Spanking and Enemas

I am it seems always on the recieving end, which I love. I have been tied down, and strapped with a belt until my ass was red and bruised, and off into what I call sub-space where I am really not feeling the pain anymore. When she stopped the whipping, she inserted the nozzle and I barely felt it as about 3 qts filled me. Very neat experience.

I sometimes fantasize administering a spanking before giving the lady recumbent over my knee a thorough enema. Actually, it would start putting the lady over my knee, raising her short robe, taking her temperature by the most accurate method 😁; administering a good spanking with my hand just hard enough to cause some squirming, a little kicking, and maybe a yelp or two, until her bottom is pink; taking her temperature again to make sure she was properly "warmed", then after thoroughly lubricating her, inserting the popular, flexible, green nozzle slowly until fully inserted, open the clip to let a a very warm , sudsy (Ivory soap of course), flow into her just fast enough to cause just a little squirming and a moan or whimper or two. Then while she retains it to massage her stinging bottom with some lotion to "cool" things off and take the sting away; not to mention take her mind off the retention of a full enema. Then I would help her up and leave her in privacy while she expels. Of course after a HHH/SS enema, she would need a rinse to preclude discomfort by soap residue, so while she was expelling I would be setting up another two quart salt/baking soda enema for the rinse. This I would give in any position she desired. Of course if she balked at the rinse, it would be back over the knee, a few sample smacks to gain cooperation and then I would administer the rinse. Did I miss anything? 😁

Well VP, I like the way you think. I am a submissive woman new to this scene. I love otk spankings, bare handed are the best. I can only imagine, how wonderful an enema (yes HHH) would feel. Hopefully I will have that experience soon!

Beychica, remember HHH stands for "High, Hot, and a Hellava a lot". Of course there are some things to distract one...like having the nozzle slowly backed out until you can feel he heat of the water flowing in and then pushed beck in until fully inserted...OR...just moving the nozzle slowly in an in and out movement (without actually taking it out all the way) while the water flows. 😁 😁 😁

I'm absolutely delighted to find this topic on the forum. Growing up in the E-era of the 40s and 50s, I received enemas about every two weeks from either my nanny or aunt. I was ALWAYS spanked first ... I grew up just assuming that one could not be enemaed until one was spanked. Unless I had been VERY naughty the spanking was never hard. My aunt once told me that a "well spanked little boy" was always more relaxed for his enema. Only later in life did I realize that she just plain liked to spank ... but fortunately for me, not too hard.

Forgot to mention one more thing my aunt used to say that is relevant to the topic .... "The only things you need to raise naughty little boys are a paddle, an enema bag, and lots of TLC." I survived, and still love all three.

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Forgot to mention one more thing my aunt used to asy that is relevant to the topic .... "The only things you need to raise naughty little boys are a paddle, an enema bag, and lots of TLC." I survived, and still love all three.

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Stan,

I think that your aunt had a pretty good understanding of the relationship between spanking and enemas.

A spanking creates enough relaxation to keep one from struggling against the enema. It is a paradox but the slight pain of the spanking removes most of the pain and resistance to the enema.

My aunt and grandmother also belived in the enema, paddle, and love combination!

"A paddle, enema bag, and love". Why should that philosophy apply to only boys. I think many girls, even young ladies; perhaps even "older" young ladies, would benefit from that philosophy. What say you ladies?

What makes enema play erotic?

It is the deepest, most thorough form of penetration possible in realm of play.

No other form of play enables the Dom to "own" so much of the Submissive’s internal body. The fluid travels deep inside producing an intense feeling of painless internal pressure sensation, followed by intensive very deep and filling penetration, pressing out against the inner walls.

On the outside, there may be nothing to see – until the second quart of solution is administered. Then the Bottom’s belly resembles stretched and well tuned drum, bulging and showing on the outside how liquid travels in. At this point – gently administered massage to lower abdomen or internal vibrations will send the bottom to so far unknown dimensions of pleasure.

The Bottom's experience is very intense and therefore the Dom must be completely in tune with the Bottom. Read the signs of Bottom’s body; know just when to slow or stop the flow. The Bottom will beg for an encore. Guaranteed!!!

