Spanking and Enemas

How many of you combine enemas and spanking?

Eve Howard (Shadow Lane) wrote first about spanking then finally added enemas, perhaps after getting more nerve to admit her enema interest.

For me, the two go together: a spanking beforehand makes the enema go easier. The spanking takes much of the stress and fight away so the enema starts out with a relaxed and surrendered subject.

Anyone else combining the two (or interested in doing so?)

John

I will keep this post short and sweet- according to M. R. Strict, who wrote Intimate Invasions- the guide to erotic enema play- the nozzle should never go in until after the butt is red from spanking or what have you- I fully agree. There are very few exceptions to this rule.

In all honesty, we have been experimenting with combining spanking with my enemas. At first, we were trying to see if my holding time and capacity could increase with the addition of spanking to the sessions. As we have progressed, it seems that when done sufficiently, both can be increased! I would think that concern with the inflicted pain of spanking overrides the urgency that a warm, soapy solution causes. No other explanation comes to mind. I have heard that there is a point that can be reached that is like 'nirvana' during a spanking session. We have yet to achieve that, but I have felt recently that it is just a short step away. We will continue to try to get there!

Just curious if anyone in the group has experienced receiving an enema while being spanked with vibrator stimulation. I've often fantasized what an combo enema session that would feel like. Expiring minds want to know. 😉

When I was 12 or 13, I was at my aunts house with my mom and dad one weekend. While they were outside I found my aunts bulb syringe in the hall bathroom so, I started using it and everytime my mom or aunt would come inside for something I would be in the bathroom.

They started to assume that I was constipated so, my aunt pulled out a jar of suppositories and gave it to my mother which immediately lead me to my aunts bedroom and had me pull my pants down and lay face down on the bed while she inserted the suppository with my aunt standing in the doorway watching. I didn't learn and still continued to experiment with the bulb syringe while they were still outside and of course they still caught me in the bathroom each time they came inside. Then they thought that I was really constipated that the suppository wasn't working and then my mom asked my aunt if she had an enema bag and my aunt told her that she had the bulb syringe and when my aunt picked up the bulb she noticed that it was wet and then she realized that I had to be playing with it and she told my mom what she had found. I was called into my aunts bedroom and confronted with what they had found out that I was doing and told since I thought enemas were fun that I was going to receive a punishment enema and a spanking. I was told to take off all my clothes, I started begging and pleading but I was told either I take off my clothes or they will do it for me, my mom removed my belt from my pants and told to get across her lap and my aunt went into the bathroom were I could hear her running water preparing my enema. I started kicking and screaming along with crying, then my aunt came in the room and grab my legs to help hold me down while I was getting my spanking and finally when that was over she pulled my butt apart so my mom could lube my hole while still across her lap and then the several insertions of a very warm soapy enema begin. I received two other enemas after the soap inwhich one of them was given by my aunt with a couple of hard swats afterwards.

That never stopped my interest in enemas surprisingly enough but, it definitely I believe sparked my interest in receiving spankings with the enemas

I had a friend that, like me, also liked spankings and enemas. She made the statement to me one time, "Spankings and enemas go together like salt and pepper." I always thought that was a good analogy. 😃

JohnF: You've sparked a lot of interest here! I'm wishing I had someone to subject me to treatment like that received by MEH. I take every chance I can get to visit an e-dominatrix, who will alternate spanking and paddling with punishment enemas, preferably several rounds. Unfortunately, I don't get many chances. In my fantasies, enemas, spankings, light bondage and domination are intimately linked.

I have found that most enema enthusiasts are also spanking enthusiasts but the reverse is not necessarily true.

I prefer the hand, definitely a more personal contact on one's bare ass but, I like the belt and an occasional hair brush.

I sometimes just need to spank him, it makes me feel good. So if I combine his favorite with something painful maybe he'll take more of them for me.

Gee, I feel left out...Sniff...I have never combined enemas and spankings, could be interesting. :'(

My first gf delighted in spanking my bare ass with her hairbrush whenever I pissed her off. Then to my shock, after receiving a very hard spanking I felt something going up my ass, at first I thought it was her finger but then I felt this strange twinge in my stomach and I looked back and saw her holding a red combination bag full of hot water and smirking and telling me to take it like a man, I had no choice. It was awsome, I'll never forget it.

Great comments from everyone...

