I shave myself, though I do have Anthony help me if I missed some spots and also do help me with my backside. I'm on the fence as far as how much I shave.
I overall have done a shaved vagina. It just boils down to preference for myself and for Anthony, my husband. For me, it was more about feeling clean down there and for him, it's both the visual and also when he goes down on me, the hair kind of gets in the way. I understand that. 💁♀️
I used to also shave all the hair because, when I'd lay out in a thong or wear short shorts and sit with my legs up, I didn't want hair hanging out...the thought doesn't sound or look appealing in my head; however, after some discussions with members, I started thinking into it more and I think having some hair, especially trimmed and kept, is definitely appealing.
What I find appealing about keeping some hair:
-I could at least shave the sides, like a bikini cut, and that would help while 'exhibiting' myself in public with Anthony...no hair hanging out of my shorts or thong, taken care of. Check.
-If I at least keep it trimmed short, it doesn't get all wild and make me feel meh. The thought of a wild, bushy vagina is just not my thing...goes back to the cleanliness thing.
-Also, I kind of enjoy looking at my naked body in the mirror and seeing my pubes. Makes me feel more feminine and natural.
Lastly, depending on the doctor examining me during a play exam, I may just shave it altogether, but I may be do the latter and keep some hair. Just depends on the doctor and the preference and mood.