Trained and experienced Bottom can take up to five or six quarts of solution deep inside. It may not be believed but even at this stage it is possible to walk around without any urges to evacuate. No need for an inflatable butt plug nor double balloon rectal catheter, although with those inserted deep inside gives even more intense feeling of pleasure.

Many Submissives like to be deprived of some of their sensory senses, like eyesight, hearing or both during the procedure so they can fully concentrate on this intense penetration. Also being immobilized like tied up or suspended is very much requested experience inducing very powerful and potent sexual excitement.

To me, giving is just as rewarding as receiving.

I had the wonderful experience of being spanked after I had been given an enema...when the enema was over I was ordered over a mistresses knee for a spanking while another mistress looked on. When the mistress administering the spanking decided to stop I was made to stand up while the two mistresses changed places. The mistress that had been watching now made me lie over her lap and she then carried on spanking me while the mistress that had just spanked me watched on...I really enjoyed it and would love to do it again!

Actually...I will do it again!

I can assure you that adult ladies enjoy the spanking and enema very, very much.

Personally a sound spanking on bare ass with bare hands followed by enema is the most incredible experience. 😃 😉

A nice warm up spanking OTK

Some corner time while the bag is being prepared

A reminder spank or two right before the enema is administered

Stern warnings to take all the bag

More corner time while holding

After release, a proper OTK spanking

This wasn't always the case for me - but ever since we started really getting involved in BDSM, I have found out how arousing a spanking can be!

Getting spanked before my enema loosens me up, and gets me ready to play! I feel more relaxed, and definitely more randy!

Such Fun!

Enemas can be great when combined with the spanking. I like to take my time and drag the spanking out over an hour. First secure the nozzle in the sub and then set the control on a drip feed. Whatever control is up to you. I have my own set up with a clamp and hose that I got from a medical supply store. I can release just over a quart an hour. The cramps hit after about thirty minutes and continue and grow with frequency and regularity causing pain and distraction, which will bring more punishment. If the sub is on a cross it is very painful since they cannot bend over. They are in delicious pain.

I've found that the two can go hand-in-hand. A spanking beforehand also makes the buttocks more sensitive (and there's something appealing about having a nozzle or bulb syringe poking out of a freshly-reddened bottom).

I've also turned a woman over my knee after the enema, demanding that she retain it while I spanked her; it seemed to distress her greatly — but also turned her on a great deal.

I'd have to agree that spankings and enemas go hand-in-hand. All the better if other actions/implements are included: temp taking, suppositories, figging. Restraints, too, if the subject is uncooperative. What I wouldn't do, if some day that I was being unruly my hubby would take my firmly by the arm and ask me if I was feeling OK (me being inclined to be less well behaved if I am not feeling well). I know where his request is going, so I insist that I feel fine. He says he'll be the judge of that. He walks me to our bedroom, bends me over the bed, checks my temp (preceded by a few spanks, since I'd likely protest), and declares that I have no fever, which means I'm just being naughty, and therefore will require "straightening out". What follows would include a suppository (maybe more), a sound spanking with a fig in place, then an enema, and all the while he'd be lecturing me that if I learned to behave and act like a grown up, then maybe I wouldn't be treated like a little girl, followed by a another little spanking and temp taking after expelling. After that, I'd be suitably chastened, and further, for his benefit, so compliant (read: grateful that he cares so much) that he could do anything else he'd want to me, after which he would put me to bed.

This girl will continue to dream...

You are my kind of WOMAN! I know how you feel as the woman I'm dating has the same attitude about Spankings/Enemas,and I have been into both all of my life since my early teens.Nothing better than a RED HOT bare ASS getting a large volume Enema,and some stinging smacks of a thin wood Paddle on that squirming/flinching Ass.When the Enema Bag is empty she is sent to the bathroom to expel with the promise of another HOT Spanking when returning from the bathroom all clean inside,and out.The second Spanking will be with a Paddle/Strap,and that RED HOT STINGING ASS will then be ready for another Enema? Or???? Have done this scene many times,and have also switched with my partner,and let her give me the same Her way!! Wish we were closer to one another? Sounds like we could have some HOT times?? Good Luck!