I think that a significant spanking helps in taking more water. (By significant, I mean that it is hard enough and lasts long enough to cause the person to surrender and relax. They need to be able to get through the initial reaction and into a zone where the spanking may still hurt, but becomes more stimulation than pain.)

It is much easier to take the enema after being spanked to the point of surrender: large volumes are easier, in my experience.

As far as the nozzle coming out, I agree that a drug store nozzle wouldn't stay in during a vigorous spanking. We use the inexpensive green barium nozzles: they stay in pretty well. There is a nozzle in the Klystra set that is fat and short: it will stay in during the most vigorous spanking and resulting thrashing around!

John

I love being spanked. Spankings before, during, and after enemas are really a turn-on for me. I admit that the spankings I prefer are not too hard, so it is not difficult to keep the nozzle deep inside while being spanked. Unfortunately, the man I am dating now refuses to spank me or give me enemas. He won't even discuss it. I tease him about needing an enema and he only frowns at me. Occasionally, he will swat my bottom, but nothing significant and definitely nothing that arouses me. I will keep trying! :-\

Lynn,

I hope you don't mind some unsolicited advice.

The sooner that you let your boyfriend know how important enemas and spankings are to you, the better your chances will likely be that he will participate.

There are lots of men and women who hint around but their partner never really understands until you become so frustrated and resentful that you are really mad. By that time, your partner will associate your anger with the subject! (not good)

Telling a partner directly may feel risky but weigh that risk with the risk of spending years unfullfilled...

There are lots of men out there who are either into enemas and spanking OR will participate because they want to please you.

My mistress will occasionally take me across her lap and give me a hot, soapy enema using a bulb syringe with a large douche nozze prior to a harsh paddling. She says the enema gets me in the right frame of mind and helps me to take my punishment better. I have to agree, but she still wields a mean paddle.

I'll go along with a mild spanking that turns me pink (not hard and red) and the humiliating enema. If a spanking and enema aren't a bit humiliating, then why bother?

Because as a child I was emarrased when I was asked to undress for my enemas, and my parents liekd to administer them on the table, I resisted as much as I could. This always ended up iwth a short, angry spanking and my cheeks were always red when parted for the nozzle.

One of my biggest fantasies involves spankings and enemas. Have given and received lots of spankings over the year but never added enemas to the mix. Have given myself one before but never with a spanking involved...

My ex-girlfriend was very much into enemas and some BDSM. I would often spank her butt as she lay naked over the edge of the bed. I would only use my bare hand so that I could carefully gauge the force of the slaps. And besides, using my hand gave me the pleasure of feeling the impact against the "target".

I eventually extended the spanking scenario to her enema sessions. As I mentioned in another post, she eventually worked her way up to take a 4-quart enema without too much discomfort. On one of those 4-quart occasions, I helped her up off the bathroom floor after she finished her second 2-quart bag. Her belly was noticeably pushed out and round, which was a perfect invitation for a few playful slaps across her bloated belly. With careful measure, I used my hand to slap her belly button, lightly at first, and then progressively harder, which ended up making a resounding pop as my hand contacted the hollow indentation of her innie belly button. Her full belly did not jiggle or quiver as it normally did when it was empty. After several pops and slaps to her belly button, the vibrations of the multiple impacts must have induced some cramps, which quickly created the need for her to expel her water. It was certainly fun for both of us.

When I was thirteen my family went to the shore for a two weeks vacation. I had to stay behind for a few days because of a minor operation and the followup doctor's appointment. A young student nurse was hired to stay in the house so that I would not be alone and she would later drive me down to join the family. The second day I guess I was particularly obnoxious and after many lectures on my behavior she grabbed me by the ear and dragged me upstairs to my bedroom where I was greeted by my father's razor strop lying on the bed and a bulging enema hanging on a bedpost. I ended up with the reddest buttocks in town, the cleanest bowels, and an empty prostate because of an embarrassing ejaculation during the punishment session.

I never received an enema as punishment. I received many enemas from my mother growing up. I got enemas for not moving my bowels, when I had a bad cold or when I felt poorly. My mother believed in enemas, I grew up in the 50s. Mom gave enemas to my brother and I, to herself and to my dad when he was not well. My mother did not have much patience if we resisted, I remember on one particular occasion when I was called for an enema, I whined and resisted and said I would not take the enema, I was around ten or eleven years old at the time. My mother grabbed me, turned me over her knee and whipped my bottom and the back of my thighs with the enema hose. It hurt like hell and I screamed and cried. Mom said I would either cooperate and take the enema or she would whip me good with the hose and have my father hold me down for the enema. I am curious if anyone else ever got spanked with a enema hose; the pain was terrible, it left welts and I felt the sting for two days. I would have rather been spanked with her hairbrush rather then that hose I never resisted another enema after that experience; I would just take it until she was through.

