nicely she will let me shave her. Seeing and feeling a woman's shaved pubic area is very erotic. Oral sex is better and I would guess that the absence of hair makes for a more hygienic menstrual period as well as the rest of the time. For a woman with a shaved pubic area I do not equate it with a girl's or pre-puberal appearance but just a more intimate revealing of the female body.

I shave smooth in the summer and leave a strip in the winter. I let girlfriends shave me if they want. It can be great foreplay also.

I don't like to be shaved but in the past a girlfriend and I used to trim each other's pubes with nail scissors. That was a huge turn on for us both

I have shaved my wife's pubic area on occasion. She shaves herself regularly. A bald pussy is beautiful. And as a woman ages, she doesn't have to have any gray down there.

Anyone who wants too.

^^^^ ooooh ! Pammy ...where do I apply ...lol

The door is always open for you Austrialian

Yes it is a must for me,but I do not ever shave MYSELF.I must be diapered,and my mommy or older sister ALWAYS keep me hairfree in my diapering region,for cleaning purposes!!