Here is an incident that happened (or was imagined) several years ago to me.

I was at a party hosted by a good friend of mine. His girlfriend, Sue, was spending a lot of time with me. She suggested we go for a walk outside. Now, the party was being held on my friend's farm. It was July and very hot. When we got outside, we found that it was so dark that we were only a few steps away from the house before we were totally plunged into blackness. Sue turned almost immediately and started kissing me long and deep. I was taken by complete surprise. She was my friend's girl, after all. I kissed her back and then after a few more minutes of tongue hockey, she said to me, "You can do anything you want to me". The first thing that came into my mind was "How about a nice spanking and then a hot soapy enema".Why I thought that I don't know. After a few more minutes of kissing, she repeated her earlier statement. "You can do anything you want to me."

I decided to test her. I told her to come to my apartment the following night and I wanted her to dress in a particular way. "How?" she asked. I told her. I wanted her to wear a really nice dress and underneath it she was to be wearing a black corset, black seamed nylons and heels. She said "where am I supposed to get that stuff from?". I told her to use her imagination. We then went back to join the party. My friend, by the way, had not noticed that I had been outside with Sue.

The next day I bought a rubber bulb syringe and a tube of KY. I had everything laid out on the bedside table in my apartment. Then I sat, read and waited. Seven o clock and no Sue. I figured that I had scared her off. About 7:30, the intercom buzzer sounded and I answered. "Hey, it's me, Sue". I buzzed her in.

When I opened the door, I was pleasantly surprised. She was wearing a very pretty, flowing black cocktail dress. As she walked ahead of me i could see she was wearing black seamed stockings. All right, I thought. She turned and was in my arms in a flash, kissing me the way she had the night before. She was very horny, as was I. Well, it's now or never, i thought. "So I can do anything I want to you, is that the deal?" I asked. She grinned and nodded. "Well, have you had a really good spanking lately?" She kept her smile and said "If that's what you've got in mind, let' do it".

I lead her into the bedroom and she saw the bulb syringe on the table. "Ohh", she cooed. "Is that for me?" I just laughed. I told her to take off her dress while I prepared the syringe.

I left the room to fill the bulb with hot water and filled a small basin besides. I brought them into the bedroom. She was ready for me. She had on a gorgeous black corset which had little red roses appliqued here and there. The garter straps of the corset were attached to very sheer black nylons which were very long. They came up to the top of her thighs. She turned and showed me the backs of the stockings. Seamed, all the way up into the dark welts of the stockings. "Very nice" I said. She was not wearing any panties. When I mentioned this, she said "You didn't say anything about panties". She was right. Her pussy was covered in soft downy red hair.

I sat on the edge of the bed and motioned her over. I took her arm and pulled her over my lap. What a sight. Her ass cheeks were perfectly framed by the edge of the corset and her nylons, which ended just below her ass cheeks. I asked her if she was ready. She looked over her shoulder, smiled and nodded.

I began to spank her ass. One cheek then the other. Over and over again. She began to squirm and squeal but she never said for me to stop. As I slapped her ass, it began to glow bright pink. I spanked her for a good 10 minutes. As I did, I could see that her ass cheeks began spreading under my slaps. I could see the brownish pink crinkle of her ass hole. I was VERY hard.

I stopped spanking and asked if she was ready for part two of her "fun". "Oh yes", she moaned. I licked my index finger until it was very wet with saliva and then spreading her ass with my other hand, I slowly went to work on her anus. Before long, my finger had worked its was deep into her ass. As I poked into her ass, she was rubbing her legs together constantly and I could hear her nylons as they rubbed against each other. I pulled my finger out, reached over for the bulb and KY and then lubed the nozzle all the way to the top. I placed it against her butt hole and teased her with it. It was wider than my finger. After a bit of this teasing, I pushed harder and the nozzle slid in. I pushed it in and out several times, just an inch at a time. Finally, I pushed it all the way in and I could see the sides of the rubber bulb push against the insides of Sue's ass cheeks. "Here goes," I said. I began to squeeze.