I would put it in order of spanking, temp, then enema. A playful 😄 otk, bare bottomed, spanking; followed by a rectal temp to see if she was "warmed" enough (maybe half to repeat the spanking and temp 😉 ), then a warm S/S enema followed by a tepid rinse enema to cool her off (or maybe that would make her REALLY HOT) 😁. Oh well fantasy..fantasy. IMHO a little playful consensual spanking is not untoward.

One of my best and all time favorite enema experiences was when my partner spanked me after the enema. I had to take the full bag while across her lap, then she took the hairbrush to my behind. I had to ask permission to get up and release, to which she first replied "No" and continued the punishment.

When my mother got really mad She would take me in the bathroom, strip me nude, take me over her knee and spank my bare ass. Then give me an enema until it really hurt. After I expelled it I would get another bare ass spanking and another enema. I knew once we got in the bathroom there was no getting out for some time. Same thing to my sister. I used to get next to the bathroom door and listen to her scream. I knew she did the same to me

My sister and I got similar treatment. I can certainly relate to jim8885. Back then, I would have been happy to take more bare ass spanking to skip the painful enema part.

A sexy female back talks me then clothes are completely remove and she bent over knee butt is then soaked and spanking appplied followed by 4 qt high enemas spanking then continues, while fingers the vagina for added pleasure

I never in my life recall a spanking and enema being combined; however, I received many of both growing up in the 50's. As I have said before, I think there are simply "enema" and "non-enema" families.

No secret here, I guess, since I am posting on this site, but for the "Well,duh?" group, let me state I grew up in an enema family. (smile) But corporal punishment always had a sort of fascination for me also. In my family it was pretty much assumed that any family member/caregiver taking care of a child had carte blanche in administering whatever health care (enemas) or discipline (spankings) they deemed appropriate.

My father seldom disciplined me, and for some reason he chose to leave it mostly up to my mother. He was a good barker, but not much of a biter. On the other hand, my mother really took charge with an iron hand when she had decided she had had enough of my crap, I would be hauled into the bathroom, accompanied by my mom and her trusty ruler, and my pants would be yanked down and I would be placed over her knee, and with incredible deftness she would lower my pants, place me over one knee, and put her other leg over the back of my knees and slowly and methodically start in on my bottom with that ruler and not let me up until she had turned my bottom a very deep red and had me crying my eyes out.

But the strangest of all were the ritual punishments my aunt used to inflict upon me which I viewed as most traumatic at the time, but in adulthood reflection now I realize were sexual. She was left in charge of me for sometimes several days in a row and seemed to use the slightest pretext to give me a "good switching."

Whenever she announced that she intended to switch me for some misdeed, I would be required to go into my bedroom and remove all of my clothes and put on only my robe and slippers and then go out into the yard and pick a switch for her to use on me. This in itself was embarrassing, but the neighbor lady used to seem to always be out in her yard and always gave a sort of knowing smile when she would see me out in the yard in my robe and slippers picking my switch.

After I returned to the house and presented the switch to my aunt and she had examined it to make sure it was supple enough for the purpose, we proceeded to the bathroom where I was required to remove my robe and bend over the edge of the bathtub (in exactly the same position I was required to assume to get my enemas), and after a cursory lecture on my misdeeds she would start in on my bottom with the switch. I was always a blubbering mess by the first few strokes, but she was not deterred and worked her way up and down my bottom until she was well satisfied with the look of it. She never hit me on the back or the legs and only seemed focused on my bottom, but focused she was. After it was all over, I was required to stand in the corner until I had calmed down and was then allowed to go to my room and go to bed.

For some reason this seemed okay with my mother because it seemed that for some reason the severity of her punishments seemed to be sort of a source of humor, since she was single and didn't have any kids and the fact that she, "Doesn't put up with any nonsense" seemed to have some level of appeal.

Fautless50,

Sounds like you sufferred significant child abuse. Do you think your aunt was a sadist?

We maintain a mild BDSM relationship. My wife is often spanked before, during or after an enema. They can also take on all forms - erotic, maintenance or punishment....all are good for me...the giver.