She loved it. She was rolling her hips and moaning deeply. I pulled the nozzle out and she looked back and said "Done so soon?" I said "No. Just refilling." I did so and the nozzle was back in her ass. I gave her four or five bulbs of hot water. She was still twisting and squealing with desire and as the last of the hot water shot into her, she orgasmed on my lap. She shuddered several times and went limp. I asked her if she wanted to use the bathroom but she shook her head. I let her off my lap at which point she got down on her knees in front of me. She unzipped my jeans and then gave me the blow job of my young life. As I came, she swallowed everything I had to give her.

This is likely my greatest fantasy, and I love the idea both ways, although the enema is not necessarily to punish. Shortly after dinner:

"Have you forgotten what I told you this morning? Yes, I do mean that you HAVE to have an enema today. I will not have you avoiding that need. You have earned yourself a good spanking. We are going into the bathroom right NOW. Those slacks, and undershorts/panties are coming off. You are going over my lap, bare bottomed, for a good spanking. You will stand in your corner there, while I mix a good enema for you. I jsut may decide to spank you a 2nd time after I give you your enema."

Just did this once. A guy I met wanted to role play so he was the naughty college freshman that got spanked and then had to take an enema. It was very erotic for both and the sex after was incredible. He was 22 at the time and I was 29.

For punishment enemas, a spanking(12 swats) is given before having to prepare the bag, another just proir to insertion of the nozzle(after lubing the bottom) and last one after bag has gurgled sounding the fact that it is empty

I guess it would be hard to spank with enema when solo. But I think there would be some benefit to combining the two. After reading the posts, I'm glad to know I'm not the only person with those kind of thoughts.

I would like to receive an enema session from a female who uses spanking prior to and during the enema. A sharp smack with the paddle would overcome the urge to resist until the bag is emptied.

Am I way off base in this scenario? or does this make sense?

Greetings, I'm new to this site/blog and forum. I guess my main interest is domestic styled spanking, hand bare bottom, OTK, primarily the bottoms of men. In talking to others over the years, I was impressed that an equal number of young men who enjoyed being spanked by older men, or women, also said an enema was included. Do others with an interest in colonic irrigation have associations with spanking?? Just curious.

Thanks, Professorredbottom

My playmate likes to have her bottom spanked just before I insert the enema nozzle. She prefers a bare hand.

For me (and my adult "little girl"), the spanking interest came first, then other anal play, and now we are discussing how to introduce enema play for the first time. I think I lean towards spanking before the enema is administered, but have also read some very nice material about spanking a naughty bottom while an enema is being retained!

Why choose before or after when you can do both? Or, if you're already doing punishment scenerios, then the enema could be instead.

More seriously, these things are very specific to your relationship and play. In a long term partnership, which is what yours sounds like, you probably already know that sometimes even the same things work better one time than another.

What makes things really fun is the variety of experience. Try things out, and find out what works best for you.

I prefer a spanking before my enemas. The spanking makes the following enema session even hotter. I find myself wanting the enema even more with a hot bottom.

I've acted out very much the fantasy you describe with a switch friend of mine. She was a naughty schoolgirl caught playing with other girls at school. The principal had to teach her a lesson by first administering a thorough spanking and then cleansing the naughty area from the inside with a series of over-the knee bulb syringe administrations of soapy water. While holding the water in her clenched behind I inserted a finger and moved it around to make the punishment even more uncomfortable. Then a second (lighter) spanking followed before the "schoolgirl" had to rush to evacuate...

At our house, enemas are usually administered along with a spanking. Often before, but sometimes during and after the enema.

As a newbie to this site and a fantasizer about enemas, to date, I wondered if many folks combine OTK spanking with an enema? On one hand, it strikes me as a perfectly logical thing if you are already in "position." On the other, it could be a royal PITA ... moreso than normal, reasonable, or healthy. I've read about enemas being used for punishment although I have not yet experienced this, and certainly spanking can be used for punishment (I have felt that). But, how do they combine? Thanks, one and all.

We combine them in all kinds of ways. Sometimes my boyfriend spanks me first then has me get into position to receive my enema. Other times he's spanked me while it's flowing into me, and while I'm holding it.